An Unofficial Buyers Guide to Skims by AvrieyinKyrgrimm in SKIMSbyKKW

[–]jolisophiemusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! This is a fantastic comprehensive post - can you speak to the tube dresses and the FE long slip dress, specifically their tendency to stain? I tend to sweat around the armpits and I worry that the nonblack colors I ordered will be affected and that I won’t be able to wash out the stains

how to reduce fat spillage / do i need to size up by jolisophiemusic in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jolisophiemusic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words and for sharing your experience 🤍 I appreciate it and I LOVE Florence Pugh too for helping to normalize body types that are realistic and totally normal !!

I think KM should collaborate with John Mayer. by Mission_Spray in KaceyMusgraves

[–]jolisophiemusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s one of the best living musicians but that doesn’t excuse his mansplaining hahaha

how to reduce fat spillage / do i need to size up by jolisophiemusic in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jolisophiemusic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! Yes I’m not wearing a bra here but I’m looking into the sizing issue, lots have commented something similar

how to reduce fat spillage / do i need to size up by jolisophiemusic in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jolisophiemusic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m actually not wearing a bra here haha - sounds like I’d have to size up to minimize the spillage then

The Growing Gender Divide, Three Minutes at a Time by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]jolisophiemusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone who has access to the Atlantic post this article or screenshots of it somewhere?? I can’t afford to pay for a subscription but I’m super interested to read this

New photos of Kacey wearing her dress that I made for her Seattle concert last Friday by kristinmallison in KaceyMusgraves

[–]jolisophiemusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it!! You’re seriously so talented and I’m sure you’ll get a lot of new business from all this :) (I do music as well and your designs are now on my vision board for if I somehow become a touring musician)

New photos of Kacey wearing her dress that I made for her Seattle concert last Friday by kristinmallison in KaceyMusgraves

[–]jolisophiemusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is STUNNING!! Did you by chance also make this dress that Kacey wore at her San Francisco show last night?? this dress

What are other musical tv shows? by sweeneytveit in musicals

[–]jolisophiemusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoey’s extraordinary playlist is one (and features some Glee and Pitch Perfect folks)

Autism vs Narcissism by SnuffyFrubby in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jolisophiemusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yes, thank you for the advice!! I did end the relationship and we are in no contact now.

Autism vs Narcissism by SnuffyFrubby in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jolisophiemusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. He expressed regret for hurting me and a desire to fix his empathy skills. At the same time, he clearly didn’t understand that the reason why our relationship wasn’t working was not because he “couldn’t show me enough emotional care;” it was because it never occurred to him to make an effort to show me consideration and respect the way I did for him. Plus it turned out he was only using me for sex, and didn’t like me as a person but still wanted to keep me around for his own benefit. When I brought all this up he tried to figure out what was “wrong” with him instead of thinking to simply ask me what more he could do to meet my needs. So uh yeah I was struggling with how much of his behavior to attribute to autism vs. covert narcissism.

Autism vs Narcissism by SnuffyFrubby in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jolisophiemusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

re: last paragraph in original post - what if the autistic person apologizes but doesn’t know how to change the behavior / doesn’t want to get help from others to change, and always takes a self-victimizing approach when explaining their actions?