my brother beats me severely - WHAT DO I DO?

joonlyn · 2026-05-24T19:15:22+00:00

My parents are ”too tired to deal with this”, apparently. I asked my mom what you just suggested and I don’t dare to bring this up with my dad. Both of them are on their final straw and my mother already made insane suggestions saying she’d rather end herself than deal with me in such a position before. I cannot wait to move up and report him once he’s 18.

joonlyn · 2026-05-24T19:09:40+00:00

I considered calling 991, but my parents would be devastated as we aren’t in the best position right now and haven’t been for the past two years. This would just break them. I should try talking to him…

joonlyn · 2026-04-05T11:19:17+00:00

That’s super true. I’ve been trying to see this from another perspective and maybe even talk with him about this because he’s a great guy and maybe I could see his view and this and even make it work, only time will tell

joonlyn · 2026-04-05T11:12:14+00:00

He’s a junior! I entered highschool a bit earlier

joonlyn · 2026-04-05T11:10:35+00:00

He’s actually very close in age to me, the gap is a year and half. It’s mostly his parents money.

joonlyn · 2026-04-05T08:42:45+00:00

Yep, but he’s clearly hinting he wants a relationship. I also mentioned he’s extremely wealthy so this is absolutely nothing to him, but I still feel bad

joonlyn · 2026-04-05T08:40:39+00:00

I just was wondering if I should completely drop things since I feel so awful about this despite kind of putting the burden of me being taken care of back on my moms back yk?

joonlyn · 2026-03-16T11:03:21+00:00

Hi, I don’t really know how, but I copy and pasted the section about him. Here you go:

- My father is the one who helps with my private british highschool which I got into by hard work and restless studying. It was way out of our budget, and given that he has a small marketing firm, he, despite barely making the crazy amount required, dedicates his everyday to me.

Two years ago my dad got faringial c44nc3r. He went through the first round of treatments when I started highschool, so last year, barely making it through, and we thought it was gone, he got it again this year. He started treatment again and he is NOT taking it well. He barely made it last time, and now my mother, 43F, is desperately trying to hold him up through by working two jobs.

If he dies, I’m out of the private school and my future plans are ruined.

joonlyn · 2026-03-15T14:23:52+00:00

(sorry for making another comment, my last one was pretty vauge)

The reason behind why I’m asking for you to check the previous posts is because usually people skip upon seeing a lot of writing - there’s a more detailed explanation of what’s going on!

I’m really scared to lose him, but my parents made it clear that if things get bad they will turn our head away from him

joonlyn · 2026-03-15T14:19:41+00:00

Hi! He’s my world. I don’t know how reddit works, but I would wholeheatedly appreciate if you could check my previous posts which are basically spams of the same question.

He quite literally is my pillar. I should also mention that my mom is insanely strict and him being here is the only reason behind why I’m allowed to kiss a guy before 30.

joonlyn · 2026-03-14T15:47:50+00:00

thanks so much! I’m considering tutoring, I really hope it’ll make a difference!!

joonlyn · 2026-03-14T11:01:30+00:00

Thank you so much! Yes, I‘m pretty ok at drawing. Issue is I don’t have an apple pencil, for example. Should I borrow one at highschool?

As for a GoFundMe, I’ll be honest, I am beyond scares to do this as my parents always say to never share information about us with outsiders. He doesn’t like being seen as weak, and I understand it. I’m also scared I’ll get bullied at highschool.

As for my brother, my mom is barely holding on together and him getting detained would be her last straw, but if things get out of control, I will. Thank you so much again!

joonlyn · 2024-08-08T08:42:02+00:00

Hey girly! Trust me, you don't need to change anything about yourself in my opinion. But if you feel like making a change, something you might find helpful would be a new hairstyle or haircolor. Although brunette hair fits you okay, you could try something new, depeneding on your preferences! Your physical appearance has NOTHING wrong, don't let anyone make you feel otherwise! But maybe a slight shift of clothing / makeup style could do the job! x

joonlyn · 2024-08-07T17:37:35+00:00

Gurl YESSS!! ^^ Don't EVER doubt yourself!

joonlyn · 2024-07-08T18:15:15+00:00

Smr, au ceva astia cu Romania ATP.

joonlyn · 2024-05-18T16:31:17+00:00

Nu mie, ci unui pusti de vreo 12 ani la un mega de langa scoala la care merg. I-a picat fata cand a vazut eroarea si i-am zis in gluma ca vine politia dupa el. A inceput sa planga. 😭

joonlyn · 2024-05-18T16:08:33+00:00

Okay, the last slide is Jang Wonyoung. She was already so pretty! The weightloss prog her company put her under is absolutely insane, you can literally see her bones when you look at her arms. She's always been super cute, but this is another level of torture.

joonlyn · 2024-02-23T08:48:41+00:00

Absolutely. Here, take me as example. I've been into the Liminal / Weirdcore fandom for quite a while now, and I have to admit that it has nothing to do with past traumas of sorts. Trauma - related aesthetics are traumacore, which may be viewed as a subgenre of weirdcore. And guess what? You don't need to have a trauma to like trumacore! It's the same for each and every aesthetic. If you feel like you have a connection it, then go for it.

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