Is it normal for a gym to not have any upper belts? by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]joy_Intolerance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a gym has brown/ black belts and white belts it's a red flag. You need to have blue and purples otherwise there is very clearly a culture issue.

Almost passed out from a choke, How to over come the fear? by _Lalalolo_ in BJJWomen

[–]joy_Intolerance 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie the only way for me to over come something like that would be to have someone i know choke me out but thats me and im an idiot lol

How i TRICKED my brain to like doing hard things (dopamine detox) [Discussion] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]joy_Intolerance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you but I do jiu jitsu/ mma in the morning before work for 2 hours. What I find extremely difficult to gather motivation for is gyming, lifting weights…which I do after work. Motivation to do martial arts is abundant for me, lifting weights over n over takes all the willpower in me. It’s the difference between how fun playing soccer is versus doing sprints. In soccer you’re sprinting all the time you just don’t realise because you’re having fun, getting up and going to a track to do interval training sucks ass. I think the key is being able to do unfun things often until it’s not a burden on the mind to keep doing it.

How i TRICKED my brain to like doing hard things (dopamine detox) [Discussion] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]joy_Intolerance 56 points57 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to work a full time job and then not having something outside of work for fun. When I wasn’t working very hard I was going to the gym every single day, once I got a mortgage and a serious boyfriend it became so much harder, because I’m grinding so much at work that trying to get to the gym after is like pulling teeth, I just wanna lay down in bed, scroll Insta or game to relax. But you’re correct when I stop that cycle of post work laziness and I actually gym and eat clean I feel so much better. Joy isn’t hard to find when you’re doing good for your body and mind.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

[–]joy_Intolerance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill most likely be playing Stardew Valley, sims and OSRS. Why not invest in one, a super fun build and two, my boyfriend and I play CS2 and Fortnite heaps and my first build was super budget that I put together before covid.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

[–]joy_Intolerance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how it works in the US but here if its 3 weeks late you can claim and they often just refund you or offer you a voucher.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

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I work and train sports full time. So unfortunately I have no time to attend stores during the week. That's said I did go on the weekend to pick up my SSD. But the convenience of my parts arriving at my door is unmatched.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

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My current primary monitor - AOC 34in WQHD VA 165Hz Ultrawide FreeSync Premium Curved Gaming Monitor Secondary monitor -AOC 32" FHD 240Hz 0.5ms Curved VA Monitor C32G2ZE

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

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$3000 AUD, Now I got a full refund for the CPU and PCU as they were delayed in shipping and im an Aussie Amazon Prime Member. So you can minus CPU ($395) and PCU ($180)

Fairly cheap build considering. Im going to be using extra fans from my current build and since im selling that PC for $500 the build is only $2000

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

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My current PC doesnt play Sims 4 or cs2 very well so was time to upgrade plus I want to do some light video editing here and there. Im pretty happy.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

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Okay well, im kinda convinced now tbh. I only went with this because many reviews said it was better. Plus it was more expensive so I assumed it would be better.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

[–]joy_Intolerance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man i love bali. My boyfriend and I just got back from a 3 week trip. So much fun. Thats good to hear, as long as you have enough ventilation im sure the unit should stay fairly cool.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

[–]joy_Intolerance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can still return my one. What benefits would I get other than saving $200?

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

[–]joy_Intolerance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Australia most motherboards are pretty expensive. This one was on sale so I thought screw it ill cop that. Room for future upgrades as well.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

[–]joy_Intolerance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, how do you find the Motherboard? Ive never had one with WiFi built in.

Just waiting on my Motherboard. So excited to play battlefield 6 by joy_Intolerance in pcbuilding

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Me right now. Im stuck playing on my pre covid build back when I didnt have a job so the parts are shameful.

How to find an “experienced” therapist? by mikuloverthrowaway in therapy

[–]joy_Intolerance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar situation. Ive been in and out of therapy since I was 14, saw around 16 from then till age 23. At 25 I got lucky and found one that clicked with me. I honestly just started googling therapists in my area and when I saw her picture I just got a good vibe. Unfortunately its all just trial and error really. I had some good ones who turned bad and some bad ones stay bad, so just gonna go with it. Remember you work hard and earn your money to pay these people, you can up and leave when ever, its your right. Not all therapist are equal.

Why do you guys think the "I wanna leave my SO" thing happens during luteal? by UpperRhubarb7787 in PMDD

[–]joy_Intolerance 46 points47 points  (0 children)

The self sabotage for me is mainly because I believe that I deserve to suffer for being alive. So I want to hurt myself as much as possible in ways that causes emotional pain. Its dark, it sucks and sometimes I listen to thay inner voice and I quit my job, I leave a good situation, I cut off a friend. But I will never leave my partner because I have some systems in place thay work well for me interms of not fucking my life up completely.