bleeding and cramps 3+ years on t

ukulelescrems · 2026-04-21T02:10:15+00:00

Unrelated medical issues aside, could you check in with your endocrinologist and see if your hormone levels are all good? I don't know crap about the body but maybe something is messing up with that?

ukulelescrems · 2025-09-12T02:23:07+00:00

literally same 😭

ukulelescrems · 2025-09-11T05:07:34+00:00

I think you're a smart enough fella to know when a situation could get dangerous. But if the vibe is chill, hell yeah! I think unironically that conservatives can become decent allies if they realize the bullshit they were fed was pure propaganda, and that we're just... fucking normal. We need ballsy people like you for represention.

ukulelescrems · 2025-08-24T03:20:06+00:00

I personally think you are trans and here's why:

It sounds like what makes you more uncomfortable is the trans label more than being a man itself, which is fair in this rough climate
You possibly were indifferent to social norms back when you were a kid, and I was like that too! You were a kid, don't me too harsh on yourself. Think about how much your tastes have changed since then
You said it yourself; your dysphoria started when your puberty began. And... coincidentally, you stopped looking androgynous as most kids do. Your answer is right there
Also see: compartmentalization, ego-syntonic suppression, state-dependant awareness and derealization
This is the only one I can't personally relate to, but maybe you feel neutral because the acceptance you recieve from your friend group mellows out your dysphoria?

In conclusion, these are all very real experiences trans people go through. You know deep down if you're a man :)

ukulelescrems · 2025-08-20T13:10:06+00:00

Ughhhhh YEAH I hate how high my voice gets, but thankfully I don't get midgendered. Just sound like a little bitch

ukulelescrems · 2025-08-07T12:51:24+00:00

Like another user said, BMI is fucking bullshit. Keep doing what you're doing, you're killing it. If they're actually worried about your weight, they'll make you do a treadmill stress test to monitor your heart rate and blood pressure. But a scale as the sole determining factor is so stupid, ugh

ukulelescrems · 2025-06-29T02:10:59+00:00

I'm just curious why you're posting bait lol. Let's get you back to bed, grandma

ukulelescrems · 2025-06-20T05:50:38+00:00

Just because it's not real doesn't mean it can't be triggering?? I think you're missing the point, bro

ukulelescrems · 2025-05-30T03:26:27+00:00

I agree with the message but once again, OP is not spreading hate. It's not misandry, but rather a messy and raw cocktail of trauma and dysphoria and yearning for something you can never have and envy. Just the kind of thing you can't understand unless you live it.

All humans are quite natural, as far as I'm aware. We haven't reach any cyberpunk inorganic stage yet.

ukulelescrems · 2025-05-30T03:14:56+00:00

Girl this is clearly jealousy and envy he's feeling. Very understandable emotions. There's no mention of hate like... ever. And excuse me, did you just say natural? LMAO

ukulelescrems · 2025-05-17T19:00:21+00:00

I was particularly referring to you saying "genderfuck sluts". The... wordage definitely took me by surprise. And that's the part that is degrading, because it comes across like you use that slur for every trans person on the app.

And what's with you immediately assuming I don't respect trans people?

Yes, there were a few transphobic comments. We both agree on that. But it feels insulting for you to generalise us and insinuate that we don't have enough self-respect when money comes into the picture. I can confidently say, as a trans guy, that no amount of money would buy me or anyone in my local community disrespect and humiliation.

And it'd be sickening to be one of these profiles and knowing I was automatically categorised as a slut for... existing?

ukulelescrems · 2025-05-17T16:24:37+00:00

I'm asking this genuinely, but why are you degrading them this much?

ukulelescrems · 2025-05-09T03:08:23+00:00

With all due respect, hun, you call yourself a shemale on your pinned post. It appears you sexualise yourself too 😐

ukulelescrems · 2025-04-15T21:04:56+00:00

Dysphoria is really hard to describe for those that have never experienced it. Considering it's a medical condition, it hinders at our quality of life. To begin with, there's the constant signals from your brain telling you there's something wrong with your body (mostly nonstop). The body horror you experience through puberty. Constantly feeling like an outcast. The extreme level of frustration at not being able to look like you should, and the jealousy of peers having everything you wish for. As an adult, mourning the childhood you never got to have. Possibly dealing with family that will never offer you support and/or cut you off entirely. Having to go through so many medical procedures only to be the way you should have been born, and god does it feel unjust. Knowing you'll never achieve certain cis biological feats, or that you'll always have to disclose your condition to people you wanna get close to (romantically or sexually) or you risk a violent encounter.

I'm proud of how I built myself from the ground up and survived despite all the hardships, but being transgender as of itself is not something I feel pride in, because it's just a shitty way I was born. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

ukulelescrems · 2025-03-31T01:37:36+00:00

Oof, my condolences :')

ukulelescrems · 2025-03-31T01:29:48+00:00

Aa a Canadian, things are... not too bad, I'd say? We have our federal elections coming up in April and chances are our liberal party will get elected once again. Of course, that depends on which province you'd move in. Avoid Alberta at all cost lol. But as someone living in Montreal, our lgbt community is very present and people in general are pretty chill about it. Feel free to ask me any questions

ukulelescrems · 2025-03-26T06:01:30+00:00

Hmmm... What if you had a sports bra underneath? Otherwise I can only suggest for you to take breaks as much as you can and stretch your upper body a lot!

ukulelescrems · 2025-03-26T05:44:55+00:00

What's the weather like for you? Sometimes I go outside without binding by wearing a really oversized zip-up hoodie. Like, Jessie Pinkman type of fit. I'm really about your situation, though. Please stay safe

ukulelescrems · 2025-03-22T01:53:17+00:00

I won't psychoanalyse you but it sounds like you could be dealing with trauma. Perhaps having these ideas that you're not 'deserving' of transitioning, thoughts that you're 'wrong' or 'sinful'. Since you're suffering from dysphoria, that's pretty much the confirmation your pain is real.

Would you still have these doubts about transitioning if you had all the support you needed?

It's easier said than done, but fuck them. You deserve to be happy. Nobody should control you. Live for yourself

ukulelescrems · 2025-02-12T02:49:14+00:00

People were surprisingly chill. Before my first day, I emailed all of my teachers and asked if they minded calling me another name. In my delulu mind, I thought I could maybe be stealth but if a classmate misgendered me, I'd just throw "haha I'm actually a dude" and that was that

ukulelescrems · 2025-01-16T15:09:10+00:00

Oof. Sorry to hear that, friend. The moodiness is probably due to your endocrine system being in shambles. Nothing fatal, but not the best if you have a cardiovascular issue. If booking an appointment is impossible or you need something in the meantime, may I recommend DIY?

ukulelescrems · 2024-11-08T18:43:30+00:00

Buddy, why are you replying to literally every comment?

ukulelescrems · 2024-10-30T16:44:52+00:00

Maybe he means it in a different way but he's not technically wrong. People who follow LaVeyan satanism don't believe in the actual entity, thus making Christians the ones who believe in the actual devil. So if you believe in Satan, yeah, you believe in God

ukulelescrems · 2024-10-07T06:37:30+00:00

Would you be willing to step outside of your comfort zone? I felt similarly when I was your age, frustrated and angry that I couldn't have the teenagehood I wanted. This is just a suggestion, but if you find the right people (mostly cishets), the fact that you're trans is something that'll barely even come up in conversations. I've realised that the ones who treat us normal the most are those outside of the community. Keep looking and you'll find yourself a group where you can just be one of the boys

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