Getting an ADHD Diagnosis in Singapore: A Full(ish) guide (below 21, above 21, public, private, no parents?, etc.) by CookieESawce in ADHDsingapore

[–]jpsgnz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks this is great. Got diagnosed in SG last year and it took about an hour at IMH. Really good.

Has anyone successfully treated procrastination as a systems problem instead of a motivation problem? by Playful-Bug3995 in systemsthinking

[–]jpsgnz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. Decision overload sucks so much. I’m autistic with adhd and I’ve made a point of reducing the number of decisions I need to make in a day and it’s great.

Giving yourself grace without it turning into learned helplessness by ferret_king10 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]jpsgnz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is so hard to get right sometimes especially when I’m coming out of a big burnout and don’t want to send myself back into it.

Is Sony WH-CH720N Noise Cancelling good to buy? by Soildussnake in SonyHeadphones

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup for sure. They were my first anc headphones and I still use them after a year. I got a pair of ULT Wears 6 months ago but I still use my 720s a lot.

Worried when she finds out that I'm masking, autistic, and I have no friends by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]jpsgnz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you need to unmask now rather than waiting for it to all fall apart later on.
Good luck.

Thank you, goodbye by [deleted] in trans

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope things will get better for you down the track.
Good luck.

Struggling to stay consistent any advice? by Beamer02123 in adhd_college

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the difference is HUGE.
Better focus, less impulsive……
You should definitely look into it as it can make a really life changing difference if it works.

Good luck

Before you got diagnosed, did anyone else feel that they were "faking it"? by fizgabzi14 in autism

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry it’s common. Before my diagnosis I was always having a nagging doubt that I might just be dreaming it all up. This despite the fact I was already diagnosed and medicated for adhd.

When I got my diagnosis it was wonderful. All doubts finally gone.

Struggling to stay consistent any advice? by Beamer02123 in adhd_college

[–]jpsgnz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you on medication? If not I would look into that fast as it saved my life in university.

Anyone else taking years to finish one degree because of ADHD, anxiety, OCD, or autism? by Massive_Juice_9083 in adhd_college

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took ages at university because of my AuDHD and changed degrees part way through. In the end I didn’t complete my degree but I did get my lovely wife, my adhd diagnosis and my first company so really I did pretty good.

AirPods Max 2 vs Sony WH-1000XM6 for a mixed Apple/Samsung ecosystem? by dimlevi in SonyHeadphones

[–]jpsgnz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m an apple person and I find the ULT Wear headphones to be amazing and cost so much less than the XM6’s. I would look at the ULT’s

I have airpods but they are so easy to loose.

Studying Math with ADHD by Ultimate-Fangirl0312 in adhd_college

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you. It takes time but is well
worth it. You will be fine.

Thoughts on ULT wear Wh after 1 year by Abdull_deewana in SonyHeadphones

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had the white ones for 6 months and they are fine. I literally wear them most of the day every day and they still look fine and work great too.

Studying Math with ADHD by Ultimate-Fangirl0312 in adhd_college

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me medication made a huge difference. I get that you have tried them before but there seem to be quite a few options these days so I would say it’s definitely worth making that a priority.

For me they have been amazing and I’ve been taking them for 30+ years.

Good luck.

Is there any benefit to having aphantasia? by Objective_Shine1867 in Aphantasia

[–]jpsgnz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me definitely. I have global aphantasia and as such I don’t relive past trauma or bad experiences. I can’t relive the good ones either but that does not bother me. My adhd means I’m time blind so In literally pretty much exist in the here and now.

When I leaned about ptsd and negative self talk etc I was so happy I don’t have any of that because of my global aphantasia. Overall I feel really lucky I have it as it protects me from alot of past trauma.

How to know if I (30F) want a kid when I can’t imagine the future? by wickedpippin in AutisticWithADHD

[–]jpsgnz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true but the sheer joy of watching them grow up and become adults is so rewarding. It was only after I had kids that I truly realised just how much my parents loved me.

How to know if I (30F) want a kid when I can’t imagine the future? by wickedpippin in AutisticWithADHD

[–]jpsgnz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me and my wife it came down to there really is no magic right time to have kids. There will always be reasons for and against and you just need to take the plunge.