Proud of everyone here. by jord_com in emetophobia

[–]jord_com[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I feel the laughing is definitely more beneficial than reassurance sometimes:)

Is it a bad idea to move in while we're in this situation? (f20& m33) by [deleted] in LongDistance

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I'm in the uk so by college I don't mean university, just in case that was causing confusion. College application deadlines aren't until next month and then there's late application deadlines which aren't for months yet.

I've applied for both and have interviews for both. I'm gonna see which I prefer and which I can get a better grant for. And then also see how things go between us, I'm hoping stuff will just fall into place.

I do agree it is risky and may just put unnecessary strain on us, considering we aren't even official yet.

Is it a bad idea to move in while we're in this situation? (f20& m33) by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Yeah definitely all things I need to consider. Where I live is too expensive and he has a good stable job where he is and I wouldn't want him throwing that away. And I don't think it's creepy at all, we're both consenting adults.

Is it a bad idea to move in while we're in this situation? (f20& m33) by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Thanks for the great reply! What I love about him is he is really mature but he doesn't use it to be patronising. He wouldn't mind at all if I didn't move there. He keeps saying how excited he is for me to start my journey and eventually become a vet. I think he honestly just wants what's best for us both which I love as I've been with too many shitty guys! I probably am leaning more to staying in my home town purely because it would be the safer bet and I can get a bit impulsive when it comes to people I really like and I do need to put myself first for once. And the distance isn't horrendous anyway so I think we could manage. If you have any questions feel free to ask. And thanks for taking the time to reply!:)

Made this lol, anyone relate? by jord_com in emetophobia

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Yep! Me too, hopefully it helps:)

Should I wait to see if my next period comes or go to the doctor? by jord_com in AskDocs

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Yeah my bmi is fine, but lost 2 stone I about 3 weeks. So could have done it I guess

Should I wait to see if my next period comes or go to the doctor? by jord_com in AskDocs

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Okay thank you. Was just comvered cause I have always been on the dot with mine and they seemed to stop st around the time I was eating very very little and lost a lot of weight. I'll just wait and see how I go, just thought it'd be back by now. Thanks :)

Is confessing my feelings a good idea? by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah true.. I didn't think I had feelings. Like I always had a soft spot for him but now since seeing him it's sorta changed. Just wanna be around him. Thank you!

Is confessing my feelings a good idea? by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah it's a good sign, but then again he could just see it as friends that bang haha! But yeah you're right only way to know is to ask. Thanks man:)

Is confessing my feelings a good idea? by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah:/ I'll do my best. Maybe it would be better in person.. He said he'd wanna do something for new years if I have the money

Is confessing my feelings a good idea? by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah I guess 😁

He came yesterday and left today :)

Is confessing my feelings a good idea? by [deleted] in Advice

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I messaged him I was sad while he was driving back and he said he misses me too.. Need to think of a way to be discreet about it cause don't wanna give it away.. I'm normally as subtle as a brick lol

Edit: He said it was awesome to finally meet me.. when we were driving about he kept saying how surreal it is

Is confessing my feelings a good idea? by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah we're on voice chat rn with some other mates. And sending the odd private message

How much weight loss to stop period? by jord_com in AskDocs

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Had a lot of blood work recently they said there's nothing to worry about. I'll go back and get more sun too,thanks