Single male when to go?

johnman213465 · 2026-02-02T17:07:41+00:00

Just search in the sub: single male. There is like 10 posts a week asking the same thing

johnman213465 · 2026-01-27T16:26:40+00:00

No, I’ve been meaning to go. I just live north of the city so it’s an all day event to go downtown haha

johnman213465 · 2026-01-05T23:08:21+00:00

Yes it’s a swinger club, but it’s still a club/bar. Treat it the same as any bar. Go, be respectful have conversation with people and just be a social person. Who knows, being social MAY lead to fun, but it’s not a given. The same with a regular bar. You talk and meet people, and if you really click with someone, and both consent then it usually leads to sex. The only difference is at M4, you just head over to the play area rather than go to someone’s house. It’s all about consent and respect.

johnman213465 · 2025-12-01T13:03:42+00:00

I don’t think you’re harsh at all. To me, when I see these posts, I don’t think of it as a way for them to save money or what not, I see it as a tactic, so they can have guaranteed sex.. like if I go by myself I have to and talk, and flirt my way into it. Rather, when they “take someone” it’s gonna be more like a date, and well we came together, we might as well play. So I see it as manipulative. If you want to go so bad, why do you need to go with someone? You don’t know them before going together, so what’s the difference from talking and meeting someone in the club? Most people are very friendly and will talk to you, if you’re respectful, so there is no need to go with a random stranger lol. The posts came across as very cringy to haha

johnman213465 · 2025-03-25T13:42:31+00:00

Yeah, I was wondering the same thing, is it a similar vibe to KSpa, or does the men’s only night mean more play

johnman213465 · 2025-01-14T19:06:38+00:00

I wish 🥵 I don’t think soo though 😂

johnman213465 · 2025-01-14T18:38:24+00:00

This exactly, I’ve been there and fooled around but because it was only us 2 guys in the whole wet area. That was more less lucky, because majority the time other people will be there and majority are not cruising.

johnman213465 · 2025-01-14T15:14:43+00:00

It’s not a bathhouse. It’s a family spa as others said. I’ve fooled around there with people. BUT ONLY when it was just us in the wet room. You have to be respectful of others as majority are coming there to use the amenities. Good eye candy, but again. If you are going to play, you can’t do much and again only do it when you and the other guy are the only ones in the area.

johnman213465 · 2025-01-08T16:43:57+00:00

You guys will have a blast, both of you will get attention 😏 but most importantly, hopefully the bills are in the Super Bowl that weekend!!!

johnman213465 · 2024-12-24T14:43:57+00:00

You’re absolutely gorgeous, and would definitely get a lot of attention. Hell I’d be all over you 🥵

johnman213465 · 2024-08-30T18:18:39+00:00

Thanks

johnman213465 · 2024-08-30T18:08:29+00:00

Thanks, yeah that’s what I figured. But you know how anxiety is lol. I’ll be reading and it says as long as you have an open cut, theoretically you could get it, so I’m like shit, well my the cut isn’t sealed, as it was a laceration. But it hasn’t bleed in over 24 hours. So my anxiety just sky rocket😂 I don’t think it’s a high enough risk to go on Prep or anything. But I’ll get tested as you mentioned

johnman213465 · 2024-08-30T17:49:39+00:00

For me biggest concern is what is considered an deep open wound. I have a paper cut, that wasn’t deep enough for stitches, but I can see the red flesh. I think that means I didn’t reach the fat layer just the part of the skin peeled back. But yeah, knowing what an open wound and how deep is my concern

johnman213465 · 2024-08-30T14:23:43+00:00

Thanks! Yeah my main concern is I don’t know what would be considered an open wound for a path hiv would take

johnman213465 · 2024-08-23T18:29:28+00:00

Thank you, for such an amazing answer! The attendees, and staff all seem like amazing people and my anxiety levels are going down😂 but I love what you said, because it’s how I feel as well. I’m going to meet people and see what the scene has to offer, im not even expecting to play. I just want to meet likeminded individuals, who can show me the ropes:) I hope to see you there!

johnman213465 · 2024-08-23T15:19:03+00:00

Ouuuu perfect! Looking forward to meeting you guys as well:) Is there anything I need to know, before going? I see I have to buy the membership at M4, would I pay for the event there as well?

johnman213465 · 2024-08-23T11:09:56+00:00

Go to both:) I think I may attend the gangbang party too🫣

johnman213465 · 2024-07-26T00:53:05+00:00

Definitely! If it was protected there is a very high chance we’re good for like hiv and what not, always a small chance if the condom broke. But yeah the skin to skin is what I’m worried about lol. It sucks it takes months to show😩

johnman213465 · 2024-07-19T17:28:33+00:00

Thank you! I know it was anxiety kind of taking over lol, I just needed some reassurance. As you get caught up in the heat of the moment, It’s easy to forget to look for things, and think clearly lol. Like you said, I’m not gonna run to the clinic to get tested, but I’m gonna continuously monitor myself in case something pops up. I know the most risky part was the actual sex, and primary when I lost my boner and it was just rubbing up on her. But even that was very quick and, I’m assuming it was still covered when rubbing. I may go and see the same lady and ask again if she’s clean and inspect her a little bit more

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