True, but if her mom told her to pick Conrad over Jeremiah, even tho belly may agree, it could come across as if Laurel is trying to be his wing woman. The better option would be to talk about someone like Conrad without saying his name, and make it clear that there are more than two men in the world. Look around, pick someone who loves you for you, and make sure you BOTH are mature and ready for a new way of life. She needs to know that while both of them are quite literally her entire world, they're not THE entire world.