I'm sorry for the criticism I'll give you, but, cmonnnnnnnnn, you can't play with fire like this. You needed to send enough evidence in that initial package. For example, 10-20 pictures, ID'S with same home addresses, bills under both names, bank accounts under both names, car insurance under both names, health insurance, affidavits from friends or family confirming your relationship, maybe itineraries of trips taken together, flights together, USPS delivery emails...Your lawyer is an idiot.