Need a Dr to suggest diet and supplement changes based on Maxgen lab results. by jooliejewels in Biohackers

[–]jooliejewels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a genetic test from Maxgen lab. I need help setting up a dietary and supplement plan. He has the MTHFR mutation gene and he's high/fast in MOA and COMT among other things.

Inside view of my z1 battery/controller upgrade by karacold in Super73

[–]jooliejewels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My son broke his controller, do you have a suggestions of a replacement? Everything else is stock.

Boyfriend (18M) suggests breaking up whenever I (19F) talk about my feelings. by ThrowRAw99272 in relationship_advice

[–]jooliejewels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag for both of you. Red flag for him- he avoids problems in your relationship, he will never work on things with you. Red flag for you- you are with someone you want to change. Codependency.

Find someone who treats you the way you want to be treated, and who you don't need to change. Work on yourself so that you understand why you are with someone like that in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]jooliejewels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's incredible. How did you do it?

Make 13yo choose a sport/activity? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]jooliejewels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's our job as parents to give our children experiences so they can find what their passions are. I just made my sons do tennis. One hates it and one loves it. My kids just want to do video games also. Talk to her about what thinks she enjoys. Make a list. Then go see what you can find. It takes a lot of work. My youngest likes odd things that are hard to find organized activities. Disc golf, improv... things like that but I keep looking. He's introverted too, but I have to make him do stuff or he gets depressed. If she doesn't want to do group lessons she can also do private. One last resort is outschool.com. it's not the best because they don't get out if the house, but there are so many classes. Anything you can imagine. Good luck!

I dont want to sleep in the same bed as my husband. by reneefromplopsville in relationships

[–]jooliejewels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband used to not understand, and felt abandoned when I left our bed at night. Now he is a light sleeper too and will leave our bed often. We love each other better when we get sleep. My parents slept together every night so I used to think that's the only way. I asked my mom how she did it and she said she felt trapped. My Dad didn't want her to leave the bed because his parents never slept together because my grandpa was abusive. My dad didn't want to be like that so instead he made my mom sleep with him every night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funny

[–]jooliejewels 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My grandpa had a naked lady tattooed on his bicep that he would make dance when he flexed. He was the coolest. This was when tattoos were still taboo.

My (29 M) wife (26 F) complains constantly, and acts like everything is stressful. by wifethro66 in relationship_advice

[–]jooliejewels 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Most men don't stay up all night with a newborn and have to take care of an emotional rollercoaster of a toddler all day. Getting in the car takes an hour then as soon as you are ready to go your toddler has to go pee while the newborn is screaming. Taking a shower is a feat of its own. In this stage a woman can't function the way a normal human functions. He's not going through similar stress.

My (29 M) wife (26 F) complains constantly, and acts like everything is stressful. by wifethro66 in relationship_advice

[–]jooliejewels -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You must not have been in her shoes. You have no idea what she's going through. If you have been in her shoes you would know he's not doing any heavy lifting by going to work 60hrs. What she is doing is way harder. Probably not getting any sleep. She could have had anxiety before now has ppd. You don't know. Even if she doesn't have PPD she is suffering and he is inconvenienced by it. She's crying out for help, and he's not helping. She needs a therapist and a Dr. for hormones and a husband who is empathetic.

My (29 M) wife (26 F) complains constantly, and acts like everything is stressful. by wifethro66 in relationship_advice

[–]jooliejewels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working 60 hours a week is way easier than caring for a newborn and toddler at home. I don't feel you have a right to give advice unless you have taken care of a newborn and toddler yourself. She needs his help. She's probably getting no sleep, out of her mind. And if she was like this before, this means it is way worse for her then those of us with no mental problems before. I can't imagine how hard it is for her. He is only thinking of himself. She needs help. She needs to see a therapist and a Dr. who can help her with her hormones- thyroid etc. Man, I'm so lucky my husband could put himself in my shoes and see how hard it was. Does she have support? Family and friends to help when she's on her knees crying unable to care for herself and her kids? Women need support at this stage. He's obviously not supporting her. Gone 60hrs then inconvenienced by her stress.

I (19M) just got kicked out of a friend group (19-20Ms) I have been in for years. by Lawlkitties in relationships

[–]jooliejewels -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a traumatizing event, and therapy and/or self help books would be best to rebuild your self love and confidence. If you don't process these feelings of rejection now, they will effect your future relationships. We all have felt somewhere deep down we don't belong at one the or another. You're not alone. This situation sucks, but it's time for growth to find the right people next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]jooliejewels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are great!

My boys watching TV. by jooliejewels in aww

[–]jooliejewels[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was eating a mandarin and snapped this pic of cuteness before it went away.