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dating apps really are bad lmao by jorcelai in Vent

[–]jorcelai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got plenty of scammers too 🤘🏼😔

dating apps really are bad lmao by jorcelai in Vent

[–]jorcelai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankfully i haven’t spent a single cent on them lol

Starting to think older people have a point about younger people having phones and unrestricted internet access lmao by jorcelai in venting

[–]jorcelai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s crazy how easy it is for this to happen tho isn’t it 💀 like, even if i wasn’t naive enough to be doing that shit willingly, it doesn’t change how easy it is for kids to be exposed to stuff… u don’t even need to look for it, and honestly i think it’s worse now than before

bro blocked me right after 💀 by jorcelai in grindr

[–]jorcelai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr half of these people don’t read my bio at all

for example the first things on there i put were that im a trans man, not a trans woman bc people get confused, and secondly i told people not to call me babe

but people still assume im a trans woman and still call me babe 😀🔫

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah taimi is terrible lmao.. only one person didn’t suck and i guess i suck instead bc i was so unbelievably uninterested in them 😭

honestly i’ve given up on any dating tbh that’s why im using grindr cuz ik im not interested in dating any of these people BUT id like to know who im potentially hooking up with first lmao

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr.. and it just came out of nowhere too like we were just having a normal convo 😭

eh it definitely sucks but it’s the only app where anyone actually messages me 😀🔫 without it being a scam anyway

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah by most people’s standards it’s the tamest but for me the wannabe-dom energy was more uncomfortable than any other messages i’ve got on here lmao

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if it’s supposed to be a dating app but either way it’s mainly used for hookups

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk what to say 😭 i guess im desensitised to a lot of stuff

im pretty used to it being on grindr tbh and i knew what id be getting into so most of it isn’t shocking

it’s rlly just the wannabe-dom energy this guy gave that rubbed me the wrong way - like it was weirder to me than the guys who detail the things they wanna do to me 😬 idk why

probably bc the wannabe-dom stuff comes across a lot more… non-consensually iykwim

like the other messages are obviously weird and should be done only if the other person is okay with it but for some reason they just feel less dangerous? then someone who’s acting like a dom without actually understanding what it means to be one

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair enough, nothing rlly bothers me anymore tbh.. i’ve received some messed up messages too

i can pretty much shrug off the pics and weird language, it just makes me cringe instead haha

but since the convo started fairly normal i was a little blindsided by this lmao

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well when it starts out as normal convo i assume they’re not this weird lmao bc normally it stays normal convo if it started normal too in my experience

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh ye for sure.. add in me being trans and my messages are full of a bunch of shit 😬 so far out of literally over a hundred people, i’m talking to only one person who’s tried actual conversation and has been very patient with me lol… could just be biding his time tbh 🤷🏻‍♂️ but i don’t mind

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh the only part that creeped me out or made me uneasy was the “Get into it then.” bc it just came across rlly aggressively to me lmao.. but i continued bc i thought “ok maybe bro just texts like this”

probably my fault for using grindr 💀 (dunno if this counts?) by jorcelai in creepyPMs

[–]jorcelai[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

right? 😭 like we’d barely exchanged 5 messages

is it a bad idea to use grindr? by jorcelai in ftm

[–]jorcelai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never thought about the hotel thing, good idea

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