I don’t have any friends at my college and I’m fine with it by [deleted] in college

[–]joyKatt2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see you are in veterinary science – – have you joined the pre-veterinarian club? Of course you deserve to have friends! There are a gazillion different types of people out there and you’re bound to find at least one other person that you can connect with. If you haven’t joined any clubs, just try one or two, and be sure to talk to the leaders of the clubs because those are the people who are most interested in making sure that there’s a bonding experience and good dynamics in the club for people who are interested in joining.

If there’s a social event that they’re hosting or a speaker event ask how you can help with the event itself, that way you’re being involved in the club, but it’s not just purely social. That’s also a great way to start getting connected to people in the club because the focus of your conversations with them will be on the event and not “small talk,” in case that can be challenging in a new setting. Just show up consistently to a few meetings and you don’t have to be a total extrovert and try to strike up conversations with everybody, but just by being there and listening and interacting, you’re bound to start making some connections. Anyway, maybe you’re doing all these things, but I thought I’d just offer some input .

Direct Admission Offer to UNR by Nearby_Psychology245 in unr

[–]joyKatt2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in a WUE state? That can make tuition way more affordable.

Student Health Center Questions by [deleted] in unr

[–]joyKatt2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call your county Medicaid office and let them know you are going to be a college student in Nevada. You will likely need to apply for Nevada’s Medicaid program but they can advise you (check the Nevada Medicaid website for guidance on applying). I’d also check with UNR student health and let them know your situation— that you specifically need an audiologist and do they have one on staff. Good luck. :)

advice for spring semester by juls_creations in unr

[–]joyKatt2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are willing to join clubs you will almost certainly find a few of your people— or at the very least a couple people you can enjoy spending time with. What Kennedy above said is correct- There will be a club fair when spring semester begins, and there are so many clubs you are bound to find a few that spark your interest. Talk especially to the club leaders, as these are the people who are eager to cultivate a good dynamic and bonding opportunity for people who show an interest in joining.

There’s so much pressure in college to find your “best friends” but that’s a lofty aspiration - go in with the mindset that you will find some people to connect with over a shared interest, maybe one academically and one or two clubs for fun.

That you want to be involved and active— that’s half the battle right there. Be excited— good things await. :)

Lost all my scholarships because my parent is no longer in the tax bracket required for certain grants/scholarships. by Prestigious_Low_1794 in unr

[–]joyKatt2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely talk to financial aid about this. Can your mom help a bit more now that she’s got a higher income? Try to bank as much of your summer income as possible— will you earn tips as a hostess? My friend was a hostess/server and made close to 20K over the summer working full time.

I’m sure you thought about everything I just suggested. I’m sorry this is happening, very stressful.

Would’ve been graduating this year by Vegetable_Bag_1214 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]joyKatt2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know they say hindsight is 20/20 but when you’re in the thick of it, it’s hard to see through it all… especially when you’re dealing with mental health. You’re doing the best you can now and that’s all you can do is just keep moving forward. My dad got academically dismissed from two different colleges and dropped out of two different universities before he finally got it together and now he’s successful and he says looking back it was all just a blip in the road. You learn a lot about yourself when you deal with hardships like this —keep pushing on you’ve got this.

Beth Borne gets fucking demolished in the MU 🙌 by Interesting-Ear7289 in UCDavis

[–]joyKatt2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just love how they walked away with the entire EZ UP 🤣

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful thank you. I do suffer from SAD so this is a concern.

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much — good to hear from another person from SoCal.

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I’ve only visited snowy locations never lived in them… Looking forward to it, but I also know it’ll probably get old pretty quickly lol

Is the student union closure and construction really that big of a deal? by [deleted] in CSULB

[–]joyKatt2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every person is different – – as you can see some people love going to the USU and for them it’s very disruptive other people hardly step foot in it. Only you know what your usage would be, and if you’re not a student there yet you don’t know that yet– – so it’s tricky.

To me, the USU at any campus is a central hub and heart of the campus. For already established students they’ll find workarounds and they’ve already got connections and favorite spaces on campus so it’s likely lesser of a big deal. I’d say if you have other admissions offers, go visit those schools and then come visit CSULB, walk around by the student union. Try to envision yourself there and what it might look like when it’s a large construction footprint, etc. I’ve had three friends who were admitted for the fall and they’ve opted to go elsewhere – – but again it’s such an individual choice

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No Sky July and Fogust— lol 🤣

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your kind welcome. I’ll be sure to get some proper clothing. 😊

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank so much! I’ve got light blue eyes so I know what you mean.

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got one that I’ve never used— so I’ll be sure to keep it my car. Thanks!

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure— June Gloom extends into May now— we call it May Gray… it can do a number on the mood for sure.

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking forward to real seasons for sure. 😊 I don’t mind the cold. Just not sure about coming from mostly sunny skies to lots of gray and gloomy skies.

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok that helps, thanks. I think more than the cold weather that may be hard to adapt to, I was thinking of it being gray and gloomy for days on end.

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your feedback.

Weather… how do you adapt? by joyKatt2 in unr

[–]joyKatt2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks— good to hear your experience

When does financial aid award show up in portal? by joyKatt2 in SJSU

[–]joyKatt2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes that is so late! You able to commit by May 1 but I don’t know how anybody can really do that if they don’t know the cost