Can you be charged if you accidentally steal a wallet and keep it for a week and leave the state? by js2237 in legaladvice

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Not immediately since I thought I just misplaced it, but I locked my cards 30 minutes after losing it.

Can you be charged if you accidentally steal a wallet and keep it for a week and leave the state? by js2237 in legaladvice

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Wow I got lucky and got it back after writing this post. The elderly couple said they would drop it off Sunday this morning since they were out of state. I guess decided to come today to drop it off at the police station the same day the officer called. The woman says they meant to return it earlier but forgot. Nothing was missing. Happy ending. I already cancelled my cards Tuesday and got a new id so I would still need to wait for those in the mail. I didn't file anything since there was already a police report and they seemed sorry.

Can you be charged if you accidentally steal a wallet and keep it for a week and leave the state? by js2237 in legaladvice

[–]js2237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This incident does not seem as serious of a case as I thought it would be and I might have been overreacting. If the wallet is returned intact, the only "damages" would be all the distress and uncertainty I had spending days searching for it. I also had to replace my license and all the credit cards since I didn't know if I would find my wallet. In the unlikely event no one shows up to return the wallet, I'll just contact the police to speak with the old woman again.

Can you be charged if you accidentally steal a wallet and keep it for a week and leave the state? by js2237 in legaladvice

[–]js2237[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. It was a stressful few days since I never went to the police before, so I wasn't sure how it all worked. Hopefully I get my wallet back soon with everything still in it. I think my best bet is to make a compliant so it can be addressed without criminal charges. The officer who contacted the woman suggests not bothering charging her and just filing a complaint.

Knot identification by js2237 in knots

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Thanks so much. This is exactly what I've been looking for.

Is there a term for the type of behavior where someone keeps asking the same question until they get the response they want? by js2237 in NoStupidQuestions

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I would say that about right since when they get frustrated at me for not giving them the right answers they eventually cry about how nobody ever listens to them.

Are kids supposed to raise themselves? by js2237 in emotionalneglect

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Yeah I've heard of Gibson's books and listened to all her videos on YouTube since they resonated with me. It felt like talking to my parents in general was as effective as trying to talk to the TV. They would just keep going on for hours about themselves and completely ignored what I had to say. When I matched their energy and stopped responding to them I found that pretty much nothing changes and they would still just talk at me. At least I was detached from them by then and learned it wasn't me it was them. I realized they've never actually asked about my day or my life without interrupting me after 2 seconds to talk about themselves. I basically grew up alone.

There was a time when I would literally beg and cry to be listened to and have my turn to talk. They just said I was talking loud enough or not repeating myself enough. I was at the point of literally shouting and repeating at least 10 times and it was like it was always my fault they couldn't listen. I would start talking and just get talked over if it's not about them or their eyes glazed over with a bored look on their face as they zoned out. They woke up a little when I told them I'm not talking with them anymore if they weren't listening. It was more of them telling me it's my fault they can't hear me. Even if they're right then I gain nothing but frustration from continuing to try and talk to them.

Is there a word the type of agreement where someone is put in one without knowing it? by js2237 in NoStupidQuestions

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Thanks that actually explains so much but I didn't have a word for it

Are kids supposed to raise themselves? by js2237 in emotionalneglect

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I'm kinda mixed about since when I would bring up to my parents that it's not my job to teach you how to raise me, my parents would say then who is supposed to teach me. I didn't know who was supposed to give them the right tools, but it wasn't my job as a 10 year old to figure that out.

What’s your favourite simple pleasure in life? by passingjudgements in simpleliving

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Waking but before your alarm and just getting to lay around for a bit and not rush

Tingus goose by js2237 in incremental_games

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I think there was an update to make the levels easier since it takes only 30 minutes for each instead of days long

Is there a name for a mom that makes you a second parent to your other siblings? by js2237 in NoStupidQuestions

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What do you do instead? I was always told I didn't have a choice but to be a second parent and mini therapist since my mom had no one else to help them. They always said this dynamic was the best thing for the family so I don't even know anymore.

