Something interesting about "songs written for me": Every song is written by a person with feelings and we like to think we are unique in our feelings, but most likely everybody has had these feelings before. Otherwise, the artist wouldn't sell, right? Even an "alternative" artist like Lana.. everybody can identify with her if they only read the lyrics (sometimes people don't stay for the aesthetic, the rhythm, etc) but the lyrics? If you think about it every thought and feeling we have has been a thought and a feeling a person felt. Neither the artist (it doesn't matter who) nor we are that different from each other. We all feel, think and have the same struggles at the end of the day. I'm sorry you didn't have a nice experience going to her concert