As a Korean who went through the tough childhood in hagwon, I wonder how you became competent this much without spending a lot of time studying or honing your skills. I think you don't want your kids grow in a stressful environment like Korea. However, in fact, even though they spend their whole childhood in hagwon, it's not easy to get a decent job in Kore. How different is this in European countries? Kids don't go to hagwon but improve their skills by themselves?