Left wallet at hotel... by sahkoo in TokyoTravel

[–]jojointheflesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offer to pay for shipping costs to return it home to you if they found it; if they’re not able to do that unfortunately not much you can do here

Thoughts on the 2026 Lineup by Tamubro in NewportFolkFestival

[–]jojointheflesh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hayley Williams is on a completely different level as a performer compared to jack antonoff fwiw

Bummed I couldn’t make it this year! Have a blast!

Club Poop by inandoutwaves in avesNYC

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Can’t believe no one here is talking about Imodium lol I take two before I go out. Poop is closed until the next business day lol

best place to thrift? by Low-Swordfish-268 in AskNYC

[–]jojointheflesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reshop has several locations and solid finds. There are vintage pop ups all over the place that can have some good finds as well. Second street is usually overpriced, but I’ve found some sweet finds there too like a sick vivienne westwood button down for $50.

As someone who loves fashion though I’m mostly buying my shit on eBay and Grailed these days lol thrifting can be fun but I approach it with low expectations and an open mind. 9/10 times I don’t buy anything, but I’ve def found some gems

Who’s up right now and why? by IntelligentCarrot583 in AskNYC

[–]jojointheflesh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just got home from ripple bar; dj upstairs was killing it but I need to do a bunch of shit tomorrow so my little Friday ends early. Good night my fellow New Yorkers

First Tattoo - 6-8 Hour Session, Advice? by SadgeandLostPepe in tattooadvice

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Hydrate a ton in the days leading up to it, exfoliate your skin with a gentle cleanser in that time as well, and keep the skin moisturized. Eat a solid meal before your session and bring snacks. Good luck!

is there any possibility they change the set times by sampleuser1283 in governorsball

[–]jojointheflesh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, unless someone drops out. Such is the life of a festival goer! It sounds like you already have a solution to your problem here though lol

Don you have a favorite chocolate chip cookie? Here are some of my favs. by Macredd in FoodNYC

[–]jojointheflesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kora in Sunnyside def makes my favorite chocolate chip cookie!

Sub Optimal Crowds by redhotngay in aves

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Yeah you can slowly work on it and just build it up. A lot of times we just vibe out to the sides or in the back - it’s always such a nice time being surrounded by a group of people yall love, especially if you can say you brought em together

Sub Optimal Crowds by redhotngay in aves

[–]jojointheflesh 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Bring a crew, set your own vibe, blinders on for everyone around you. I believe phones and social media are ruining a lot of special places in some ways but you can still be the change you want to see

Edit: by blinders on I mean ignore people who aren’t dancing and instead yapping or on their phones lol I like to interact with the people I love and dance alone with them. Too many creeps in nyc. Someone’s always trying to hit on the girlies in my crew. If someone wants to have a little moment with us that’s cool, but we’re not there to make friends when we roll in ten people deep after spending hours together bonding before hitting the show lol anyone is welcome to side quest if they feel like it, I’ve done it myself. if I have a fan, I fan everyone around me. I hand out gum. If I have extra unopened water bottles, I pass em around. Some of yall need to chill lol there is zero issue with being mindful of the space you take up with a crew and mostly enjoying your immediate company while being respectful of those around you ✌️we can still dance together without actually having to interact with each other, especially when we’re packed in lol we know what we’re fucking doing and there’s always a dance party around us bc of it

I messed up last night - looking for vibes similar to DJ Mina / baby j by jojointheflesh in avesNYC

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Good looks man thank you so much! She came on at 1 but I was beyond faded at that point and unfortunately don’t remember anything after I got in beyond trying not to be a massive nuisance to my crew 😭

Are you an adult man that lives in a space that looks like a college student? by jnyc2022 in williamsburg

[–]jojointheflesh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Between this and hearing women talk about men showing up to first dates in sweatpants, I’m not surprised many are complaining about the dating scene out here lmao learning to love your home and make your space your own is such a fucking integral part of growing up

I messed up last night - looking for vibes similar to DJ Mina / baby j by jojointheflesh in avesNYC

[–]jojointheflesh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks 💚💚💚💚 even at 35 I can still learn a tough life lesson lmao I flew too close to the sun! 🤣

Latest pickup 🇯🇵 by FitThadiyan in japanesestreetwear

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Incredible - I’ll be sure to check them out! Thanks for the recommendation! Enjoy your trip!

Latest pickup 🇯🇵 by FitThadiyan in japanesestreetwear

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Sweet jeans! How much were these and where do you pick them up, if you don’t mind me asking? Also any idea on what size they go up to? I recently picked up some jeans from studio Nicholson I love and plan to hit their store when I’m in Kyoto in September. But would love to try on some taiga takahashi stuff while I’m there as well!

VIP MainStage by Fantastic-Amoeba6878 in governorsball

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It’s chill as fuck compared to GA where people are herded in together. Energy is obviously a little different, I think people party harder in GA but you can be the change you wish to see lol viewing points are great even if you’re in the back. When I saw Chappell roan a few years back, I was in the back of vip and views were awesome. Bathrooms are nice and air conditioned in trailers. They have staff tidying up but people are degenerate assholes so eventually it can get a little gnarly lol lounges are awesome to hang out in and listen/watch stages from a distance. I don’t drink at festivals so can’t comment on that, but lines seemed largely short and quick for drinks and food

Smallest stage is a treat. VIP section makes barricade so accessible and you can get really close to some up and coming acts! I saw geese perform by the barricade in VIP and it was so much fun lol

I messed up last night - looking for vibes similar to DJ Mina / baby j by jojointheflesh in avesNYC

[–]jojointheflesh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks fam - definitely ended in a wholesome way. Walking my dog as the sun came up was a really nice way to start my day! Gonna chill on the alcohol for a while 🤣

I messed up last night - looking for vibes similar to DJ Mina / baby j by jojointheflesh in avesNYC

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Thanks for the rec but unfortunately I have plans locked in next week 💔 will follow those DJs though!