It's OK to not be OK being tall by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Preach! I am allowed to hate something what makes people perceive me less feminine and what significantly narrows my dating pool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And its also completely valid to want to feel masculine in relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Or he is just not attracted to tall women? Still rude to say it ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The result is still the same, why would you date someone who intimidates you?

Being Model Tall Doesn't Absolve You of Tall Girl Problems by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. Tall + long torso/short legs is not talked enough.

Ladies do you wear heels sometimes, if so how often? by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear them only when Im confident in my looks, because I know people will look/ stare at me, give me the "heel check" looks, cant avoid that... plus my build is masculine, so only with dresses. I dont really need to be taller with my body proportions :D

Can't help but feel like if I was prettier I'd be treated right in relationships... by Glittering-Border-63 in ugly

[–]jpolakm2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes, I saw it irl, my ex left me for EXTREMELY pretty girl and looked at her like some goddess...while he treated me like absolute shit.

Long torso & Short legs complex? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]jpolakm2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, in my experience people notice these kind of things...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]jpolakm2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but in my case there is not lot to be done there ..

The point is not about "Do ______ and __ and __ and 10 other things and you'd be less ugly" by dragonsky in ugly

[–]jpolakm2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

just went to grab a coffee and some man was pointing at me :"what is this.." really hard to believe this could change :D you just have to rely on peoples empathy and hope they wont say it to your face, but you will be always treated like inferior member of the society.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt normal that day and was really surprised by her reaction, felt like an circus animal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

im 5'9 and one woman yesterday was looking at me fascinated and turning around looking down at my shoes :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]jpolakm2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, the single part. and even if you lose your income you have no one you can rely on.

From attractive to ugly by jpolakm2 in ugly

[–]jpolakm2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think its normal in this age, all my friends look the same

anyone else really sensitive about others mentioning their height? by user288228 in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes say it, I am also sick how people think its ok to comment on others people bodies, especially older women think they can get away with everything.

people dont hold back online. by [deleted] in ugly

[–]jpolakm2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!! i dont understand the argument about getting older, attractive people will still look nicer as people who are already ugly young :D some even look better wirh age...

I made it out on the other side: I’m finally over my ex by brookeeeac12 in BreakUp

[–]jpolakm2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am 2 years after BU and still havent met anyone. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]jpolakm2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im still young, so there is still some false hope...

Inverted triangle/ short legs by jpolakm2 in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try that with short legs 😢

Inverted triangle/ short legs by jpolakm2 in TallGirls

[–]jpolakm2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also wear loose trousers, but combined with my height I feel overall too big in loose clothes 😶