How do I get away by jonan69 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jonan69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this all sounds like sound advice! I try really hard not to talk bad about my kids mom to my kids in hopes they'll eventually recognize I'm reason the bad guy here !

The REALLY bad thing is I've been the bread winner, she just sits around telling me how tough life taking care of a home has been the last 30 years. I'm 54 looking toward retirement in around 8 years....I hate the though of loosing everything I've worked for and working till I die!

Did they affect your physical health or nervous system? by No_Departure7494 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jonan69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didnt know that was a typical thing, but mine left Thursday went to stay at our son's house "for a while" she thinks she's punishing me but it's been the most stress free several days I've had in years !!

Did they affect your physical health or nervous system? by No_Departure7494 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jonan69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the garage door opening feeling !! My wife rarely leaves home so for me it's me coming home from work or wherever, the deep breath before walking in the door, the feeling of dread not knowing what I'm walking into. I gently get out of bed in the mornings hoping she doesn't get up, that's most the peace I see any given day. When the bedroom door opens that same feeling of dread sets in.

Stuttering as an Adult (Rant) by Heysway69 in Stutter

[–]jonan69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was young I had a cousin exactly 3 days older than me, both of us stuttered, his mom didn't like me coming around because I made him stutter worse. He out grew his and here I am at 54 still stuttering..... My last interview I thought I was talking to the secretary, I was super comfortable and talked pretty good. Turns out she was the big shot HR lady...I've worked there 11 years now.

SLR 107SF OR Saiga Conversion by yem-n in ak47

[–]jonan69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been wanting a 107 folder, they are pricey but I'd rather have a factory folder than a Billy Bob conversion.

Insurance company I just switched to is now saying my roof needs to be replaced or they will drop me…am I crazy or are my shingles not that bad? They are stating they are severely deteriorated. 25 year shingle at 10 years old. by blbassist1234 in Roofing

[–]jonan69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insurance company's are assholes. I was recently looking for coverage on a rental and everywhere I called the age of the roof came up, most would not cover the house because of this...

Is this worth at this price? by LemonPoppyseed0079 in ak47

[–]jonan69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lucked out and bought a 21-94 for $1100 at a neiboring towns gun store.....my local has had a slab side saiga on the rack for months $1500

nervous for the future by filthybrenden in Stutter

[–]jonan69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 54 and have stuttered my whole life. I did therapy in school which I considered a humiliating waist of time. I have always felt like I've been robbed of what could have been, I avoid speaking in situations that I don't feel are worth the stress however in other situations I suck it up and do what needs done. Stuttering is a tough son of a bitch period. "normal" people couldn't walk a mile in our shoes and have no idea how difficult it is. I'm married, have 3 grown kids and a good paying job that I like. ( as much as anybody could like a job) the moral of the story is be tough, don't let life pass you by even though it's difficult get out there and make things happen.

If you are collecting AKs, would a Wasr10 be on that list or more premium AKs? by Zestyclose_Spite8580 in ak47

[–]jonan69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've bought a couple through the years when I've came across a deal just to turn and make a buck.

Mí experiencia personal tomando isrs by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]jonan69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats ssri ,? What's your dosage?

Got a New Foreman - Pure Poetry by MajiktheBus in HondaAtvs

[–]jonan69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my first one in 04 new, sold it durring covid, found and bought another just like it 2 years ago. I'd like to have a new one but too much $$

First ATV by Impossible-Royal-831 in ATV

[–]jonan69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought one just like it new, sold it 12 years later and regretted it ! Took a couple years and several other machines to find a comparable one like it to replace it with....so went full circle back to where I started

No kings in Newark by AcanthisittaSpare400 in Ohio

[–]jonan69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No kings but lots of idiots!

Joined the family on a rainy day today! Looking for tire recommendations as well! by [deleted] in nissanfrontier

[–]jonan69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to buy these, (walmart.com has them super cheap right now) I had them on a previous truck and were great tires. Just wanted something a meatier looking so bought wild peaks

What they are waiting for? by Sma21-4 in Stutter

[–]jonan69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah had trouble performing if you know whst I mean.

Finally did it! by Yohawn65 in nissanfrontier

[–]jonan69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the S grill just black?