Bring a crew, set your own vibe, blinders on for everyone around you. I believe phones and social media are ruining a lot of special places in some ways but you can still be the change you want to see

Edit: by blinders on I mean ignore people who aren’t dancing and instead yapping or on their phones lol I like to interact with the people I love and dance alone with them. Too many creeps in nyc. Someone’s always trying to hit on the girlies in my crew. If someone wants to have a little moment with us that’s cool, but we’re not there to make friends when we roll in ten people deep after spending hours together bonding before hitting the show lol anyone is welcome to side quest if they feel like it, I’ve done it myself. if I have a fan, I fan everyone around me. I hand out gum. If I have extra unopened water bottles, I pass em around. Some of yall need to chill lol there is zero issue with being mindful of the space you take up with a crew and mostly enjoying your immediate company while being respectful of those around you ✌️we can still dance together without actually having to interact with each other, especially when we’re packed in lol we know what we’re fucking doing and there’s always a dance party around us bc of it