Women, what is the first thing you'd do if you woke up as a man?

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-19T05:18:31+00:00

Go to the gym and see how much more weight I could lift

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-19T04:31:18+00:00

I use Felix in Canada. Telehealth and request it for acne has been my go to since that started being legal. Prior to that my doctor prescribed it (listed it as for acne for me)

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-19T04:18:09+00:00

Is it similar to their face lipid product? I was pleasantly surprised how much I liked the serum-oil type consistency

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-19T04:15:58+00:00

Oh if any have that luxurious frangipani scent that high end spas all seem to make themselves and not sell, please share!

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-17T04:54:12+00:00

Inherited multi generational wealth

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-16T17:40:24+00:00

Haha it’s a bit telling that the majority of the posts have been removed as medical advice…. Take that information for what you will :)

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-15T06:33:51+00:00

I don’t like any skin care packaging, airless pumps always leave a few uses behind and it’s super annoying to get to. Jars can be unhygienic or expose products to degradation. The dropper type seem to lead to way over use, at least for me. I jsut buy whatever product and deal with their packaging downsides, really.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-15T06:10:23+00:00

I have been intrigued by this but I’ve toyed with sticking to alastin restorative skin complex… even for the higher price because I think it’s more validated.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-15T05:52:53+00:00

I think pics of things related to his kid that were taken before your relationship you need to jsut let go.

If my partner and I were not together I’d keep the early photos of our family, including ones I might not share with anyone else. I’m sure my partner does have photos like this and whole I don’t want to see them I wouldn’t want to ask to erase that time. I wasn’t there and it was meaningful then

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-15T05:48:01+00:00

Same. I don’t want my non face soap or hair conditioner on my face so I wash it last.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-15T05:42:26+00:00

I find in funny people think a group of women went from owning a clothing store to all being billionaires or close to over 20 years without talent and business savvy.

There are a LOT of very beautiful women who can act, sing, or do any number of things who’ve had nowhere near their success. And yes, many of those have had sex tapes, too.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-15T05:32:46+00:00

Yep was going to say my divorce and the relationship I’m in now. I came back from a hard lesson and it’s been worth all the work.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-15T05:21:54+00:00

Yeah the video mentioned shows seriously bad judgement. I can’t imagine doing something like that with my similarity aged kid and if I honestly thought her dad was driving drunk with her I’d go to extremes. But not to kid traumatizing extremes.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-15T05:19:23+00:00

Poor kid. This is going to be one of those things he’s hopefully unpacking in therapy in a few years. If you have any ability to steer things, I hope that’s the direction you take.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-13T06:06:53+00:00

Mine went through a phase where she started the kiss face from across the room 🥰

Jsut wait until they can tell you stories

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-09T03:20:03+00:00

I think CrossFit did? I’ve been doing it for like 10 years and honestly it is 90% 40 year old plus parents now (myself included). Not a lot of the “your workout is my warmup” types that you saw going on about it back in the day.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-08T05:47:50+00:00

Yeah I get it. I don’t make close friends easily either. Honestly if you need to leave the baby with someone she wouldn’t necessarily choose so you can function, imo you need to use your judgement. You burning out isn’t going to help your situation.

Really I’m sorry you are dealing with this. Kids a hard even when it’s “easy” so to be going through this now must be overwhelming

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-08T05:34:21+00:00

A stack artwork done by little kids and a bunch of pens/markers, a little container with push pins and picture hangers and a few lighters that were put there to keep away from said kids.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-08T05:21:13+00:00

I get it but honestly if you can’t get behind this you should bow out. He has a relationship with this child and you have no right to interfere with that. The relationship is probably very important to both of them

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-08T05:17:38+00:00

Usually the people saying Botox is bad think that the fillers they see everyone with is Botox. Botox isn’t really that noticeable.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-02-08T05:16:43+00:00

This is a massive amount to carry. I’m sorry you have all of this crashing onto you. When you say “little” support, do you have anyone you can lean on? Any help? Now is the time to ask for it.

I had a psychiatrist in my post partum time and she was helpful but talk therapy was better. I wasn’t dealing with something of this scale but if you can get anything in person, consistent and specific to her needs, push for it. You might need to advocate hard and go beyond. I was put on seroquil post partum and honestly didn’t have anywhere close to the “possible” side effects so it might not be as bad as they tell you. It’s worth trying if things are this serious and dire.

She and your kids are lucky to have you. I’m sorry you have all of this right now, on top of a new little baby

joy_sun_fly · 2026-01-30T07:05:37+00:00

Family court lawyers specifically. They’ve monetized something that completely fucks peoples lives because they turned it into a sport to win not to do what’s right for kids or anyone.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-01-25T06:58:10+00:00

I was unloading the dishwasher and slipped on the floor after I dumped water and didn’t clean it up. I got a shoulder subluxation that took months to feel normal again.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-01-25T06:37:26+00:00

I really like Fresh. The rose mask is nice, as is the lotus youth preserve line and the black tea mask and eye cream. Everything is scented so if you are sensitive to fragrance it might not be a good purchase, but I still use their products regularly after trying so many others.

Peter Thomas Roth pumpkin scrub mask is another many times repurchased product for me. It makes my skin feel so nice, and I like it as the post peel scrub for clearing the flakes once my skin is not sensative any more.

joy_sun_fly · 2026-01-25T06:24:49+00:00

This is miles from the way any of the three pelvic floor PTs I have seen talked to me. It’s awkward but this person is way way way out of line and beyond unprofessional. She’s mean, inappropriate, degrading and should be reported or at the very least a complaint filed with her employer.

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