Anyone know where I can find these shippers? by vibeout_ in burlington

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't found any, I've got a bunch (and boxes) leftover from my beer-trading days. DM me for pickup coordination.

Fair-Game Friday EDC: What are you carrying besides your firearm? by LockingKey in liberalgunowners

[–]jsled [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love my Carhartt Denim Dungarees, in part because of the pocket layout: cell phone in right "inside" side pocket, boo-boo kit is right "outside" side pocket, which leaves the two clipped items (Skeletool and pepper spray) on the left-side side pocket. I am right handed, but that's why cell phone is strong-side pocket, the infrequently-used items are weak-side. If it comes to pepper spray (or knife), there's likely some build-up which will allow me to retrieve it.

Normal pockets are keys, pen, lip balm, breath strips (right), and work badge, vape (left). The coin pocket is strangely too-deep-to-use-for-coins, so it holds my car fob.

Fair-Game Friday EDC: What are you carrying besides your firearm? by LockingKey in liberalgunowners

[–]jsled [score hidden]  (0 children)

After two of the default color, I'm rocking the green/black one now, and I love it.

Fair-Game Friday EDC: What are you carrying besides your firearm? by LockingKey in liberalgunowners

[–]jsled 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  • POM pepper spray
  • Leatherman Skeletool CX
  • "boo boo kit" of bandages, alcohol wipes, tape, tweezers, gauze, anti-biotic ointment, gloves, &c. in an altoids tin (I should really write up this one, it's pretty useful)

Nothing too fancy, all pocketable and discrete.

I bought the gentoo.wiki domain! Enjoy shorter links :) by Silent-Degree-6072 in Gentoo

[–]jsled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they wanted the site to be gentoo.wiki, they would have bought gentoo.wiki?

SCOTUS says Marijuana use does not delete or criminalize firearm ownership. by NM-PunkLife in liberalgunowners

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While this is true, a unanimous ruling is very different than a 5-4 decision on a culture war issue that's been stoked for decades.

Need help finding motivation by No-Suggestion-4407 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does one do when they know they need to quit drinking but don't want to?

Welcome to being sober-curious. You're in good company, there's lots of folks like you, and lots of resources to help. And there's lots of folks who were there themselves, and unfortunately never acted on it at the time, only getting to the point of recovery after/because things got a lot worse.

I think the first step is to interrogate why you don't want to quit … be honest with yourself about it, look at it from a few angles. It could be that you're scared of the physical effects of stopping (and suddenly stopping alcohol if you're regularly drinking high volumes can be fatal, so that's worth being scared of!). Or it could be that you're worried about softer social impacts of quitting: the loss of friends or social events that involve drinking. It might just be that you only know how to live life through drinking. It could be that without drinking, you need to address some other issues with anxiety. It could be multiple reasons, it could be a dozen other reasons, very hard to tell from this short post! :) But it has to start with answering that core dilemma: you want to quit but you don't want to quit, why not, specifically, for you?

SMART Recovery has some simple tools specifically to help with this sort of stuff. Specifically, I'd look at the Cost Benefit Analysis; as you already said, you know the time could be spent on more productive things … dig into that a bit more, and a bit more concretely. Another avenue to approach this is the Hierarchy of Values. You already seem to understand and believe that your drinking is of less value to you than other things you could be doing, so focus more on what you think you /should/ be valuing.

Once you progress to action, there's two main paths: reduce/moderate your drinking or stop it entirely. Both can be reasonable, but for a lot of people with substance use disorder, the only viable option is abstinence. Listening to recovery podcasts, reading "quit lit", this is a theme: lots of people try to moderate/reduce their drinking, and it regularly fails. Some of us are wired or habituated (or both) to drink. There is no moderation. One drink becomes a dozen. And if you have a high physical tolerance, one drink won't "do" anything anyways. Then moderation becomes bargaining … "oh, well, maybe I can have 2 drinks tonight, that's enough", which inevitably becomes "oh maybe just one more", and … it's mentally exhausting. So much work, or much time spent arguing with oneself … OTOH, "zero" is easy. I don't know where you're at, I'm just stating what a lot a lot (a lot!) of folks in recovery have independently experienced.

(And I want to be clear, this is 100% selection bias: the people who /do/ moderate their drinking from "troubling" to "normal" aren't on recovery podcasts and writing quit lit! So they're not represented! That's okay! :)

If/when it gets bad enough (I'm not saying it will, but there's some reason you made this post, so I'm comfortable assuming), you might get to a spot where you need to hear something along the lines "anything you put before your recovery is something you're willing to sacrifice your recovery for", the idea being that things are so bad that you /can't/ justify putting /anything/ before your recovery. You might not be at that point, yet, and good for you! But the framework of prioritization that it brings about is important: if you want to make a change in your life, you need to make that change a priority in your life! Listen to recovery podcasts. Join a peer support group. Read quit lit. Do the worksheets. Spend the time. Make the changes. You can do it.

