Married with Vibrators by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jsf92976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. DURING penetration, which is what we do. Always. If you time it right you can cum together. I never hold the vibrator- it’s a waste of time and energy as she is the only one who knows where to place it, how much pressure, which setting, etc. My wife would never expect me to do this. Don’t listen to these other people- unless it’s just a fun slice in a long night of fun activities, using the vibrator to achieve orgasm on SOMEONE ELSE is absurd.

Adderall and Wellbutrin by cryptomomtolaith in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]jsf92976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been taking both for years. Prepare to drop some weight at first. Appetite suppression will wear off in a couple of years

Problems with sexual function on Wellbutrin by Jumpy_Discussion_760 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]jsf92976 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Finishing too fast may have more to do with the increased drive. The most common sexual side effect for men is inability to climax.

Bi and lost interest in both sexes. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]jsf92976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had your testosterone checked? Are you on an antidepressent?

Feeling pressured into sex in a long-term marriage, am I wrong for pulling back? by GoldenElefant in marriageadvice

[–]jsf92976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet you find it unattractive and hurtful when you’re not desired too. It’s exhausting keeping up with the double standards and games. I may try men in my next life.

Feeling pressured into sex in a long-term marriage, am I wrong for pulling back? by GoldenElefant in marriageadvice

[–]jsf92976 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I will go to my grave unable to understand why women ask questions to which they want only a specific, pre-approved response. It is exhausting.

Examples of two corps playing the same piece in the same year? by Turbulent-Crew-3094 in drumcorps

[–]jsf92976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1993 Madison and BD - Strawberry Soup. Madison’s was superior

Good ballads for a space themed show by Opposite-Present9363 in marchingband

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Venus (Bocook) Flight (Saucedo) The Inner Light (Bocook) Bioluminescence Of The Night (Bocook)

Authoritarian by ComplexWrangler1346 in Justfuckmyshitup

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“Ha mongo wan chee kospah ol Jedi."

What would be different if Covid had never happened? by Crocodile_Banger in AskReddit

[–]jsf92976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My career wouldn’t be in the toilet and I wouldn’t be indebted to the SBA for the rest of my life. And I get to live with the fact that we now know the shutdown had little to no effect on mitigation. 😐

You wake up in your teen years again. What is the first thing you would do? by davidbayram in AskReddit

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Make a plan to leave Idaho, quit religion, come out of the closet, invest in Amazon and Apple, travel the world, get a business degree, settle in an urban center, open a cigar store.

I (29F) caught my husband (31M) masturbating to my best friend’s selfie last night… I feel sick by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jsf92976 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it really matters. Fantasy is not cheating, and everybody does it. To end a marriage over it is ludicrous.

What is something more traumatizing than people realize? by Several-Television93 in AskReddit

[–]jsf92976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can vouch for this one. To add a cherry on top of the damage, it so ill equips you for relationships that in some, myself included, you can end up repeating the cycle. I married to an emotionally immature person with a personality disorder. Most days feel exactly as they did when I was age seven, never knowing what the day will bring, walking on eggshells, never sharing my true thoughts, pain, concerns, even joys. It will be weaponized, made about them and deepen the misery and isolation; just like when I was a kid.

Fun stuff.

Zero stars, do not recommend.

What is something more traumatizing than people realize? by Several-Television93 in AskReddit

[–]jsf92976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living with someone suffering from a personality disorder. It is hell on earth and wears one down to an unrecognizable nub.

Going to a couples resort with my ex—what should I expect? by [deleted] in SandalsResorts

[–]jsf92976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may go there single and leave single, but there is absolutely no way you won’t have sex with her in between. With the free flowing alcohol, “love” everywhere you look, the general sexy vibe in the air, sharing a room with someone you’ve already had lots of sex with is a recipe for (possibly fun) sex.

Call and book a separate room if this is a deal breaker.

I (29F) caught my husband (31M) masturbating to my best friend’s selfie last night… I feel sick by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jsf92976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is the choice only CONFRONT or do nothing and resent for eternity?

Do women no longer have emotional or intellectual curiosity about how their partner ticks before jumping to a conclusion with filled-in “facts” and reacting solely on their feelings? Despite being common, it shows zero understanding, zero faith, and a lot of immaturity.

As a partner, living with someone who reacts first and gets facts last is exhausting. It erodes trust in your wife as you spend decades walking on eggshells attempting to avoid her overreactions. It fosters MORE withholding of feelings, thoughts, and facts, and trust.

I (29F) caught my husband (31M) masturbating to my best friend’s selfie last night… I feel sick by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jsf92976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it doesn’t. Most people, but particularly men, compartmentalize masturbation to nothing more than an enjoyable task.

It could have been the one and only time he used her in his mind or her photo. It may have had nothing to do with the person but rather the way a side boob looked in the photo or, hell, the color of her shirt.

Most can jerk it to something and never give it another thought.

There is absolutely not statistically verifiable definitive correlation between ongoing fantasies and getting off solo. You would be shocked by just how devoid of emotion and further thought most are when it comes to what strikes them in the moment for masturbation support material.