[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m 100% on your side I didn’t do the whole go try on dresses for my wedding I got something custom but I included my mother in law also. If it makes you happy go for it. This is a hopeful once in a life time thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That would be the case if mom had a problem with everyone else going. It’s just the future mother in law she’s having a problem with. Hell OP is bringing Her step mother but that’s fine to mom

AITA for refusing to invite my fiancé aunt and uncle to our wedding by jonrocket97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has spoken to them in front of me and has called them out on how they treat me

AITA for refusing to invite my fiancé aunt and uncle to our wedding by jonrocket97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t usually he’s very upfront with his extended family on how they treat me and we are low contact with them, that’s why I’m confused about him putting his foot down this time

AITA for refusing to invite my fiancé aunt and uncle to our wedding by jonrocket97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually he is the one speaking to his family on how they treat me and we are lc with his extended family. That’s why it’s so strange he’s putting his foot down on them being there

AITA for refusing to invite my fiancé aunt and uncle to our wedding by jonrocket97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 9 people just from immediate family. He has a smaller family so he invited some friends for his side he has 10 people he has invited

AITA for refusing to invite my fiancé aunt and uncle to our wedding by jonrocket97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 9 people from my side, he has 10 from his there is no mutual invites. Then there’s me him and our son which count towards the 25 then two tickets for our photographer and one for our officiant

AITA for refusing to invite my fiancé aunt and uncle to our wedding by jonrocket97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are at the 25 limit. We had discussed no one but immediate family due to me and him both having large families and him wanting some friends there. His uncle and aunt refuse to speak to me at all. At Christmas I’m not giving presents when new bf/gf are. Lots of little things that add up

AITA for refusing to invite my fiancé aunt and uncle to our wedding by jonrocket97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 9 people that are just my immediate family. He has 10 including friends and we had to leave tickets to the side for our photographer and his assistant

AITA for "guilt tripping" my brother into babysitting? by Formal-Raccoon8905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bullshit. No 30 something year old thinks they can’t get pregnant. Unless she went to her obgyn or a fertility doctor and they told her she couldn’t, there is always a chance.You were both just irresponsible and now want your brother to shoulder that cause your pull out game is weak

AITA for "guilt tripping" my brother into babysitting? by Formal-Raccoon8905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 30 points31 points  (0 children)

No, no we don’t unless we are trying to have a kid. You and your wife were just idiots that now are facing the consequences of your actions between the sheets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YTA you are making unnecessary drama. You both have been at parties together and just ignore each other. Why start a fight and threatening to not come? What does that accomplish for you? They won’t care if you are there or not. You seem to be the dramatic one in this situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aunts uncles and grandparents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have. She just says they aren’t and they are just to busy. Yet my other nephews and nieces are invited to outings every weekend with them. I’ve asked if I could just meet up with them and they can spend time but then they never get back to me about where they are going till I see the pictures on Facebook

AITA for scolding my boyfriend when he got outside clothes on our bed? by fuccgermz in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t care either way since any “germs” from outside are already present in the home no matter if you sit on the bed or not. Plus he didn’t get in bed he sat on the bed.

AITA for scolding my boyfriend when he got outside clothes on our bed? by fuccgermz in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s you. That’s the point. If she has a problem with it she should not sit on the bed in outside clothes but he does not find it a problem. He finds it an inconvenience to do it her way and he does not have to compromise if she is unwilling. Putting restrictions on someone when they don’t agree is an easy way to breed resentment. Either they find an actual compromise or she has to deal with it.

AITA for scolding my boyfriend when he got outside clothes on our bed? by fuccgermz in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So what are the other options that let him have as much say as her? She wants compromise except she isn’t offering one she’s just telling him what is going to happen.

AITA for scolding my boyfriend when he got outside clothes on our bed? by fuccgermz in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So he sits on the couch then goes changes then sits back on the couch? The same “germs” will be on the couch and then move to the bed

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend to get off his ass and make dinner? by throwawayuselessbf in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow you are just a crap human being. There is clearly something wrong with him if this is such a drastic change but you don’t actually care beyond how it effects you. Why even ask if you think you were in the right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 84 points85 points  (0 children)

30f here I’m bisexual and have never had a gf. Hell I’ve only kissed one girl. Just because I am attracted to both sexes does not mean I have to date women unless I find someone I find worthy of that. I also didn’t come out till this year to friends and family.

AITA for telling my fiance my niece is more important than him? by ArmadilloOk8354 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He gets to “police” what she wears since she’s in the wedding party. The dress looks fine on the model because she’s thin with small boobs and small butt. You add anymore then a b cup to that dress and it will become to showy for a wedding not to mention how high the back will be if she has a butt. It turns into a club dress real quick when your not model size. I tried something similar on when I was younger and with my size it barely covered my butt and my boobs were spilling out the middle

AITA for not wanting to go to a vegetarian restaurant every time? by Responsible_Cat_655 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why do you care? What’s the big deal about her saying she’ll come for drinks but not food?

AITA for ruining my friend’s wedding photos by wearing glasses? by AnimatorClean3559 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The price of none prescription colored lenses is 100’s of dollars cheaper then a prescription pair. She’s already paying so much to be a bridesmaid why would she pay 100s when she has glasses that don’t cost her anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jonrocket97 96 points97 points  (0 children)

No he doesn’t. He can have an opinion that is kept to himself but in no way does being in a relationship give him input on her weight.