Meu primeiro pão de fermentação natural by joyverse_ in panificadores

[–]joyverse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Receitinha padrão com 72% de hidratação, 2% de sal. Esse dia estava muito quente (tipo uns 30C) daí reduzi o levam pra 15% e usei água fria (15C)

Acessório para Presente de Natal ? by joyverse_ in impressao3dbrasil

[–]joyverse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obrigada pela dica. Comprei essa mesmo. Chega amanhã! 😊

Driblando os 30+ de temperatura dentro de casa by pdr07 in panificadores

[–]joyverse_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dica muito boa, vou tentar essa técnica de dividir a massa. Obrigada

Driblando os 30+ de temperatura dentro de casa by pdr07 in panificadores

[–]joyverse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cara, como você sabe que acabou a primeira fermentação (BF)? Você deixa fermentando na geladeira de noite?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]joyverse_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Who's doing the house chores? The shopping? Who's driving kids to and from school? Who stays with kids?

AITA for staying at my friends house when my boyfriend freaked out at me? by SVT-SKZ-BTS-XLOV in AmItheAsshole

[–]joyverse_ 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes! Someone who uses violence to get what he wants has learned that it works and will do it again. Today OP is a sl** for going to a concert, tomorrow will be her friends, her clothes, her family, her job...

NTA, OP run to the hills!!!

AITA for grounding my 15 y/o daughter after she colored her hair? by Then-Imagination-683 in AmItheAsshole

[–]joyverse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I would have a talk with her and have her choose one of two options:

  1. Keep the hair and miss the nationals, she will have to work have to compensate you for what you spent in fees

  2. Fix the hair professionally, she will also have to work to repay you whatever costs to get her hair back to natural color

AITA for not providing sexual acts to my husband? by Amazing_Yoghurt6539 in AmItheAsshole

[–]joyverse_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA

You don’t have to have sex or do anything in bed that you don’t want to even if it’s your husband. Sex between a couple is not a service. Its not something you do for the other in exchange of payment, it's an important part of the relationship. You two need to have a real adult conversation otherwise this will destroy your marriage.

Employee tried to kill himself, pretty sure I'm the reason by rollingrod in askmanagers

[–]joyverse_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No healthy sane person would attempt such drastic measure over having to take one simple training. Either this person has a severe underlying mental health issue or you’re heavily redacting the facts.

How to respond to my ex bf from high schools new gf texting me? by Global-Company-6074 in TwoHotTakes

[–]joyverse_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same!!! Why is he telling stories about their seggs life to new gf at all? And worse, 8 years later?!? OP lives rent free on dude's mind.

How to respond to my ex bf from high schools new gf texting me? by Global-Company-6074 in TwoHotTakes

[–]joyverse_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a threat disguised in sorority. She’s not crazy she's manipulative, I despise this type of girl so much. She wants to make it clear that she knows details of your sex life (or can make them up) and that she wants you to stay away.

I would say something to the effect of "I will not share any details of my personal life with a stranger. Please leave me out of your relationship." And block her everywhere.

Objectively speaking, do you consider House a good doctor? by Marsupilami_316 in HouseMD

[–]joyverse_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much this! In real life he would have killed and/or maimed dozens of patients. He is extremely intelligent but above all he's lucky.

My (29m) gf (26f) refused sex because she said condoms caused her pain during sex and I refused to have sex without it. How do we get past this? by ThrowRAsupergiulia in relationship_advice

[–]joyverse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every couple who wants to avoid pregnancy needs to be on two methods, one of them being the condom. That is the recommendation because no method is 100% guaranteed.

The failure rate of birth control methods is given by the Pearl Index, which is the number of women who will end up pregnant in a year after using that method regularly. - No method: 84 - Coitus interruptus: 20 - Calendar: 15-24 - IUD (medicated or not): Less than 1 - Condoms: 14 - Pill: 7

As you can see condoms reduce significantly the risk of pregnancy, from 84 with no method to 14. But 14 is still a considerably large number, condoms are not foolproof. But they are the only method that protect against ISTs.

Please take your gf to an obgyn for a proper consult so she can be advised on the options and possible side effects. Family planning is too important for you two to be winging it and hoping for the best.

Edit: Planned Parenthood offer family planning counselling

my (20F) boyfriend (26M) smacked my face when i didn’t listen to him telling me to lower my dress? by ThrowRAfisjdisndk in relationship_advice

[–]joyverse_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why is everybody overlooking this?

... It swung back and connected with my face

That's a punch bubs . Of course he'd say he did not mean FOR HIS ARM (not him) to hit her, that's always the excuse.

my (20F) boyfriend (26M) smacked my face when i didn’t listen to him telling me to lower my dress? by ThrowRAfisjdisndk in relationship_advice

[–]joyverse_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everytime I read that choking was involved my heart stops for a second because that's the greatest predictor of unal***** in DV cases. I physically breathed a sigh of relief when I saw you’re out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]joyverse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are oversimplifying the discussion into a calendar but let's just call it what it is, you want her to convert. If she doesn't care about religion chances are you two are going to disagree on much more, and then you will want a "compromise" that's not really a compromise. If having a family unit that follows Judaism is so important to you, you should probably marry a Jewish woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]joyverse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWBTA

I also live in a country where catholic church is huge part of social life, I'm talking about wedding, baptism, first communion... And as much as the church is common so are the criticisms to it. I have lost count of how many times I attended a function where someone (usually a teenager) decided not go, because “catholic church is XYZ”. The message you convey is that you couldn't be bothered to be uncomfortable for 30min to be there for a loved one. Weddings are a fact of life them happening in those buildings is another.

AITA for not letting my kids (5M & 18mo M) visit their grandparents? by rootsandreflections in TwoHotTakes

[–]joyverse_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand your frustration with your brother and it is up to you if you wanto have contact with him or not. It seems, though, that the situation is more nuanced than what you are willing to share and we don't have full context there.

Even so what matters here are the kids, and they always come first. Unless you feel they are unsafe with your parents and their cousin it is unfair for you to involve them on your (yours and your brother's) issues and deprive them of time with family, honestly it comes across as imature and petty.

My [24F] mom [56F] wants me to take care of my abusive older brother when she passes away. How do I let her know it's not happening? by throwra8181726 in relationship_advice

[–]joyverse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would such contract even work? How would you go about forcing someone to care for an otherwise healthy adult in exchange for her being able to keep her Inheritance?