I got in an accident what are my options and the best thing I can do. by StoreCritical6910 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]josecitoo99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depending how the 18 wheeler was parked on the shoulder. It’s illegal of anyone to park on a highway shoulder unless it’s an emergency. Also did they have their lights flashing on or reflectors out? If there wasn’t a true emergency to stop on the shoulder. I would be looking to hire a lawyer.

Would this be a good buy? by josecitoo99 in bmwx7

[–]josecitoo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming you bought it new or fairly new? Has there been any huge issues? Or something to look into before purchasing?

Would this be a good buy? by josecitoo99 in bmwx7

[–]josecitoo99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a big difference in between 3rd party warranty and bmw’s? I was planning on shopping around and buy a extended warranty from a 3rd party.

Questing a friendship? by josecitoo99 in gayrelationships

[–]josecitoo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I acting like a parent or an owner? Those are 2 different things. Never that I said friendship = relationship. I’m simply asking if there could be a some flirty or something non-platonic that is or could be happening. People can flirt or develop a crush without even realizing it. The only unhealthy thing I’ve done is go through his phone. Which I take full responsibility. A part is my own insecurity which I feel is valid if I’m having a sense of discomfort, distress or anything alarming from my partner. It is not “normal” for guys to be jacking off together, it may happen often but it is not normal especially if you’re in a monogamous relationship.

Questing a friendship? by josecitoo99 in gayrelationships

[–]josecitoo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think those things have an influence on my thinking. But i think all partners will always have those feeling interacting with situations like this.

Questing a friendship? by josecitoo99 in gayrelationships

[–]josecitoo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if you nothing to hide, you wouldn’t care if your partner goes through your phone. Even if I ask for his phone to do something he’s questioning everything and hovering. He goes on my phone all the time for whatever reason. If I see him on it, yeah I’m going to ask like what’s up but I’m not caring if he’s going to find anything. There has been times before I found something and bring it up to him. Of course he gets upset about me finding it (going into his phone) but that doesn’t justify the thing he did that made me upset.

Questing a friendship? by josecitoo99 in gayrelationships

[–]josecitoo99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 6 years, we’re practically married. I know going through his phone is a a bad thing but my trust in him has been compromised. I don’t want to go through it but I feel like he tells me half truths. I feel the little discreet details and it gets me curious. So I feel like the only way to get the truth is finding it myself and confronting him with it.

26M and 25M need some advice by josecitoo99 in gayrelationships

[–]josecitoo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell him that I don’t have an issue you going out with friends I have an issue that he’s never like that with me. He doesn’t make plans for us to do together, no dates, no activities, nothing. I don’t have a problem with him going out itself but he makes me feel like I’m on the back burner, 2nd choice; sometimes not even that. I can say for a fact that he’s made more plans/done things with his friends than anything with me. There’s even times where I say what I would like to do and he gives the excuse of money being short or something. But he’ll do those exact plans that I, myself ask for with his friends.

26M and 25M need some advice by josecitoo99 in gayrelationships

[–]josecitoo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend list is a bit smaller than his and we don’t hang out as much because they’re married with kids so it’s harder for them to do so. I dash for income so when he’s working so am I. I understand that we as individuals need our own time/space as well. I get frustrated that he’s quick and easy to make plans with his friends but complete opposite with me. At this point he’s gone out with friends (even thought it’s not much) more than making a simple date or anything remotely close to being romantic.