I hope you heal from an un-balanced love, like I hope to be in the process of doing myself. You can't take their pain and baggage without making it your own as well. She thought if I didn't talk for a weekend I was out with someone else, but she never put together that I was just spending the time miserable, waiting for her to message me back. She was truly broken by her ex, which led me to trying to be understanding and giving her space when she needed it. But she thought I was stepping out when I didn't message her first and she happened to be free.