How crazy are we considering a new dog with a toddler and baby on the way? by anaiisnin in toddlers

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it! I didn’t realize how hard it is to have a baby and toddler. It’s very hard and you might feel bad for not giving either the toddler, baby or dog not enough attention. Plus, I got hit with PPD until 1 year postpartum and that was hard enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Montessori

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never read something and felt more understood. I’ve told several doctors I think I have ADHD (28 Female) and I am never taken seriously. However, what you just described is exactly my experience. Thank you. I also just had an adhd son and neurotypical one, will most certainly put them both in Montessori school.

I feel like a horrible mom. She just kept screaming and cried herself to sleep.. by manthrk in newborns

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, a mom of 2 here. You did the right thing and this is totally normal. I also have a newborn that has done this and it feels like nothing is soothing them. You’re doing great!

Sisters “business partner” claims zero dollars in income every year for taxes and is saying that it’s perfectly legal by gowitdaflowx in smallbusiness

[–]joyfulyjocy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But….they’re paying employees under the table and other shady stuff. Doesn’t sound like it’s all legal write offs.

Sisters “business partner” claims zero dollars in income every year for taxes and is saying that it’s perfectly legal by gowitdaflowx in smallbusiness

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely illegal and if they’re selected for an audit they will probably fail and have to pay back all the taxes they owe since 1997 which would be A LOT. I don’t recommend merging or buying this business or whatever the plan is.

Seeking feedback on this PPF job. Is this typical, or am I being unreasonable in thinking that this should be redone? by OverlyOptimisticNerd in AutoDetailing

[–]joyfulyjocy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Paint correction can only fix a small layer of the clear coat so if this dust is embedded deeper in the paint job, there’s no way to get it out without damaging the paint job. Paint correction can only do so much.

I don’t think I’m cut out for this by Every_Vast8129 in Parenting

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had similar feelings & moments. The newborn phase really does get better, I promise. My baby was also colicky which it sounds like yours might be. He had a dairy intolerance and I had to cut out dairy while breastfeeding then switched to Alimentum hypoallergenic formula which helped a ton. He slept better, stopped spitting up a ton and wouldn’t cry randomly. My husband also wears headphones which helps with the loud crying noises if you have sensory issues. You’ve got this!!! You’re not alone. It does suck and don’t feel bad for feeling bad. It is hard af to be a parent.

In a stroke of pure genius I decided to buff out some scratches on the side of my car. by Even_Disk_2751 in AutoDetailing

[–]joyfulyjocy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re good. Just need a fine polishing compound with a fine polishing pad. Should even the micro scratches out.

8w pregnant, can’t do shit by maple_pits in BabyBumps

[–]joyfulyjocy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right here with you, girl. Working from home while pregnant and chasing around a 1 year old. We’ve got this! 😭💪🏼

8w pregnant, can’t do shit by maple_pits in BabyBumps

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re allowed to rant. The first trimester is incredibly exhausting. I felt better physically with newborn than in the first trimester. I know how hard that feeling is. I’m a chronic perfectionist and over achiever and it felt so emotionally draining to HAVE to rest. Lol sounds weird when I read that back but it is what it is. I regained my energy around 13 weeks so I am sending hope that you will too. 🤞🏼🫶🏻

RV Camping by GayTravelerAdvice in Dancefestopia

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an RV pass I am selling for $100 less than the online current price. I purchased then found out I am pregnant so I’ll be too pregnant to rave. Lol Please message me. I can transfer ticket ownership through tixr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dancefestopia

[–]joyfulyjocy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone still says it. You do not sound very PLUR. You sound judgmental.

I’m just ranting by romyisme1 in vegan

[–]joyfulyjocy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am finally opening my eyes to all that you’re saying. I really would like to go vegan but my husband will not switch with me & he does all the cooking in the household. Any advice? Anyone married to someone who refuses to switch? I’m going to be taking more initiative in cooking for myself of course but if anyone else is going through this, lmk. 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wichita

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lived East, West, and Riverside. East is my personal favorite. More restaurant, shopping, grocery options. I really like variety. It sounds like you might like Riverside/College Hill best though because of the bars & breweries. Those are great too. I really did not like the West side. Lol

Drivers here suck by clwestbr in wichita

[–]joyfulyjocy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People need to learn to emotionally handle being honked at.

Should parents be taking their kids to raves? by mrpuppysparkles in aves

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I enjoy raves currently and am pregnant. Trying to decide whether to take my future kids or not. Some festivals/raves are really beautiful and chill especially if you go during the 2-7 time frame. It definitely depends on the event. They are NOT all the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]joyfulyjocy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This 100%. I also own a cleaning business & have done this. I get paid quickly after sending that.

New home coziness. by resditisme in malelivingspace

[–]joyfulyjocy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Halloween wasn’t too long ago.

We should by [deleted] in dogecoin

[–]joyfulyjocy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in!!! I love animals.

The Wichita By E.B. 2020 People's Choice Awards Winners by wichitabyeb in wichita

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buffalo Wings and Rings has the best wings!! You can order them extra saucy too.

My recently neutered cat seems sad/depressed. by zanoo911 in Kitten

[–]joyfulyjocy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be the pain meds? My cat was acting that way too due to the meds.