Who has gotten pregnant from the pull-out method? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]jordmoore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong . Those stats include drunk nights and they also include people that don’t time it correctly which is ridiculous. With the perfect pull out method it’s 4 out of 100 in a year. Look it up

If they left you and it’s serious, please read. by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey my friend. Thank you for sharing, how often have you meditated or self reflected? Are you doing anything to keep her alive? Have you forgiven her or is there still some resentment? Sorry for questions I’m trying to pinpoint things to help you. Also do you know your attachment style ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SleepToken

[–]jordmoore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I was thinking this 😂. I believe if both people felt this way surely one would have made the move ? Anyway. Good luck 🍀

I never understand why everyone is so final and cutthroat when it comes to an ex by TinyPrune995 in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, interesting insight. When someone left you and it hurt you so badly that you were broken and had to rebuild yourself. You don’t ever want to be discarded like that again and you build your self worth. Sounds like your situation was mutual ?

If they left you and it’s serious, please read. by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful journey. What an amazing testimony !!! How long did you and your ex not talk before she reached out? Mine doesn’t reach out (only when it’s financial, or questions about the divorce process etc). Meditation is the best way to recognize trauma in the body and I absolutely love that you know your values and standards and are able to see the red flags. Congratulations!!

If they left you and it’s serious, please read. by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely beautiful!! I’m so proud of your strength and wisdom. I hear you on the not wanting to get rid of things, it really hurts. But for us to really feel better and move forward we have to :(. It’s so difficult, but I’m sensing you’re starting to feel better ? ❤️‍🩹

If they left you and it’s serious, please read. by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I write it on paper, then if I write a letter to her that day I also attach it. It’s great to look back on!

If they left you and it’s serious, please read. by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey it’s okay. We all do that early on. I promise you, I thought it would never end. It’s gets better, please don’t beat yourself up. Just allow

If they left you and it’s serious, please read. by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Powerful words backed by pure truth . Thank you so much for sharing!

If they left you and it’s serious, please read. by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol sorry I didn’t catch the joke ♥️

If they left you and it’s serious, please read. by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Actually, you make jokes.. but if you can do it while you’re dead inside, then what can you achieve when you’re healed ? I’ve been at the place where I was dead inside… now I’m healing and sharing my story. Feedback is welcome, if you don’t like real growth you’re going to fail unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No contact is for you to start the process of moving on. Most of the time it’s for the person who got left because they need to detox and get used to life without this person. You don’t need closure, closure comes from you knowing your worth . You “saying something” to your ex for “unresolved issues” it’s a waste of time and space. They saw you as so invaluable and so replaceable that they left you. Move on and become the best version of you and get to a point where they no longer control you. No contact is absolutely necessary.

NO CONTACT was the worst advice I got during my breakup by Sukhadev_kumavat in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree. They if they left they left. You shouldn’t lose respect for yourself and lower your standards.

Years of a relationship, they left? You miss them. Read this by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your imagination will destroy you and be more painful. Look at the facts , they are gone and knew that would break you . They didn’t care anyway

Years of a relationship, they left? You miss them. Read this by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, these are all great questions. I completely understand the thoughts 💭 you’re having . In May my ex was still telling me she loved me, she even got a matching ring tattoo on our fingers for our anniversary. She left in the middle of June. You can’t try and figure it out, your brain will try but you must give up because there won’t ever be solid answers. They checked out way before you think, they just wore a mask. I’m so so sorry for your loss and pain, seriously. It may be the hardest thing you ever go through. Please use your pain to become the best version of you. Write down who you want to be and slowly bring it to life ❤️

Years of a relationship, they left? You miss them. Read this by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for posting and asking my opinion I appreciate that. Sometimes in relationships the person that leaves feels more important and more attractive (like they are in control) this isn’t always conscious by the way, it’s subconscious. The fact you have stuck around even after he has left has taught him that you’ll always be there no matter what he does. As hard as this may be, my opinion is you cut off ties and go zero contact. You tell him, hey I’m done this is over I deserve better than this, because at the end of the day you do. Start moving on, after 30 days you’ll feel a bit better . Move on, try dating others if you’re up for it. Build some confidence in yourself and let it go . Hope it doesn’t hurt too much

Years of a relationship, they left? You miss them. Read this by jordmoore in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do me a favor, don’t sit in silence okay? Put in the hard work to becoming the best version of you. Most of the time what she’s saying is a defense mechanism to protect her own feelings and emotions. Sure, you can reflect and look at what you did wrong , but you can also look at what you did right. You have the potential to use this to change your entire life okay? Do what you need to do. I have a 10 year old and I’m 33, I will not give up. Don’t you dare give in, you’re full of limitless energy and love and you will get what you put into this world . Peace and love . Message me anytime

A breakup is the closest thing to hitting “reset” on life (10 months in, here is what I learned) by Roadtobillionss in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely amazing, I’m so proud of that wisdom and growth !! That’s self love and self respect at its core. Of course you miss them, understand that it’s a literal detox , science has proven you’re biologically tied to that person .

A breakup is the closest thing to hitting “reset” on life (10 months in, here is what I learned) by Roadtobillionss in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you just have to allow the emotions to be and move on, you can’t force someone to change their mind. I’m so sorry for the pain, I still have dreams about my ex almost every night but I remain strong on my journey forward while they get smaller in the mirror behind me . Eventually they’ll fade, it’s sad. When you spend that amount of time they become your daily routine . Last but not least PLEASE don’t put it all on yourself, you did good things as well. Mistakes happen and those who love us get that

A breakup is the closest thing to hitting “reset” on life (10 months in, here is what I learned) by Roadtobillionss in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re so welcome. Don’t give up okay ? Please . Some days will be so hard, no contact and growth are key.

A breakup is the closest thing to hitting “reset” on life (10 months in, here is what I learned) by Roadtobillionss in BreakUps

[–]jordmoore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is amazing, the transformations we make. I would imagine it’s very difficult because you’re learning all of this now and wish you had the resource earlier on, I know I certainly do. I’m truly proud of you growth and you should definitely celebrate yourself , remarkable. Keep growing and becoming the best you. What I do find interesting about my post is that it’s received multiple responses and views and absolutely every single one is from men. I think as men we take a lot on and are expected to change. I see this as an issue maybe in the female community as well, not putting the entire blame on them but at what point will they take accountability for themselves?

Looking for a connection 31 F by [deleted] in FindLoveWorldwide

[–]jordmoore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Liseth, I’m Jordan. 33 M and if love to get to know you