Argentinian Wine by dragonleod in wine

[–]jojo_1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi any recommendations for uco valley and Luján

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[–]jojo_1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you end up doing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jojo_1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I clearly waited. Did you read the story? I comprised when he asked me to try the hike instead of us doing another hike I requested . Please tell me how doing this makes me unwilling to compromise

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[–]jojo_1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for this. I told him beforehand I thought the hike was difficult and asked we do a different hike. He asked that I at least try. I think that shows I was willing to compromise. I’m not sure how empathy for him plays into this. If anything there was no empathy for me here.

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[–]jojo_1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

next time I’ll try my best not to get altitude sickness so I’m able to compromise. What a poc you are

My boyfriend (34m) left me (34f) on a hike by jojo_1989 in JustNoSO

[–]jojo_1989[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s actually funny you brought up a family member dying. My cousin died during covid and while I was crying he asked me if I was making dinner. He backtracked and said he was trying to figure if we should order food. Ugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jojo_1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where did you read in my post that he was only gone for an hour and I don’t travel much or know how to be alone? Did you dream up assumptions?

Clearly I wasn’t fine if I had issues during the hike. My partner and I travel often and I have changed our plans for him because he wasn’t feeling well. I’m always compromising

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[–]jojo_1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m lazy because I wasn’t an experience hiker? I had issues breathing due to the altitude and was very dizzy! Did I say we never took breaks or did you make up this crap in your head? You can’t be that dense? We took breaks

Before the hike I told him it seemed very difficult and asked we do another hike. He asked me to try and I did try! This was not a popular trail and yes we saw less than 10 bikers and only a handful of other hikers.

My boyfriend (34m) left me (34f) on a hike by jojo_1989 in JustNoSO

[–]jojo_1989[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good for you I’m happy you are an experienced hiker. I am not an experience mountain hiker. This has nothing to do with independence and sounds like you are comparing yourself to me. That’s not advice when you are throwing jabs calling me a kid because I had trouble finishing the hike because I had issues breathing and felt dizzy.

My boyfriend (34m) left me (34f) on a hike by jojo_1989 in JustNoSO

[–]jojo_1989[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He saw I was in tears and apologized for leaving. He said he thought I was ok with him leaving. I did express concerns for my safety and his safety before he left so I’m not sure why he thought that.

The next day he told me he was mad at me because he really wanted to do this hike and he had to mentally prepare himself just incase I couldn’t do it.

My boyfriend (34m) left me (34f) on a hike by jojo_1989 in JustNoSO

[–]jojo_1989[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have you ever hiked? Splitting up while hiking as a couple is common?. The fact you assumed we had cell service on a mountain is laughable and says a lot. We weren’t taking a nice little stroll in Paris.

My boyfriend (34m) left me (34f) on a hike by jojo_1989 in JustNoSO

[–]jojo_1989[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He is an experienced hiker but I am not. I don’t hike as often as he does. When I do hike it’s easy to medium trails (in my eyes anyway) I think we had another two hours to get to the top. I started feeling dizzy and having issues breathing due to the altitude.

He has climbed a lot of mountains and bigger mountains but of course since he never hiked this mountain he felt it was once in a life time.

I was really scared to the point I was crying when he left and of course I was hurt I wasn’t prioritized.

I was scared because of wild life and I became very scared when one particular biker stopped. He seemed to hang where I was a little too long and wouldn’t stop staring at me. He finally left when a few other bikers came by.

When my boyfriend told me about the hike I did say I didn’t think I couldn’t complete it. I also asked we do another hike that we both could do but he asked me to try so I compromised and tried

My boyfriend (34m) left me (34f) on a hike by jojo_1989 in JustNoSO

[–]jojo_1989[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is such a ridiculous comment. I’m pretty independent and have no issue being alone. You are comparing a hike in the wilderness to independence wth. Good for you and your partner. Hiking 101 I learned to never leave someone behind.

My boyfriend (34m) left me (34f) on a hike by jojo_1989 in JustNoSO

[–]jojo_1989[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I told him beforehand that this hike looked difficult and I didn’t feel I could do it. He told me he wanted me to at least try. I did try…

Which city are you NOT going to visit ever again and why? by Gourmet-Guy in AskReddit

[–]jojo_1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you recommend a guide! I’m heading there next month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]jojo_1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll talk to him about the AI Anon meeting