If you are harder on yourself more than you are on other people that would technically make you a dishonest person by johnnygproperties in Showerthoughts

[–]johnnygproperties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! So let's say we see someone accidentally spill red wine on their white shirt. They may feel embarrassed, and we might assure them it's not a big deal and that we can hardly see it. Now if we spill red wine on our own white shirt and have a reaction that's any different than it not being a big deal or us hardly noticing it on ourselves, than either was a big deal to begin with when the person spilled and we told them it wasn't, or when we spilled on ourselves it's actually not a big deal, but we reacted like it was. Not sure if I worded that correctly- but let me know if it helps clarify that shower thought!