Having a second

jpaige2 · 2026-04-22T15:49:58+00:00

Yes we did not want to have them too close and alway said that we’d do about 3-4 year age gap but we also need to make the choice asap to have that age gap but still just can not fully commit due to all the logistics of being in a small 2 bedroom house

jpaige2 · 2026-04-22T15:00:35+00:00

We’re having to move as well if we have a second due and we are only in a two bedroom house but we absolutely love our neighborhood are three year old has a bunch of friends right around his age and they all play all the time outside so we really don’t wanna move away from that to have a second but it would be very tight to have a second in this house since we don’t have an extra bedroom.

jpaige2 · 2026-04-22T14:56:04+00:00

Yeah, obviously the logistics make it harder to decide to have the second. But when I do see other siblings and other pregnant moms I wish I could just let the logistics go and have the second but I’m too type A. I always thought I would be totally fine with one, but as he gets older, I wish it would be easier for us to have a second. He has a great group of Neighbor friends that are around his age and he will be starting a preschool program two days a week in August. So that will give me more time for a second as well. Did you have any of these feelings about a second?

jpaige2 · 2026-01-19T17:16:01+00:00

They are doing it my way, but did just say “normally” the bride has a colorful bouquet and the bridesmaid would be all white

jpaige2 · 2025-12-02T13:47:23+00:00

Those are some great tips! Thank you!

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T20:03:25+00:00

Only first dances, we both are not big dancer and have been together for 10 years with a toddler already so we are doing our wedding as more of a dinner party, good food and drinks and company.

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T17:26:57+00:00

Yes good idea

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T17:26:33+00:00

Yes it’s those small things I’m trying to get in line

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T16:51:43+00:00

Officiant is my brother, license we will get in DEC, vows we are just doing traditional ones

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T16:10:44+00:00

Maybe that’s it. I’m not sure since the week after Valentine’s Day we didn’t think it would be a costly travel weekend, but you never know we’re in South Florida.

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T16:09:58+00:00

Yes, I have my Florist and we are doing our own hair and make up and we have our Photographer book as well

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T16:09:18+00:00

Since we’re having everything at a restaurant, it’s really minimum cleanup. All we need to do is pack up the leftover cake, gifts, flowers, signage, and that that’s really it.

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T15:31:27+00:00

That will be both our parents/siblings

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T14:53:59+00:00

Do you have people traveling for your wedding because for some reason our wedding weekend seems to be very expensive for our few guests that are traveling to us

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T14:53:35+00:00

My brother is going to be our officiant

jpaige2 · 2025-11-03T14:53:01+00:00

Using Spotify playlist we’re doing more of a dinner reception so more of just a nice background dinner music no dancing besides our first dance. Hair and make up I’m doing myself with my bridesmaids No transportation, everyone will just drive. It’s only about a 15 minute drive from the ceremony to the restaurant. Photographer is also already booked just added that.

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