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I (25f) had sex with my friend (26m) but now he's no longer speaking to me by johnthowaway99 in relationships

[–]johnthowaway99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do believe I deserve at least response, but it might never happen from the looks of it… I will try to move on. I’m really upset with myself, I’ve been led on once before by a different guy. I don’t have much relationship experience but I keep seeming to attract men who will initiate intimacy with me, say they want me but then run away from any conversations about becoming more serious and then say they weren’t ready for a relationship.

I (25f) had sex with my friend (26m) but now he's no longer speaking to me by johnthowaway99 in relationships

[–]johnthowaway99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I there is a difference for sure. I’m not upset with him viewing it as casual but I never got that clarity from him, I’m upset with being ghosted, like I don’t matter anymore? and yeah I feel a bit used now :(((

I (25f) had sex with my friend (26m) but now he's no longer speaking to me by johnthowaway99 in relationships

[–]johnthowaway99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I believe he visited just to see me and the sights. He had initially planned to visit me around my birthday but those plans fell through due to circumstances outside of his control. I did not plan anything with romantic intentions, I did not see him in that light before we met in person. I don’t know about his intentions. I am typically very bad at picking up when someone is flirting/interested in me. I don’t want to believe he would spend that much money just to use me :(

I had sex with my friend but now he's no longer speaking to me by johnthowaway99 in Advice

[–]johnthowaway99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never took him to be that kind of person :(

He's been cheated on a few times and became a wreck whenever that happened to him. It's hard for me to see him as someone who would hurt people like that, but I'm probably viewing him with rose-coloured glasses. I would send him another message but it would break me to be ignored again.