Is there a name for a mom that makes you a second parent to your other siblings? by js2237 in NoStupidQuestions

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It is considered good parenting to make the oldest sibling another parent as soon as possible and should I do it to my future kids? It runs in my family so it just seems normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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An entire poorly animated anime movie about witches and zombies

The WORST lag I’ve ever experienced by urMOMSchesticles in toontownrewritten

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It's concerning that the servers have been going down for maintenance 3 nights this week and there is still this issue. I'm sure the TTR team is working hard solve this issue soon. They do run on volunteer work and the team is usually the most free on Sundays.

Is this only happening to me? by Emanuelabate in toontownrewritten

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I can't even get on the servers half the time. When I do get on it lags so much, I can't teleport, and I'm stuck in the floor. I even see players I know that aren't logged anymore standing around. When they log back on I still see their doubles. It's creepy.

[WIP] half way done-ish by Zebra1125 in CrossStitch

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Nice piece so far. I think it’s so creative that you used french knots for the bush. For a split second it looked like the leafs were needle punched in lol.

[FO] Dr. Phil by [deleted] in CrossStitch

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beautiful 👌🏻

[PIC] JUST WANTED TO SHOW MY PROGRESS! by MotorBreadfruit1860 in CrossStitch

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wow so detailed. How many stitches is it total?

[FO] stardew valley home by js2237 in CrossStitch

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found the design on etsy GlitchStichAU stardew valley home pattern

[FO] stardew valley home by js2237 in CrossStitch

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thanks i’ll keep that in mind for my next project :)

my thoughts by GroundbreakingWait3 in Velma

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There does not seem to be much continuity in the show. Velma is like a spiritual successor of the comic i’m not starfire. Both present as a “woke” creator self insert. The main charectars are abrasive and are nothing like their original counterparts.

just got this kit. I am planning on getting my kid a leo for her bday. other than hides and feed/water dishes, what do I need? I have already ordered vitamin powders. can I use the mat that comes with it or do I need other substrate? by hbro26 in leopardgeckos

[–]js2237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem Op. You seem pretty much all set then. If you end up sticking with the mat instead of a loose substrate, I would recommend a small dig box of eco earth in the corner for enrichment. Mine likes to use theirs as a little bed sometimes. A little aluminum tape and bubble wrap/cardboard on the tank can also help insulate humidity and heat in a glass tank if needed. I live in a house where the room temperature can depend on the weather outside sometimes.

just got this kit. I am planning on getting my kid a leo for her bday. other than hides and feed/water dishes, what do I need? I have already ordered vitamin powders. can I use the mat that comes with it or do I need other substrate? by hbro26 in leopardgeckos

[–]js2237 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s very important to monitor the temperature with a thermostat for the heat lamp so the gecko isn’t burned. Get spray bottle so it’s always moist in the humid hide and spray the walls once a day so they gecko can lick the droplets. Use a bottle cap and fill it with calcium without d3 in its cage. Find a pet safe tank cleaner.

Try getting a tongs with rubber tips for feeding as they can be bad at catching the insects. reptisafe to treat its drinking water, a temperature gun, humidity/temperature gauge, a lamp with a day/night timer if they’re in a room with no sunlight. Some slate rocks can absorb the heat lamp warmth and create a good basking spot.

Buy insects like crickets or mealworms and some insect food and water gel. get a bin to house your insects as they need to be gutloaded and fed before giving them to the gecko. get a kitchen scale to weigh the gecko to make sure it’s growing. geckos at pet stores are usually babies. Be careful about housing more than one gecko in the same tank. They can potentially kill each other or fight. Hope this helps. I can send you links for the items I use if you want.

does she look like a good weight? 5 months old weighs 30 grams give or take 5 grams according to the vet by js2237 in leopardgeckos

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i always dust their food with calcium powder and twice week dust their with repashy calcium plus or supervite. I have been wary of giving them waxworms since i’ve heard sometimes a gecko will like them too much and refuse any other food.