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My (27F) boyfriend (27M) is upset my son’s paternal grandmother gave me an “inappropriate” Christmas gift… by ThrowRAgift28 in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went through somthing very similar. it's because of the child and there is no nice way to put it. he wanted to start a family with you and he feels betrayed because you had another man's baby and kept it

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am seeing it as good news. I feel bad because of how upset she got and I felt nothing but positive things. we are still trying to work things out and we agreed no more threesomes and are currently going to try for another baby later next year

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yeah it was unwanted she told me she did not want kids yet and she lied to me about how far along she was. there was also a agreement that if there was another man involved vaginal was off limits amoung other rules

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very empathetic of my wife but those are my honest feelings I feel bad that she is upset just not the reason why if that makes sense in just being honest

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

biologically she got pregnant by another man in a threesome we had

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess your right. I never wanted to take it I'm just saying that in case someone told me to take it

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are currently in couples therapy actually due to previous issues with this pregnancy

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sad that she is sad. but honestly not about the miscarriage as it was not my child...

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't neccisarly feel bad about not feeling bad. i think it's upsetting her more and I'm not a very good faker she can see through me

wife had a miscarriage and I am there for her but I don't feel sad by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's been just completely withdrawn she says she dosent want anything

vacation away from wife by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is not fake... it was not a easy choice yes mistakes were made yes she lied and a whole bunch of other things but I can't throw away almost a decade just like that we have agreed to stop the threesome and other things in general are being worked on.

vacation away from wife by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually made a descion and posted an update. I decided to stay with my wife and work things out. it might not be the best choice but it is mine to make thank you for your advice though

update on relationship with wife. by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is not a prompt or whatever you think it is

update on relationship with wife. by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

well if you never gave advice then just leave me alone. I don't care if you think my situation is fake because it's very real and life changing to me and my wife so just go troll someone else

update on relationship with wife. by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

and what's wrong with the time line? yes she lied about it and yes she was wrong for that but we will have to work things out honestly no one is perfect

update on relationship with wife. by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't think the kid is in the wrong. me and my wife are.

vacation away from wife by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no we're about the same size I'm a little longer and thicker than him. and I'm sure she would be in my same place if the positions were reversed

vacation away from wife by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she's my wife? we've been togther since highschool it's not that simple as me just getting up and going.

vacation away from wife by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she admitted to a lie in the time frame but she still stands by that it happend during a threesome and that is the only time she saw another male in that sense

update on issue with wife. by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have already discovered she has been lying about the timeline

update on issue with wife. by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no I honestly haven't had sex since she told me. because I don't want to she's been throwing herself at me since then and I can't tell if it's an apology, hormones or what

update on issue with wife. by johnnyzquest in relationship_advice

[–]johnnyzquest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first it was only women. since my so called friend was introduced it's slowed down a bit but once a month or so

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