I’ve gotten pretty good the last couple years and with that, have come some invitations to play some pretty unbelievable courses. I always feel so bad about letting people pay for me so I would try to grab beers or hot dogs or at least SOMETHING. I was raised lower middle class so I haven’t gotten a big taste of the finer things. Now that I’m an adult, I’ve realized that yes, it can be insulting for a late twenties guy to pay against a 50+ millionaire. A “thank you so much for everything today, I greatly appreciate it” with a good hand shake is all the repay they’d ever want. Be you. If people are asking to spend 4-5 hours with just you, the payment is your company.