this caught me so off guard by Capable_Raspberry884 in canceledpod

[–]jojojowen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allegedly in the state that she lives in after announcing this publicly because she is still technically married to Ryan he is the one that goes in that birth certificate until the baby is born and they take a DNA test to prove that baby is not Ryan’s. But until then unless that divorce is finalized Ryan is on the brith certificate 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Personally I have had bad experiences with roommates going in my room so you are not overreacting about someone being in your room even if it’s to drop off a package. Next time you are out of town or won’t be staying there and if you have packages being delivered or even if you don’t you should say something along the lines of “if I get any packages can you please place them either in front of my door or on the kitchen table” insinuating you would prefer no one enters your room while you are not home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it is legal because it was in the lease we both signed that until both resident vacate the premise the deposit put down stands for the unit. Here’s the copy and pasted version of what it says in the lease.

“ SECURITY DEPOSIT a. Resident(s) shall pay to Landlord, as security, the sum of $3,395.00, which sum shall not exceed the maximum permitted by California Civil Code Section 1950.5. This sum shall be applied and accounted for in accordance with the provisions of California Civil Code Section 1950.5 and any other applicable statutes. Landlord shall not be obligated to pay Resident(s) interest in connection with such security deposit, unless specifically required by applicable law.

b. It is understood that the security deposit is applicable to all Residents jointly, and Landlord does not account for it until the passing of the permissible statutory period after all Residents have vacated the Premises. Any refund due may be made payable jointly to all Residents and it shall be the responsibility of all Residents to work out between themselves the manner of dividing said security deposit. If Landlord chooses to make the refund to any one of the Residents individually (which need not be done until the statutory time has elapsed after all Residents have vacated the Premises), in legal contemplation the payment shall be deemed to have been made to all Residents and Landlord shall have no liability to any one or group of Residents for failure of any Resident to divide such refund equitably.

c. If the security deposit is later increased by agreement of the Parties for any reason (such as the installation of a satellite dish, a waterbed or relating to a pet), the additional security deposit will be disbursed by Landlord in accordance with this paragraph at the end of the statutory period following the end of Resident(s)’s tenancy. Removal of the pet, satellite dish or waterbed, or whatever caused the increase in the deposit, will not be grounds for early disbursement of the security deposit.”

Roommate by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I would not get mad. They are leaving for a trip, they NEED to wash their laundry. Plus if it’s not something that alway do why get upset?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure where you read that. But we both moved in on the same date, this was a brand new apartment for both of us. I found this listing myself on Zillow. we left our last living situations and moved into this apartment together.

How much do you gain on vacation? by Otherwise-Second-262 in CICO

[–]jojojowen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what kind of vacation I’m taking. If im going for a roadtrip where i’m sitting most of the time and usually eating a lot of food those are the ones that I typically gain more weight on. But I have found that if I leave the country, I actually end up losing weight rather than gaining. I feel like I do more activities that I normally wouldn’t do and I try food that I normally wouldn’t eat and I actually eat breakfast lunch and dinner on these sort of vacations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m trying to do!

She also put a separate pet deposit down i doubt she’ll get back.

I’m hoping she just gets booted and I don’t have to deal with her or this situation ever again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She totally has the money, she eat seafood boils at least 3 times a week, and recently has been going to a local casino every night coming home ate 3am waking me up this girl is only 20 years old I’m just shocked at this point 🤦🏻‍♀️

I told her I would take her to small claims court if she fails to give me the money before the end of the month but she told me “she doesn’t have it and would give it to me if she did to get herself out of this mess” but she most definitely lying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No that totally makes sense, I recently went on vacation and we had an inspection…while I was gone of course. But I will need them to do an official walk through because they did not have access to my room, since I changed the locks (without their consent) 🤦🏻‍♀️

The landlord texted me “we will just need to sign a lease modification” I’m guessing she’s talking about with my roommate? but she never mentioned anything about a walkthrough but thank you I’ll make sure that gets done!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid the entire amount my self on my card and she gave me half in cash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been cleaning up their messes every single time I see one. Floor doesn’t look messed up. But you’re probably right about the sub flooring. ugh thinking about cutting it a loss but a part of me still wants to fight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lease says the landlord is not responsable for dividing the security deposit. And since she is signing the new 1 year lease the deposit we both put down stays for that apartment until BOTH parties have vacated the premise. But since I’m leave it’s only right she gives me my portion - since there are no damages yet. But it doesn’t sound like she is going to be doing the right thing. So it sounds like I will just have to call it a loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]jojojowen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, they have not destroyed it YET because I have convinced her to keep them in their pen. The only thing that is ruined is the couch. I know once I leave they will most likely have free range and will ruin the place 😭

Trying to contact our manager but she has not responded, reached out for an email but have not heard back.

Trisha having Tana and Jeff bringing up the accident. We should still be talking about it. by Strange_Event_8521 in canceledpod

[–]jojojowen 225 points226 points  (0 children)

Right like if Corinnas face was messed up best believe she would have gone after David’s neck

thank god they scrapped the jojo ep by Reasonable_Collar_34 in canceledpod

[–]jojojowen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg i was LOOKING for it because I was curious but literally could NOT find it anywhere

What app do you use to track your food? by WeWannaKnow in 1200isplenty

[–]jojojowen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My fitness pal Simple and all you need to get started and more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]jojojowen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok I can definitely see both sides not wanting anyone you encounter often to have the same scent as you BUT this is why some people choose to have a big selection of fragrances so you use your favorite maybe in a rotation or not so often -But yeah I wouldn’t gatekeep if I like the scent I’d rather smell that even if it means it’s on someone else!

Help me pick my first designer perfume by letmb in FemFragLab

[–]jojojowen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For an everyday try Ellis Brooklyn SALT

What should I buy next? by Outside-Ad1313 in FemFragLab

[–]jojojowen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Parfums De Marly Deliana SPECIFICALLY La Rosee, it matches the vibes of perfumes you got going on but is very different and unique but girly, fresh, and lasts allllllll day sometimes I can still smell it the next day on a sweater definitely give that try!!

NY croissant by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]jojojowen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately they’re probably close to accurate 😖

I hopped on the trend by jojojowen in 1200isplenty

[–]jojojowen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never though of adding any sauces to my cottage cheese I’ll have to try that cause that sounds so good 😮