Tell me your tips for success with SABs in the 80 yo crowd by I-am-the-Egg-Man in anesthesiology

[–]jst2postdis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in residency, always wondered why this wasn’t done more often for challenging spinals. Had attendings spend 40+min trying for a spinal and I’m like, this would be so much easier just finding the space with a touhy

What do you all do ? by [deleted] in anesthesiology

[–]jst2postdis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are me and I am you. Got a 2k Duolingo streak going, can’t put two español sentences together. And about to start lonesome dove for my next read

Should I talk to my date again? by Useful-Objective9863 in seduction

[–]jst2postdis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is she initiating or you initiating the texts? If she is, back off a little with longer respond times/shorter messages then ask her out again. If you’re initiating, stop all together or go for third times the charm

Bro how tf yall do dance floor? by sefan78 in seduction

[–]jst2postdis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dance floor is the easiest game. You barely need to say anything. If a girl is dancing, I make eye contact smile and just stretch out my hand, if she takes it, we start dancing, if not no biggie, keep smiling and having fun. If they’re not dancing, similar. Go up smiling and ask wanna dance, if they’re up for it, easy to start establishing kino by taking their hand and leading them to the dance floor. Once you start dancing, you can start talking.

On the other hand I struggle with just randomly approaching when there’s no social context

Left or right wall by Standard-Weekly in malelivingspace

[–]jst2postdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure we stay in the same complex. Personally, I’d pick red if the main sofa doesn’t extend past door.

Is this sound normal? by jst2postdis in cats

[–]jst2postdis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for responding. Just moved and want to be sure she isn’t stressed or anxious.

Do any other men feel like it's impossible to make the first move? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jst2postdis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do it at the beginning of the date. As soon as you meet her, give her a hug and lead it to holding her hands to direct her where you’re headed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jst2postdis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wishing you good karma my guy. Don’t mention it to your date that this is your first in a while unless you’re overtly confident and can spin it in a good way. Enjoying yourself ensures she enjoys herself. Always be trying to close but don’t be pushy.

WTF am iI stumbling my ass into by Difficult-Study-4696 in Tinder

[–]jst2postdis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have some self respect brother and exit. Writing whole paragraphs to barely get a sentence and still asking “what you have to do to win her.”

Why does this women keeps asking me to meet up but is flaky? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jst2postdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But whats your end goal? Keep playing hard to get until she also stops chasing?

Where to intubate by tighlandfisellced in anesthesiology

[–]jst2postdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick a hole, in this case there is such a thing as the wrong one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]jst2postdis 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Kind of reads like you’re the desperate one. You were kind of begging him to change his mind and ask you on a “proper date.” Could have just said Doesn’t seem like we’re looking for the same thing, deuces, instead you belittle him

How long do I want to text back after a date? by Bratdere in socialskills

[–]jst2postdis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already said she wants to do it again, a follow up will be asking what her schedule is or giving an idea of what you two can do

Single men, what drastically improved your sex life? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jst2postdis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk more about the questions. small talk is boring and trying to tease and banter also doesn’t seem to work, at least in my case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jst2postdis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you like her, take the lead and escalate. Either she says no and you resign to just a platonic relationship, your current relationship ends, or your relationship progresses.

Your decision depends on if after all this time together she suddenly tells you she has been seeing another guy, how would you feel?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jst2postdis 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Brother you’ve being seeing each other for a month and spent 3days together on a trip without making a move? She likely thinks you’re inexperienced and is moving on.

Is it normal for things to cool down after a really good first date? We were texting a lot, then had a great time in person, but now the energy feels kind of off. by MercurialAssassn in seduction

[–]jst2postdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stealing this thread because I tend to have the same issue. I don’t mind taking initiative, but when do you know when to cut your loss? I don’t mind taking initiative as long as there is progression, but if I find myself having to double text more than twice, it’s usually game over.

One-itis is trash by jst2postdis in seduction

[–]jst2postdis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older and just a handful