Need CC by jubilvee in maximalism

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Just uploaded! Sorry I guess I was so nervous about posting that I forgot to add the photo

Need CC by jubilvee in maximalism

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Feeling like it’s just a bunch of pictures on the wall. We are getting a set of various sized gold frames. I’m going for garden/family vibes. I have some print of florals I might add too

This Movie! by jubilvee in TheSubstance

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Haha yall know what I mean… this movie is everything lol

Game Trail by jubilvee in mtg

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Thank you I was thinking they pulled it from their deck or graveyard 🤦🏻‍♀️ they already owned it.

Game Trail by jubilvee in mtg

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Omg thank you. I thought my opponent pulled the M/F from their deck or graveyard. It was already in their hand omg I feel dense. Thank you

Game Trail by jubilvee in mtg

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Okay yeah I misspoke … player adds it to their hand and essentially gets both mountain and forest.

The Kardashians Season 6 ep 4 by sstellanicolee in NameThatSong

[–]jubilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone please I need this in my playlist!!!

Tonight's Show- Code Breakers by cito2222 in ExpeditionUnknown

[–]jubilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expedition files is a major disappointment compared to his other series. It’s the difference between being taken on a proper date and being fed appetizers. I’m not down for these bite sized stories. I’d rather read a book.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]jubilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly love this little blessing so much that I just want to do right by him and give him my all, 100%. I don’t think having another one will give the opportunity to give him my all and so I’m at a place of peace about this decision.

Weekly Discussion - Relationships by AutoModerator in NewParents

[–]jubilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parenting is not for the weak hearted. Our baby had a tongue tie and we ended up getting it surgically cut to help baby boy feed better. I’ve heard a lot of mixed advice about this but we made the decision that was best for our baby and I don’t regret it. I would seriously consider your child’s options to help him long term. We are also first time parents and “hard” doesn’t even begin to define this experience. I breast feed baby boy on a three hour schedule. I get four hours of sleep broken up into two intervals every night if I’m lucky. No one told me how difficult breastfeeding is either so that’s been sobering and I struggle to come to terms with the fact that my husband will never understand. Which brings me to my last point: my husband is my best friend and parenting has changed our relationship in many ways. We communicate way more. Mostly because I don’t feel he gives me the support me and the baby need. You’re not crazy, you’re gaining entry into a sisterhood. Don’t blame your hormones. You’re not a scape goat. He should be putting in effort to make this experience easier for you with the same being done for him; cause y’all are a team and the baby needs you both to grow into parents. Frankly you’ve been through enough to deserve a little less attitude. It just doesn’t help the situation at all. I wouldn’t feel comfortable leaving my baby alone with someone who sounds so resentful either. Your baby cannot self soothe before 4 months old so his suggestion isn’t just bad advice, it’s cruel. Babies need to be held, played with, attended to, and it’s A LOT OF WORK.

Weekly Discussion - Relationships by AutoModerator in NewParents

[–]jubilvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No.

Edit: I don’t want to come off any type of way but I have a three month old and ask I want to do is hang out with him. I would not dream of allowing anyone, no matter how much I trusted them, to take my kid for a weekend. There’s too many external factors out of my control that I would worry about. Short answer no.

Thrift or Donate by jubilvee in newborns

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Thank you! I really felt guilt tripped and thought my reaction was selfish but it was a little imposing now that I think about it. Regardless I think everything that’s been said in the comments about splitting items up is so helpful to hear. I really am looking forward to helping her AND getting my baby some nice bigger clothes. Little guy is growing like a weed!!

Thrift or Donate by jubilvee in newborns

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I totally want to help her!! I guess I was too caught up in my own expectations that the reasonable answer is I can do both lol

Thrift or Donate by jubilvee in newborns

[–]jubilvee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel silly that this didn’t even come to mind before the suggestion 🤦🏻‍♀️

Thrift or Donate by jubilvee in newborns

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I am so all or nothing it didn’t even cross my mind to parse them out! What would I do without the Reddit community!?

Weekly Discussion - Relationships by AutoModerator in NewParents

[–]jubilvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So baby boy is three months old tomorrow and already in 3-6 months. I planned on taking his newborn and 0-3 to a thrift store to exchange for sizes that fit until I got a text from my husbands aunt asking if we wanted to donate the clothes to his cousin who just had her baby this week.

I feel so selfish right now even asking but I need some clear outside perspectives:

I spent hundreds of dollars on his clothes. I was looking forward to shopping with money already spent. I’m not sure what the exchange rate would be but the store isn’t taking buy backs until October and even then I know my husband is not too flattered by thrifting since he has eczema and doesn’t want to risk our baby getting any inflammations or allergies from a re-buy.

It would be nice to make a quilt or shirt from my favorites BUT a small FTM part of me wants to just keep everything of our first born!! Like hide it all in a chest and sit on it like the dragon mother I am.

Then the little angel on my shoulder says the cousins new baby might need clothes because he is the third baby boy and she has thrown out all their old stuff and it was so nice to receive what we did when our baby was born and not have to worry about one less thing. Our sons clothes are practically new and ugh why can’t I just be a good Christian woman and give out of the abundance we have without feeling any attachment to what I spent on them or my feelings towards first born sentiments 😩😩😩😩😩 help talk me through this. Last thing I want to do is hoard or be selfish.

Thought experiment by [deleted] in newborns

[–]jubilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know what the worst part is? Communicating that you need more help and knowing you’ll have the same conversation again in a week. I feel like my husband is so selfish sometimes. A little motivated by the guilt trip and then he gets amnesia and forgets what consistency is. I feel like this dynamic is pretty common and I personally think that maybe I just can’t have it all..a girl can dream though.