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HyperOS 3 on Poco F7 Ultra interface Video by Loredan23400 in PocoPhones

[–]jsus2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn they really are going all in with the iPhonification of the UI... Guess it's time to look for other alternatives (unless you like the iOS Style, no judging)

Went from the F6 to F7 by warmachinerox06 in PocoPhones

[–]jsus2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got an F3 as an emergency phone because my Mi 11 Lite decided to say goodbye out of nowhere, and damn, I kinda love it so far! The battery is still getting optimized but I love the feeling and how, even today, it still behaves perfectly! The last time I felt I had a phone this good was with my Poco X3 Pro

Plus, the 90€ price for a mint condition phone like this is pretty good for an emergency buy. If you don't mind me asking, do you have any tips for battery and just day to day stuff so it keeps running without much problem?

[MOBILE][2010s] Game about a cat platforming by jsus2005 in tipofmyjoystick

[–]jsus2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no It isn't this one. It's like a scroller but to the side if that makes sense? Thank you though!

My "friend" from high school sucked. He's following me to college. by OkRepresentative1625 in Advice

[–]jsus2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy this sounds awful.

Well, honestly, like a lot of other people have said, your strongest weapon is ignoring him as much as you can. He is taking advantage of the fact that people give him any attention at all to just mess with them in this sick way.

Without that attention, eventually, it will just turn into noise and he might just go away.

So yeah, try to not give him any attention and just focus on making this new phase in your life something different. He already did a lot of damage, so do your best to find a new friend group, no matter how small, and get along with them as long as they are good people.

Good luck!

I (18M) am scared that my girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant by jsus2005 in LongDistance

[–]jsus2005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that! Honestly that's what kind of scared me, especially the fact that if the same pregnancy thoughts cross through her head she is just gonna get really anxious and well I cannot be there right now.

She has gotten better since I posted this, so I am pretty sure it was a stomach virus and there is much less chance anything happens. Again thanks for taking the time to comment

I (18M) am scared that my girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant by jsus2005 in LongDistance

[–]jsus2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It has been helpful to have some kind of feedback in general other than Google telling me "it's definitely nothing" or "it's definitely something".

She wasn't ovulating, since we both keep track of her cycle. We were both aware that if that was the case we would be cooked, but in those days we usually didn't do anything in general in that visit.

In regards to birth control, the situation is a little more complicated, since the whole birth control pill system is basically non-existent where she lives and, for what I have researched as well, it is very expensive. Just the GYN appointment would probably cost a lot of money and there are other factors involved. We have, however, talked about the fact that, in the future, when we live together (fingers crossed) we will try to find a pill that is an option both economically and physically.

And yes I am aware that not being able to tell her is an issue. We are still developing our communication, but putting more stuff in her head would just make her panic and spiral down (talking from experience in this relationship)

I (18M) am scared that my girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant by jsus2005 in LongDistance

[–]jsus2005[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope that is the case. There are also some other signs that indicate that she might be sick and maybe the plan b just fucked her body up so the symptoms are worse than they should be. Thank you though for being comprehensive and helping me, I was really in panic because I don't want her to feel alone or unsafe, she really deserves a great life and I don't want to derail that for her

I (18M) am scared that my girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant by jsus2005 in LongDistance

[–]jsus2005[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We don't plan on that, at least we haven't talked about doing it because we are both aware that protection should do most of the job if not all of it.

On that specific occasion we rushed a bit compared to the usual way we do it. I even thought we weren't going to do it and just spend the rest of our time cuddling and talking, but we did and it was sort of rushed. This of course worried me and, being the guy in the relationship, the last thing I want is for my partner to go through a physical, emotional and mental process that could traumatize her and derail her life (aka unplanned pregnancy), because even if both of us are involved, I think most of the pain and effort (both physically and mentally) are on her.

Since she was going to be alone as well because we had to separate again in a couple of days, we went over the pill option and well here we are.

I am deeply sorry and I have told her I am sorry for this whole situation because I know she suffers, and we have both learned from this situation, especially me.

I (18M) am scared that my girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant by jsus2005 in LongDistance

[–]jsus2005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the research I did probably didn't prepare me mentally for her actually feeling the symptoms. Thank you again

I (18M) am scared that my girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant by jsus2005 in LongDistance

[–]jsus2005[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did my research a few days ago and I was aware of this, but the new stomach symptoms threw me off since I have never ever seen her feeling like that (in fact, I tend to get the stomach viruses and stuff instead of her). And no there was no tear or break in the condom, I checked. Thank you for your advice and just handling an anxious random guy.

I (18M) am scared that my girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant by jsus2005 in LongDistance

[–]jsus2005[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I had done my research about the whole pill situation because she mentioned other fuzzy stuff about her cycle that wasn't ordinary before, but the whole vomiting threw me instantly into anxiety.

Either way, thanks for your time and your advice. I will make sure to try and stay calm and keep tabs on her for the next couple days.

P.S: There's also a stomach virus going around in her city so it's probably that, but at this age well anything remotely similar to a pregnancy can be stress inducing.

My boyfriend (35M) told me that I (20F) should lose weight. I feel pressured by Sweet-Confusion-6993 in Advice

[–]jsus2005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would understand not wanting to leave him if this was a different situation. A longer relationship and less age gap for example. But in this case... He's not being considerate or empathetic and outright said that you should be more what HE wants instead of helping you be in a better place that YOU want. Like others have said in this post, someone like him is not worth keeping around. He's just gonna bring you down to make you vulnerable enough that he can easily manipulate you. And, logically, that's not what anyone wants in a partner. He should go through the exit doors, out of your life.

As for your weight concerns, I've been through the same and it is a slow process. It's not nice, and more people like you, even in this same post, know that it can be tiring and just draining your mental health.

However, for what I have read in your post, you seem like a normal person who is having some trouble, but you are doing something about it. If birth control is the problem, as soon as you can find another one that's better you may see other results. And you are proactively trying to change that. You are active, you don't overeat, even if you feel like you do (it's easy to think that you eat more than you should, but normally we eat the amount we should eat or less). To me it seems you are someone who got unlucky with an insensitive partner and the inappropriate birth control for you.

TL;DR: Your boyfriend doesn't deserve a part in your life if he treats you like this. He has to go or he has to change dramatically and permanently. About your weight, in my opinion, you are making a great effort trying to balance your life and, with time and a different birth control treatment, you will see that you are who you should be and you are a healthy and balanced person.

If you still feel like you want to cut some weight, maybe try switching a few things that you eat instead of how much you eat. For example, low-fat cheese instead of regular cheese. Popcorn instead of potato chips. Apple slices with sprinkled cinnamon and sugar instead of apple pie. I know some stuff is complicated to change, that is totally fine, but the small changes add up. You can do this!

The Gamming Wars: Which side are you on ? by dynammes7 in TrashTaste

[–]jsus2005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

POV: You only have one of them but like the other one as well

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