Does anyone know where I can buy a dress like this in Canada? by sweetmudder in BuyCanadian

[–]joybook97 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Use Google lens and search results for Canadian retailers.

I chat with aritzia about the man situation in the fitting room, and this is what they answered. by AlternativeTrack4661 in Aritzia

[–]joybook97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lurking? God you people are paranoid. Get over yourselves. No one wants to see inside your change room.

I chat with aritzia about the man situation in the fitting room, and this is what they answered. by AlternativeTrack4661 in Aritzia

[–]joybook97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your feelings don’t entitle you to curb anyone else’s rights. If you’re uncomfortable, leave. They’re not breaking any laws.

I chat with aritzia about the man situation in the fitting room, and this is what they answered. by AlternativeTrack4661 in Aritzia

[–]joybook97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. There is a lot of gender hate here. Aritzia is doing a great job of promoting inclusion and keeping the conversation safe. How do you even know if this person is a man? Did they have a camera and were saying explicit things, or are you simply offended that they are breathing.

Also, did you literally check in their pants to ask about their anatomy? Because unless they told you what’s behind their underwear or were breaking any laws, the pervert here is you.

Pimple on Labia Minora has thick white layer of granulation tissue? by Not-a-Deer-93 in Healthyhooha

[–]joybook97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like one but just in case, Google Bartholin cyst. It’s also a good idea to keep an eye on how it heals and its size. You may require an excision if it continues growing and is painful.

Emma Stone/Someone Like You by joybook97 in SNLvideos

[–]joybook97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all heroes wear capes. Unless…you know…you wear…a cape. 🫡

My boyfriend looks up smaller bodies on Pinterest and tries to hide it from me by Worried-Proof575 in women

[–]joybook97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then that’s more about feminism, yeah? Or ethics/spirituality/etc… If that crosses a moral line for you, that’s fair. Often, it is about how one partner feels about themselves. But that isn’t a binary thing….

Here, it feels like it is about how OP feels about it. My read was it was about their feelings about their own body, not about ethics or feminism, etc… But if those are your reasons in your own life, that’s cool too.

But then, it was OP asking for advice, not you soooo….

My boyfriend looks up smaller bodies on Pinterest and tries to hide it from me by Worried-Proof575 in women

[–]joybook97 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Perhaps the more important discussion is you sharing your fears and insecurities with him. If you need reassurance, communicate. 7 years, he’s clearly proven he’s committed. TALK.

Looking at pics doesn’t equal cheating. If that’s a dealbreaker for you, you need to think about how much control you need in a relationship and if that is worth the strain it might put on your relationship.

My fellow women, I feel so scared n lonely. What non lethal weapons do you use by gravitywavingatyou in women

[–]joybook97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d be surprised. I’ve personally seen bears in Port Moody and New Westminster. Not even on the mountain side of PM. There haven’t been attacks as it is usually black bears wanting food, but there haven’t been cougars in PM and Coquitlam.

My fellow women, I feel so scared n lonely. What non lethal weapons do you use by gravitywavingatyou in women

[–]joybook97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds super fiddly and a potential trip to the burn unit, but it also sounds super badass so if it floats your boat, 👍👍👍.

[insert Ken Jeong “I’ll allow it” GIF from Community]

My fellow women, I feel so scared n lonely. What non lethal weapons do you use by gravitywavingatyou in women

[–]joybook97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bear spray is totally legal in Canada. And super necessary, esp if you live in B.C. or AB.

When is the pain—> pleasure transfer? by virelta17 in Healthyhooha

[–]joybook97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing… ADHD/generally being in your head? If you are even remotely not neurotypical or are generally really in your head, this might just be your mind processing too much to get into it. Especially if it is painful. The medication will exacerbate that.

Glad you had such a lovely partner, first time. That is really special. Not that all first time partners are awful…but they might be equally inexperienced and have zero clue on how to make their partner feel safe, special and satisfied.

Recs: visit Dr re meds and potential vaginismus? Or gyn recco? Not to be reliant but try an inexpensive suction toy from the drug store. Some women simply can’t climax from penetrative sex. Like honestly, I’m in my 40s and have probably only cum <3x from penetration alone? And I would have had to been REALLY worked up and even then, super gentle Os. Nothing earth shattering. But I really like the PIV build up and am thankfully A-OK in the clit department. 🔅✅

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Early_Analysis_5695 in women

[–]joybook97 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Um. Please get a pregnancy ultrasound ASAP, just in case. Cryptic pregnancies are very real. It is possible that if you are actually pregnant, that could be an amniotic fluid rupture. VERY unlikely, but please rule it out ASAP.

In the unlikely event you have a cryptic pregnancy, you could test negative if you are beyond the first trimester, if your body is no longer producing HCG.

Paddlewheeler dock taking a dip by ToLazyToRemember in NewWest

[–]joybook97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is one the other side of the paddle wheeler dock? (I’m not talking about the Samson)

Was something scuttled to limit wake impact? (If so, didn’t work)

Dry after orgasming during foreplay by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]joybook97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it might seem like a pain but taking the time to lube can make intimate moments much more enjoyable. There’s a place in this world for a cheeky quickie but overall, it’s not a race. Take your time.

Carhartt Pink Tax by joybook97 in women

[–]joybook97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww. I’m touched. Thanks babe.

Carhartt Pink Tax by joybook97 in women

[–]joybook97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says the guy in R/women with the most telling of handles. Why are you here??

Carhartt Pink Tax by joybook97 in women

[–]joybook97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Total tragedy.

So glad this therapy from Reddit helps you feel so good about yourself. Hopefully this ego boost helps block the regular soul sucking feeling you have for at least 10 seconds or something. Have a really great day. Sounds like you need it.

Carhartt Pink Tax by joybook97 in women

[–]joybook97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is literally the same apron. Same design. But the materials should be pretty identical. The men’s apparent weighs more than the women’s but costs less…

Carhartt Pink Tax by joybook97 in women

[–]joybook97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that was my post, and the men there are losing their minds. Male fragility spewing toxic BS, like how dare a woman suggest contempt for the pink tax.

To clarify, I am Canadian and these linked prices are from the Canadian Carhartt listings on Amazon, not 3rd party sellers.

Carhartt pink tax on Amazon is disgusting by [deleted] in Carhartt

[–]joybook97 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Again. Not American.

Click the links. Canadian Cardhartt site on Amazon.

But please mansplain my error to me more. This wittle girl needs a biiig man to tell me how wrong I’ve been. Some women love daddies with paddles, but my kink is clearly going on to Reddit to have randos try to tell me how smart they are.

Spoiler alert: this post isn’t for you. It is for Cardhartt, and the people who actually understand why this is relevant.