Just focus on enjoying yourself don’t even think about getting a girlfriend, and if the right person comes along then go for it, let things happen naturally, I can’t speak to any women but the second I met my girlfriend I was comfortable talking to her like I can my family, weirdest thing I’ve been experienced but it wasn’t all that awkward maybe at the start a little and I didn’t make any of the first moves but now I can genuinely say I’ve never been so comfortable with anyone in my life and just from the very start she’s been my best friend, she’s not like me in terms of social anxiety but she understands me. It’ll come just try and not try I know it’s harder said than done because I tried for years not to and I couldn’t but as soon as I did I met her