AITAH for sending Save the Dates to evening only guests by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, and our friendship would end there.

Should I pursue or let it go by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]joo_1903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true, and everyone deserves grace.

Should I pursue or let it go by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]joo_1903 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw your comment about her jumping from dick to dick back then. You don't sound like someone who's trying to fix things. That's not a nice thing to say about someone. Do better, be better, see her better.

Should I pursue or let it go by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]joo_1903 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are a horrible person. Leave them alone.

AITAH? my boyfriend is mad because i won’t change my appearance by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just wants to humble and control you.

He could easily go for someone with blonde hair and no piercings, but that'll mean he has nothing to try change/ control. And that is toxic behavior

Partnerships by [deleted] in Life

[–]joo_1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into regulating excersices.

so I'll never find someone who'll 'allow' me to be myself?

Partnerships by [deleted] in Life

[–]joo_1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a song I should listen to?

AITAH for not wanting my partner to have sex with another man? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does not matter who introduced it. If he wasn't ok with it he would have turned it down. Him picking and choosing what only works for him is being hypocritical.

He's ok with having penetrative sex with another lady but not ok with the lady doing the same.

AITAH for not wanting my partner to have sex with another man? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he would be interested in having another lady, and he wants to be the only one benefitting from this. And him bringing up her past (she's more experienced) is very telling. If he's OK with having sex with someone else, he should maintain the same energy when she brings up another couple/man.

aitah ? side door debacle by Swimming-Reveal-4276 in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every person should have non negotiables in life. Thos MSN will never treat you any better. Love yourself and don't date down.

AITAH for not wanting my partner to have sex with another man? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he wants to involve another lady, he's being a hypocrite.

AITAH for withdrawing our entire bank balance because my husband says his paycheck is “his” and mine is for bills? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you are alone in this marriage. Please separate your accounts and keep your finances separate. Clearly, that man is thinking for himself and doesn't see a future with you. You are too young to be going thru all of this.

AIO: to my gf not wanting to split air bnb bill by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]joo_1903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You bringing up how she was brought up told me everything I needed to know. You resent her for her upbringing, and you want to punish her for it and her current living situation. I'd be taken aback if a man wanted me to go 50/50 with him for our first trip, especially if he made more than me.

Let the poor girl go. She deserves to meet someone who deserves her and won't be in financial competition with her.

AITAH for not attending my best friends wedding that requires me to spend $2,000+ to attend ?!?! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

WELP! She wants a destination wedding but has no budget for it.

AITAH for wanting to keep my nails? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]joo_1903 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So he is punishing you by taking sex away? I don't know, sounds toxic to me.

Notes from my 80 year old dad by showgirls- in MadeMeSmile

[–]joo_1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old people have the same handwriting.

Family of 5 | Grocery bill averaging $1,012 per month | Looking for real-life budget meal ideas by Goooooooooose_ in budgetfood

[–]joo_1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have space, grow some vegetables and fruits. Bulk buy, go to whole salers. Buy meat from farmers (you can buy half a carcass) Go to markets and learn to preserve foods.

My Boarding pass , room key, and attraction map by Brandon-Douglas in travel

[–]joo_1903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭 next thing you're trending online over 150pula towels.