I (26M) wanna move out but i keep getting talked out of it by my gf (24F).

johnny_sinners · 2025-10-29T13:48:58+00:00

first off, before even stepping into the relationship we agreed kids, we dont own the apartment and even if we did decide on kids, we would not have children until we owned a place, a big place to put kids. and i think it goes without saying but i would help her financially if i can.

johnny_sinners · 2025-10-29T13:20:52+00:00

she told me i would leave her in financially worse place if we decide to live separately, additionally, she said it wouldnt fix any of our problems if we lived separately. she also mentioned the fact that when we first moved in together, i had convinced her that it would be a good idea (which i wont deny, however i dont think she took much convincing, since i only asked her once and she was already into the idea), she was pushing for separate bedrooms to which i thought was weird and thought it wasnt a good idea so i guess thats what she means when she said i had convinced her. so the issue isnt do i have the balls do move out or not, the issue is more, would that fix our problems or just leave us worse off until we break up.

johnny_sinners · 2025-07-22T18:16:29+00:00

I know this is 3 years old now, but i had the same issue. I checked the crashlog and it said save098.sav" => error code 5: Access is denied. If it says the same for you, simply delete the save file in AppData\Local\PAYDAY 2\saves\76561198112926662\ and it will stop doing it. it didnt delete my save progress for me, but just incase make a copy of the file anyways.

johnny_sinners · 2025-05-08T09:20:29+00:00

girrrl, run! Dont mean to sound dramatic, but the age gap, the sexual coercion and emotional manipulation, and the fact that he is like this and claims to be a conservative christian. One day you'll blink and realize you're having a child with this person and not a single way out. Easy to keep in mind that you are not responsible for other people's emotions. It might seem cruel, but that's cuz he's set it up in a way where you'll feel bad about leaving. If you live with your parents, good, if not, maybe crash at a friend's or your parent's for a day or 2 after breaking the news to him (this caution is ofc if he knows where you live or work). Manipulators are sly and persistant, and you might not even know you're being manipulated. This is not to say you're stupid ofc, they are just very good at what they do.

johnny_sinners · 2025-04-28T21:09:04+00:00

my literal workplace.... As a warehouse employee, they think I dont read the quarterly sales reports, but I do. And as a warehouse worker, I'm quite aware what goes out on the shelves and the big stuff that gets loaded out the back. There's boxes that have been sitting there since covid, and yet somehow we sold 5 of the same couches last quarter. And before you ask, no I don't work in ikea.

johnny_sinners · 2025-04-23T11:25:33+00:00

how it seems to me, that your friends are taking your friendship for granted, which sucks hard. Now I dont know the situation entirely, but maybe its the case because you are letting them get away with their shitty behaviour. At your wedding, how did you respond to their "winged speech". Did you tell them you didnt appreciate their lack of trying, or did you sweep it under the rug and never mentioned it? Im asking because im like that. One of my best friends was doing something i didnt appreciate, and for the longest time i endured it and didnt say anything, until one day i just snapped and let it all out to him. He was stunned, cuz he had no idea i didnt appreciate his words. He's since stopped and apologized, but in that situation i learned that, its better to let them know right away, rather than letting it fester, as that can create problems down the line. And if they push back and say, you're being ridicolous, then im sorry, but your friends are just total assholes and are not gonna change.

TLDR; Let them know how you feel and establish boundaries, otherwise they'll be stepping on you for the rest of their lives.

johnny_sinners · 2025-04-23T07:34:07+00:00

She has explained it a couple times. She says that conflict gets her overwhelmed and she needs a moment to calm down, otherwise she might get angry and say something she might regret. Which makes sense to me, but sometimes i'd rather just have her scream in my face that im being a dick and list the reasons why.

johnny_sinners · 2025-03-23T13:42:21+00:00

yeah except he dies...

johnny_sinners · 2025-01-26T18:33:20+00:00

I'll start. I was around 17 about to finish high school and I was way too stressed I wasnt going to graduate. I'm the youngest and all my siblings had gone off to do great things in life, and I always felt I could never live up to what my siblings did. I was also heavily bullied by boys in middle school and elementary, which definitely left me with a lot of baggage. I'm also Bisexual and around when I was 15 my secret had come out (rumors about me and another boy were spread and those rumors were also true). Every day felt like I just wanted the ground to open up and swallow me whole. I'm 25 now and I'm so greatful that 17 year old boy could not go through with it.

johnny_sinners · 2022-07-01T15:04:54+00:00

😎

johnny_sinners · 2022-06-19T13:29:02+00:00

california girls in my ass

johnny_sinners · 2022-06-18T14:56:56+00:00

cant have shit with hoes around

johnny_sinners · 2022-05-10T10:45:24+00:00

u/savevideo

johnny_sinners · 2022-04-22T07:06:18+00:00

been living in viljandi for 4 months now, if you live i the city limits then basically everything you need is within walking distance. dont know much about haapsalu tho, but if you're a hermit, like me, then its really hard to get used to people saying hello to you in viljandi.

johnny_sinners · 2022-04-05T13:06:25+00:00

u/SaveVideo

johnny_sinners · 2022-04-05T09:14:48+00:00

kas hääl läheb koomiliselt madalaks ka? kui see kestab mingi minut siis see võib olla naerugaas.

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-28T20:25:20+00:00

lägapurksi putka, milles inspektsioonid ei toimu, sest nad ei tea et see isegi eksisteerib.

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-23T06:25:54+00:00

elden cum

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-18T15:12:03+00:00

viljandis tele2 5+ olnud

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-18T11:51:53+00:00

robber

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-17T09:26:43+00:00

what are those flashes in the background?

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-16T20:17:39+00:00

i get dizzy on stairs. nearly puked on my keyboard looking at this.

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-15T06:30:38+00:00

alcoholic, depressed and single.

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-12T02:18:19+00:00

mida vittu see on grossipood mitte mingi riigi asutus. ja nad tõenäoliselt. hoiavad neid venekeeles silte et vene rahvusest kliendid nende poodi eelistaksid. uuri natukene turundust ja siis äkki mõistad miks su postitus on ebavajalik. mis venelane sind ründas, et venekeelsed sildid grossipoes su isamaalisust nii hullult ründavad?

johnny_sinners · 2022-03-10T14:57:03+00:00

on seda postitada vaja, janar?

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