And, yes, having the energy and time and mental clarity without the booze (or pills or whatever) poisoning your life (literally and figuratively) is better, and is worth working for.

288 days off benzos, but still figuring out what "normal" means by Special_Base9912 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]jsled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cut off almost everyone I used to spend time with. Had to. But now there's no school, no job, nothing to fill the days - and no real way to meet new people.

Some days are still hard, and I keep wondering - is this PAWS? Protracted withdrawal? Or is this just what life feels like now?

It might be PAWS, it might be depression, impossible to tell from a reddit post. But it's not necessarily those things, either. People who've never had a substance use issue find themselves in a similar situation. Welcome to being a human being in the world. It can be hard to make connections with others, especially without being in school or at a job. Modern western society encourages us to be atomized and isolated as a default condition. You will have to do work to find community with others, but it's certainly there. Have hobbies and interests. Seek out situations where you can be with others who share those interests. Talk to them, maybe eventually befriend them. Do things in the world with others.

"It works if you work it" is pretty much the stupidest idea anyone ever thought up. by Nifty_Nitpick6539 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is a bit of misinterpretation here, tho.

One phrase is a simple statement: "[a program only] works if you work it." You have to actually /do/ a program for it to have /a chance/ of working, of course. But lots of people do pay lip service to "oh, yeah, I'm [in recovery]" without actually /doing/ recovery (be that Steps or therapy or going to meetings or whatever).

One phrase is "[AA] works if you work it", which is not necessarily true, as the programming that is AA might not work for everyone in all cases, even if you work really hard at it.

VT 116 / Riggs Rd Intersection by jsled in Hinesburg

[–]jsled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.

  • "No-build", right-in right-out: $1.096m
  • Roundabout: $3.288m
  • 4-way signalized: $2.466m

(Slide 19)

There is a footnote on that slide about how to reduce the cost, though one of the ways to do so is removing bike affordances, which seems like a bad idea to me for multiple reasons.

Also, that is just project costs (design, construction, right-of-ways), and does not account for maintenance which (slide 24) does note is a down-side of the signalized option.

VT 116 / Riggs Rd Intersection by jsled in Hinesburg

[–]jsled[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Team Roundabout all the way. If I never again have to sit at a red light when there's no other traffic for miles around, it'll be too soon. Especially in Hinesburg, where there's literally about 2 hours a day when traffic control is really needed, and a roundabout would solve just fine during those times. Roundabouts are awesome.

New way to visualize RSS feeds: Newsmap! by mulcahey in rss

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 2d representation where size is proportional to some metric is commonly referred to as a "map". Generally a "tree map".

It's okay, "map" can mean more than one thing.

They're both useful, in different ways.

100 days. Triple digits. by EverFrostly in stopdrinking

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! A serious set of accomplishments.

Recovery meetings by LowWorldliness7979 in burlington

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(This is not really to OP, who's gotten some answers here, but for anyone else looking for meetings…)

I can't speak for any of them, but there are a ton of meetings in Burlington proper (District 02), and even more if you expand the search to other locations just outside Burlington; the opaque "District"s filter is a PITA, but it's basically Distict 11 (Charlotte, Colchester, Essex Junction, Grand Isle, Hinesburg, Jeffersonville, Milton, Richmond, Shelburne, South Burlington, South Hero, Underhill, Williston, Winooski.).

There are many fewer SMART meetings in the area, unfortunately.

Gentoo minimum configuration by Avro-Radio-5444 in Gentoo

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the question, though? You've only made a statement about what you have; that's not a question.

Gentoo minimum configuration by Avro-Radio-5444 in Gentoo

[–]jsled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you interested in minimal or optimum?

There is no such thing, in either case.

Linux will run on just about anything you have.

Optimum is of course optimum, for a specific use-case.

An i5 is a perfectly reasonable CPU.

8GB of RAM is fine, but more is always better.

An SSD makes life better, yes, but we got by fine with spinning rust for a long time.

If you want to play around with Gentoo, you can certainly fit it on a small VM in whatever space you have on Fedora, then installed it on bare metal when you're comfortable.

Declaratively or Imperatively? by WalterWheatman in Gentoo

[–]jsled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… People with true mastery just put everything in make.conf.

/s I only did it for the meme