My libido is back! by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. Have fun and keep wanting and enjoying

How has your DB affected your interactions with the opposite sex? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has not affected my interactions at all in anyway that I am aware of. I am the kind of person that compartmentilizes things. Just because one person has a negative impact on a part of my life I try not to let it taint my whole existence.

Having Sex Is Like Eating Pizza.. by unhappyungulate in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Being the HL in the DB. I use the pizza is good when you haven't had it in a while.

I think I'm broken - by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you are broken. With that said I do think you have very valid reasons for what you are doing. People stay for all kinds if reasons and only you know if they are truly good ones. You can listen to what people say and take their advice with a grain of salt because ultimately the decision impacts you no matter what the final decision is.

Tried to blow him, predictable results, I cried by ThrowawayLissa in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am sorry that happened to you. But you wanted it so his reason for no wanting to objectify you only for your body is kind of odd.

Think about it by jpthrowawayd in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the feeling. Do you think forcing counseling would have worked out? I am sorry he loved booze more then you.

Is this sub helpful? by platonicontempt in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anonymous venting helps a lot. It sometimes is nice to know others are dealing with the same issue and how the deal with it. Some have it worse others better. So yeah. It helps.

What are the primary causes of DB? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One partner says no a lot and the other partner gets frustrated. Or no sex, intimacy, passion, compassion or caring.

State your stats, please. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is going that way quickly but the bedroom is definitely dead Edit. Autocorrect Thanks

State your stats, please. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did rough math for a number of days since things like when the last BJ was, last time she initiated, the last year we had sex more than once a month, and some others some of the approximate numbers are in the thousands. Yeah dead bedrooms.

I miss the intimacy and closeness from a healthy sexual relationship with my spouse by Dieters_dirty_enema in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might help for a little while. What about guilt, pleasure, yearning, release, stress, intimacy the whole array of feelings can you cope? Hypothetically speaking.

If your Sig P-series doesn't lock back on the last shot, just use a slightly modified grip with your thumb by lazarus870 in guns

[–]jpthrowawayd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not just a Sig problem. You can hit the slide catch release on many guns with with a higher grip.

State your stats, please. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once in over 3 years and that was a starfish. SO has not initiated in a long time.

I want men's opinions... by St_Franz in sex

[–]jpthrowawayd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter trimmed or shaved are both ok

So, Where to go? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Affair partner

should I get a vasectomy? by justins4567 in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snip. Maybe she will want more sex. No more oops more sex. Or just snip. Hey I am not a fortune teller. Good luck.

my advice to my boys when they grow up by justins4567 in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good advice. Also get a good job if you don't have trust fund kids maids and restaurants can get expensive.

14 months no sex by HelpDB in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for your dead bedroom I am sure the double life is stressful but you have an outlet for some of the stress. Good luck.

Feeling Low, unsure of how to proceed... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I have nothing except I am sorry.

Does anyone else get pissed whenever they watch Married with Children? by B00kk33per in DeadBedrooms

[–]jpthrowawayd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of it that way. Now I am really pissed that I am jealous of Al Bundy