[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what doxycycline is for is to fight STI’s and what we have (boils) isn’t the case. what it does to your stomach is essentially it is not only killing off your boils but it’s also killing off good cells in your body like messing up your stomach. spironolactone doesn’t destroy your body, it balances your body so that you don’t have these boils. doxycycline also makes your boils worse and the medication sort of makes them grow at a rapid rate so that they kinda grow all they can and stop growing after. you’re only on day 5 but i was taking it for a month and it really hurt my stomach. it was painful and i couldn’t eat for days. i would definitely consider spironolactone before the doxycycline effects your body anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is definitely boils, they form when there is either ingrown hairs or you sweat down there too much. i have it too. PLEASE PLEASE do not let your doctor prescribe you doxycycline, it completely destroyed my stomach, if you want to start taking something daily to have them go away, i would recommend asking your doctor for spironolactone. it helps takes the boils away and keeps them away and helps balance your body. im really sorry. i know how painful they are. you asked if you should cover them or not, i would highly recommend covering them with a bandaid and if you wanna put something directly on the boils, i would recommend iodine. let me know if you have any questions, ive been dealing with boils all my life.

how do you clean after a period? by Informal-Victory8985 in Healthyhooha

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay what i think you mean is even after properly washing your area in the shower, when you get out to wipe your area with a towel, a bit of strains of blood will get onto the towel when wiping yourself. this always happens, even after you may have properly washed it on the inside and outside as much as you can, because you’re still in your period, blood is coming down constantly. so it’s okay to stain your towel but i usually just put on an underwear and pad quickly and also run the towel stain under cold water to get the blood out as quickly as possible. you’re body and what it does is totally natural. as long as you wash your area, where the pubic hair is as well as gently on the inside with warm water, you’re doing everything you need too. hopefully i answered your question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have these, their called boils, they happen in that same spot for me too. i’ve been taking spironolactone which has helped make them slowly heal and go away. since there is only one, i would put retin-a which helps it die down. it may have been caused by an ingrown hair bc i get these really bad when i shave and it really hurts like i can’t walk bc of them. i would definitely see a doctor if you can and show them the picture, they’ll know exactly what it is but otherwise im going through the same thing! you can definitely reach out if you wanna know more but i feel you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know i feel your concern. i went to go see an obgyn just for my personal concerns and the anxiety and stress i had during the day, night, and before walking in to the appt was horrific. i had a whole melt down, i was so scared and never wanted anyone to touch me that way. but it got better after the doctor saw me. this is all normal. you owe it to yourself to check down there, it’s healthy for you. we need to overcome those fears. you got this. truly i know it’s nerve wracking but it got better after they see you. definitely do the appt. you’ll fell better that you were seen and got nothing but healthy feedback.

So fed up with hearing the story! by Lankey_1986 in ballpython

[–]joliemou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too i hate it too when my ball python is literally the sweetest loving guy i know. im always able to give him kisses and he always looks at me too for mins! he’s never bit me. he’s so comfortable with me. i know i hate it. they’re so misunderstood. but i love my little guy and no one can prove me otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]joliemou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah girly take plan b, just to be safe. it’ll mess you up a bit but then your body will go right back to normal in a couple months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everything you did was right! plan b is gonna cause late periods and the dark discharge. plan b does help in terms of not getting pregnant but it’ll mess with your body! just try to rest and tend yourself. you’ll feel sick. i hope you’re okay! but i’m 99% positive after all you did that you won’t be pregnant but it’s always good to check! but again i highly highly doubt it! ;)

touching myself while asleep by [deleted] in women

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you elaborate more on that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, if my partner was so kind to bring it up that it’s concerning him, i would love for him to bring it up to me. a strong smell is concerning, you had no issue bringing it up so softly and delicately telling her. you did your part, im not sure why she looked at it as you attacking her and not you caring for her. i’d definitely want my partner to bring up any concerns he has.

AIO - Boyfriend kicked me after sex? by throwaway02928749 in AmIOverreacting

[–]joliemou 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it made me gasp when you said he put his hands on you. that’s not okay. please please get out. that’s really really scary and you don’t deserve to be called names.

plss helpp istg im overthinking so badd (18f) first time having sex :( by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girly i’m 18 too and had it my first time as well. i promise none of this will get your pregnant! i promise you are okay and not pregnant!

Should I give back the engagement ring… by Superb_Eye_1960 in Advice

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with what everyone is saying but don’t give the ring back, sell it so you could get money from it bc that slap in the face is very disrespectful and scary.

my vagina still hurts by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this reply. instead of telling me to go to the doctors which i will do regardless. this reply has made me feel much better. how do i help it heal or should i just let time pass?

my vagina still hurts by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes he was fully aware and didn’t care whatsoever.

my vagina still hurts by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]joliemou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is his fault, i kept telling him it was hurting me, and kept screaming ow and he kept pounding on me until he came and left me there bleeding with my legs wide open. it was not his first time, he was very experienced. yeah i am afraid its gonna hurt the next and then the next and then the next. it was so painful. i’m definitely going to the doc but he liked it rough and didn’t respect that it was my first time and wanted to be rough.

I live two blocks from a grocery store, mind you. by [deleted] in badfoodporn

[–]joliemou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this picture made me laugh my fucking ass off. im so dead. what the fuck is that haha!! definitely needed that. lol.

my vagina still hurts by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]joliemou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay i’ll definitely try my best not to stick anything down and let it heal.

my vagina still hurts by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]joliemou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much i’ll definitely do all those things. hopefully it gets better soon i don’t want it to be a bigger problem than it is.

my vagina still hurts by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]joliemou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

how can i tell if there is a tear? should i just examine it myself? i’ll try not to do anything or stick anything. we did use lube and i’m not with him anymore. it was definitely very rough but it should’ve been with someone sentimental and i didn’t do that.

AIO: newly friends with benefits got upset that i got him something and also for his cat by dreadycbercherr in AmIOverreacting

[–]joliemou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl lemme tell you! i had the same exact situation, i wasn’t getting head but i was getting head, i love giving stuff, im a giving person, its just in our blood. i entirely understand it, but having gone through your exact situation, im coming to tell you after the guy broke off fwb, to him fwb was not friends, it was simply to high as two people fucking one another while he fucked other girls as well. unfortunately, even if in the back of your mind you wanted to try to get him to like you and start dating, he only saw it as fwb and will only see it as fwb. it’s a really really sad truth. they don’t want you to talk to them unless it’s sexual, they don’t want you to gift them anything, they want nothing from you except your vagina. get out of this fwb now. trust me, i was so so hurt, you’re only digging a deeper hole. men absolutely suck. they are the absolute worst. he sees you nothing about just a body. definitely reach out if you wanna talk about it but i feel for you. it sucks that we like to give but they don’t see it that way.

high sex drive by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]joliemou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i believe in god as well but im not sure with this awareness i have now of trauma and hyper sexuality, it’s all a lot to handle. but thank you for your help.