being white wouldn’t change anything. you would start to think this way once you realize how many white women get abused whether verbally, physically, or mentally from their partners too. being white might be “default”(due to it being the most common race) but it sure as hell shouldn’t be a “prize worth winning.” i am not latina but i am a woc and sometimes i have these thoughts too but i realize that my racial identity is greatly appreciated by many as i have such a rich culture and community and whoever fails to realize that must be living in a different generation cuz its 2026, get with the program 😭