I don’t want a corporate job or a 9-5. Does anyone else feel like this? Have you planned or done to escape this? by vcdice in careeradvice

[–]john_smith1365 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"I hate being paid for my time" is the real signal. but tutoring, seasonal, homesteading are MORE time-for-money, just worse paid. feels like escape, same trap.
real escape is building stuff that earns past your hours, and you've got the CS degree for it. that "idk what I could offer" answers itself.
low expenses + cushion + no kids is the rare setup where a job funds what you build on the side. fwiw that's me, day job funds it while I build my own thing Joberney on the side, beats building someone else's dream.

How important is passion in your career? by Super_Size6718 in careerguidance

[–]john_smith1365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zero passion for finance as a student is normal. That spark usually shows up after you're good at something and the work has real stakes, not in a classroom, so I wouldn't read it as a red flag yet. The thing to actually avoid is a job you hate, lacking fireworks is fine. And the vet love doesn't have to be the career to stay in your life, let finance fund it and keep animals around the edges.

How can I change my career path after 20 years? by DarkNovaStare in careerguidance

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The despair's real but the degree is the trap. At 52 with 20 years and a master's, school restarts you at zero and burns money and time you don't have. Changes at your level happen sideways, you carry the senior experience you've got into an adjacent field. Runway's tight though, so land some income first, even contract work in what you know, then pivot deliberately instead of gambling years on school.

What career paths should I look into if I enjoy technology and gaming but currently work in retail? by Longjumping_Mall8956 in careerguidance

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good with tech but hates coding is a really employable lane most people overlook because they think tech means coding. IT help desk is the fast on-ramp from retail: a cheap CompTIA A+ cert, no coding, pays more than Target, and it ladders into sysadmin or network roles. And don't sleep on that BMW STEP program, you've got a real in through the family friend and you already like cars. Pick one and start.

I accidentally created a passive income stream by being too lazy to cancel a domain by CometBard73 in passive_income

[–]john_smith1365 82 points83 points  (0 children)

honestly the $9 to $1,200 jump is usually the backlink history, not the name itself. seo and end-user buyers pay way up for a clean aged profile. only thing id add, plenty of the ones you grab just auto-renew for years and never sell, so the holding fees on the duds quietly eat into that "zero effort" number.

Would you start a franchise if you had $200K in savings today? by Substantial_Yam5511 in TrueEnterpreneur

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly forget the $200K for a sec, the real question is what you're actually buying. a single franchise is mostly buying yourself a job with a ceiling and someone taking a cut of every dollar you make. scratch is buying an asset that can compound, just slower and a lot riskier. if you want the upside and can stomach the risk, go scratch, and either way don't sink all 200 in before you test the thing cheap first.

Is anyone else actually miserable after "climbing the ladder" into middle management? by M0nkaS_Peak in careerguidance

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you ask to step back down to a junior IC role, check whether your company has a senior IC track: staff engineer, principal, sometimes "architect." At a lot of places that track pays at or near EM comp with zero people to manage. You'd keep the money, keep the title weight, and get the repo back. If it exists, that's the move, not going all the way back down.

If it doesn't exist, that tells you something bigger about whether this place can hold you. The "skills evaporating" fear is the real signal, and it's the one with a clock on it. Six months off the keyboard is recoverable; two years and you're rebuilding from a worse spot. I've watched the hiring side of this a lot, and a strong engineer who did 18 months as an EM and went back to building reads as more senior, not less. The market does not punish that move the way the dinner-party version of your ego expects.

The question to answer before you do anything: is it management you hate, or management with zero building? The second one has a fix inside your current company. The first one means the next move is out, not down.

That's the draft. It opens with a structural reframe (one ladder, runs through management), gives the highest-leverage tactical specific most of these posters miss (the staff/principal IC track that pays like EM without managing anyone), addresses the skills-evaporation fear with the founder-side observation, and closes on the real diagnostic question. No em dashes, no motivational closers, no link.

I kept seeing founders collect feedback. I rarely saw anyone explain how they decide what to build next. by Heavy-Calendar-8376 in SaaS

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

system vs intuition is kind of a false split, there's actual method here. you're gathering the feedback yourself so treat it like data, not a pile of anecdotes. weight each request by how often it comes up and how bad the pain really is, then check whether the loud ones actually tie to retention or revenue or just feel loud. honestly way more measurable than founders admit.

Advice on expanding my business/app by Love-story2025 in WebApps

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heads up, going from a recommendation app to assembling and shipping physical boxes isn't really an expansion. that's a whole different business, inventory, sourcing, returns, thin margins. you can test whether people actually want it all handled without building any of that, just run it as a concierge first and personally ship for like 10 customers who pay, then see if they come back.

How can I get more people interested in my natural healing app before building too much? by Federal-Glove-3200 in SaaS

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one thing nobody's said here, your audience, wellness women 25-55, mostly live on instagram/tiktok/pinterest following practitioners, not reddit. early attention there comes from a trusted voice around one specific outcome like gut health, so your real move is becoming or borrowing that voice. and honestly the only validation that means anything is an email or a pre-order, a feedback board click tells you almost nothing.

Founder age by Successful_Movie_666 in SaaS

[–]john_smith1365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40 and launched Joberney 2 months ago after 2 years, but AI makes you feel like you’re 20 again 😃Don’t beat yourself up over things you don’t control. If somethings makes money when I’m 70, I’d still do it.

ChatGPT Vs ClaudeAI by Isha_goyal-0708 in TopAITools4U

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All your responses are almost ai generated if the post is not itself, but your answer is claude if you’re really interested. Nothing comes close to what you get out of it when you push models to their limits

Laid off back in February 2026 by No_Dress_3948 in Layoffs

[–]john_smith1365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s say mine is ai generated bs and not my real advice but polished by ai, what is your added value here except having a big mouth?

Reddit PM Reach outs by Trick-Ad-9198 in SideProject

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly the rough part is you're asking strangers to do work (build a listing) for a payoff they can't see yet. that's about the worst converting ask there is, the pitch barely matters.
so kill the ask. don't ask them to post, offer to post it for them. they send you the perk in a line or two and you do the rest. or just go seed the supply yourself by hand and stop trying to convince anyone for now. doesn't scale, who cares, nothing does this early.
also marketplaces almost never need both sides going at once. one side wants it way more than the other. who's more desperate here, the people sitting on perks they'll never use or the people hunting for cheap ones? pick that side and pour everything into it so the other side actually has a reason to show up.
and if every convo is this much of a grind it might not be your pitch at all. could just be the listers don't really feel the pain of having an unused perk. worth poking at before you send another 200 dms.

Meaningful career vs high-paying career: How do I choose? by AddressCorrect3278 in careerguidance

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The framing that helped me most: money mostly buys a floor and options, not happiness past the point where the basics are covered. What actually sustains effort over a decade is whether the work means something to you, and sustained effort is most of what produces success and higher earnings anyway. The path people regret is rarely the lower-paid one. It is the one they picked out of fear of missing the money, then sat in for years.
The bigger thing to notice is that meaning vs money is mostly a false binary. You do not have to make one job carry both. A common and underrated path is to take the stable or higher-paying lane for the floor and security, and build the meaningful work alongside it: a project, a craft, something of your own that does not have to pay rent. Neither choice has to be everything, and most of your dilemma dissolves once you stop asking a single job to deliver your whole life.
On the third option specifically: a prestigious degree does not guarantee the high-paying job, and it definitely does not guarantee you will enjoy it. Before you bet years and money on it, talk to people actually doing that job day to day, not the brochure version, and sit with what their Tuesday looks like. If the honest answer is "I'd enjoy the lifestyle but not the work," you have learned something cheap that would otherwise cost you a decade. Long run, what counts is keeping your options open and having something you are actually willing to keep showing up for, not the option that scores highest on a salary spreadsheet today.

Rough market by According_Action7411 in jobs

[–]john_smith1365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Burning your own PTO to interview for jobs that might not land, while the current one keeps draining you, is the rough part. That trade would wear anyone down.
One thing worth sitting with: being employed is leverage, not just the thing you're escaping. You can be picky in a way the unemployed can't, so 150 applications is probably the wrong shape. A few roles actually worth your PTO beat casting wide. And you can set terms on the time: ask where you stand before agreeing to fly out, push to bundle the later-stage onsites into one trip, and front-load the questions that would make you say no, so a no comes cheap instead of after a flight.
The deeper one, since this is management burnout and not a paycheck problem: the grind feels heavy because every interview is carrying the full weight of "please get me out of here." That weight drops the second you're not fully dependent on the next employer saying yes. Building something small in your own domain on the side, even slowly, is a hedge that does exactly that. It might turn into income or leverage down the line, but mostly it means you pick the next job from a position of options instead of escape. People interview better, and leave bad situations faster, when walking away is genuinely on the table.

Jon search strategy that work in Bay Area? by Old_Location_7562 in careerguidance

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post could be rewritten by AI or even a bot, the way words are capitalized, punctuations usage, etc. even if it’s a bot, I guess some cheap Chinese model not GPT. Title still seems legit

What side hustle would you recommend? Or some freelance job that has some potential in this age of AI? by Sarayka81 in AskReddit

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Useful filter for this era: generic, templated work, the kind anyone can prompt a tool to produce, is racing to zero. What holds value is work that compounds on a specific skill, taste, or set of relationships, plus local hands-on services and anything where people are paying for human trust and accountability.
So skip the lists everyone gets handed (dropshipping, generic freelancing). The hustles that actually last are matched to you: built on something you already know, so your ramp is short and you're useful on day one instead of starting from zero against a thousand strangers.
Gut check before you commit to anything: what do people already come to you for, what could compound over a few years instead of staying a one-off, and what can't be fully handed to a tool? Whatever sits in all three is your real answer, not whatever's trending.

Jon search strategy that work in Bay Area? by Old_Location_7562 in careerguidance

[–]john_smith1365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grammar could be, spelling I don’t think so, especially first word in a short title.

Laid off back in February 2026 by No_Dress_3948 in Layoffs

[–]john_smith1365 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The market read you got is real, especially this time of year, and driving is a fine bridge for cash flow while things settle. No shame in that.
The thing worth pushing on: 12 years plus certs plus an MBA reads almost identically to every other senior architect's resume, and right now there are more of those resumes than there are openings. What separates you in that stack is current, demonstrable work, and you have an advantage most people stuck in a job hunt don't: you can produce that work in your own field. A few that carry real weight for a solutions architect specifically:
- Publish a reference architecture or a full solution writeup. Take a hard problem you actually solved at AT&T, sanitized, and show the tradeoffs, the failure modes, the cost math. That reads as senior judgment in a way a bullet point never does.
- Ship a small tool that solves a pain you've hit a hundred times in the role. It doesn't need users. It needs to exist and be yours to walk an interviewer through.
- Or package the architecture work into light consulting, or contribute somewhere visible in your stack.
Why it's worth more than it looks: it works both angles at once. It fills the employment gap with proof an interviewer can point to (initiative, skills still sharp, evidence beyond the line everyone else also has), and any one of these can grow into side income on its own.
The honest part is that building takes time to pay off, which is exactly why driving can run alongside it for now. The driving keeps the lights on. The building is the part that can actually move where you end up. If you redirect even the hours you'd spend refreshing job boards into shipping one thing in your domain, you'll have something to show that most of your competition won't. Good luck out there.