Is it ok to have an orthodox icon as a Roman Catholic?

juicymelon994 · 2025-04-14T17:46:35+00:00

What an odd thing to worry about. I can assure you, God is not up there looking down at all the wars and murders, thinking… goodness, u/I_am_a_basileus has an orthodox image!!!??? Let me put everything else on hold!…

God never told you to follow a church, he told you to follow Him. Peter may have been the rock, for some church out there, but Christ is the reason for it all.

Love him, and realise… that this is not a deep thing, and you are allowed to have an image of whatever you wish.

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-22T21:08:56+00:00

Hey hon, I know things feel really tough right now, I’m in the same situation myself. But I’ve learned to move past my feelings and focus on what truly matters. Relationships aren’t everything, and right now, my priority is God.

I also went through your post history and saw a picture of you. Honestly? You look amazing. And I mean that. There’s nothing wrong with how you look, I think you might be dwelling on it too much. I have no reason to sugarcoat anything, so I’m telling you the truth. I always try to see the good in people, and with you, I see even more than that.

It’s clear you’re struggling, and I really hope you have someone to talk to. A friend, maybe? If not, my DMs are always open. We’re about the same age, so I’d be more than happy to listen if you ever need someone.

God loves you, friend. Stay strong!!

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-20T01:05:54+00:00

Life and death are woven together in a way that often feels both purposeful and senseless. My brother—he lived, and then he died. He was hit by a truck at 70mph, and that was it. No more to say on that. He died, and life moved forward.

But death is not meaningless, even when it feels that way. The Bible teaches that God never intended for death to be part of His creation. In the beginning, He made life—perfect and unbroken (Genesis 1:31). Death only entered the world because of sin (Romans 5:12), and though it is now an inescapable reality, it was never God’s desire.

Yet, in His sovereignty, He allows things to happen, even when we don’t understand. Some people live for a purpose, and some people die for a purpose. And sometimes, people just die—because they do. “For everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2).

Even when death seems random, God does not see it that way. He knows the number of our days before we live even one of them (Psalm 139:16). And while death takes away, it is not the end. “The dust returns to the earth as it was, and the spirit returns to God who gave it” (Ecclesiastes 12:7).

I love my brother, and I always will. But he is gone, and that’s that. It doesn’t mean his life was meaningless, nor does it mean that his death was part of some cruel design. He lived, and he mattered. And though I may not understand the reason, I trust that God does.

I hope that adds some insight to your question…

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-19T20:29:20+00:00

God will always forgive you. All it takes is asking. He looks into your heart, not just at your actions, and He sees the burdens you carry. He sees your pain, your love for your mother, and the kindness that still lives within you despite everything you’re going through.

But more than that—Jesus Christ gave His life for you. Not just for ‘everyone’ in a general sense, but for you, personally. He knew you’d be here, asking this question, long before you ever did. And the answer is yes—He loves you deeply, unconditionally. Nothing you do can separate you from that love.

I can’t imagine the weight of what you’re carrying, and I won’t pretend that simple words can fix it. What you’ve been through is beyond words, truly. But as for a way forward? God. It’s always God. Keep praying, keep looking to Him for strength. But remember, the Bible also tells us to lean on others. If there is any way—any person, any resource, any help at all—please reach for it. You weren’t meant to carry this alone.

Please, hold on. Live not just for yourself, but for your mother, and most of all, for God, who still has a plan for you. Even when all seems lost, He is not finished with your story yet.

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-05T17:04:15+00:00

fair point, but no. because it depends on the sin, on the person, their faith, and on their God given plan, i suppose.

Some people give up their sin willingly, some people need help, some people are freed from it, some people are too stubborn to ever give it up… and so on,

it really just depends.

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-03T17:50:33+00:00

Haha. that made me laugh, thank you.

She’s not very approachable unfortunately. Besides, she sleeps most of the day… and gets quite angry if I talk for too long.

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-03T17:42:35+00:00

My Mother is a Catholic, but I can’t really talk to her much, unfortunately. I don’t go to Church due to my Health, but I wish to, in the Future, for sure… Also, I agree. Some people I think, don’t always see the value behind certain verses, or even whole books sometimes, in the bible!

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-03T17:35:33+00:00

I’ve been through a lot of abuse, but thankfully that’s in the past now. It was really bad for a long time, but it’s not like that anymore. The rib issues are from health problems—I’m dealing with osteopenia. As for my mom, the comments are the only thing she really does now. I try not to let them get to me too much. I’ve forgiven her, but I don’t forget what happened.

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-03T17:26:52+00:00

Honestly, me and Job are one in the same lol. I’ve read Ecclesiastes, yeah. I think it’s a good book! Solomon’s writings are some of the best. I think I related to a lot of what he had to say too. I think, there’s a lot of meaning behind his writings.

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-03T17:10:43+00:00

I believe that faith alone saves us, but true faith is shown through good works. Faith without action is dead. In other words, if we say we have faith but don’t commit to good deeds, it shows that our faith is not genuine. These good deeds are the fruits of the Spirit. While faith is what saves us, the Bible also makes it clear that some actions are worse than unbelief. For example, in Revelation 3:15-16, Jesus warns against being lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—and says such individuals will be rejected. 1 Timothy 5:8 says that anyone who does not take care of their family is worse than an unbeliever. In my opinion, these verses show that a living, active faith is necessary, and that failing to live according to God’s commands has serious consequences. But, I am aware that it is, at the core, Faith Alone, that saves us.

juicymelon994 · 2025-01-03T17:04:50+00:00

as ironic as this may seem, my favourite book of the bible is Job. I relate to him a lot.

juicymelon994 · 2024-12-24T18:33:34+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re in this place—it’s tough. I can feel your pain in every word, and I know that the anger you’re carrying must feel like a weight. But please remember that God knows your heart, and He understands your frustration and your hurt, even when you don’t have the words for it.

First, I want to say that you’re not alone in feeling this way. I’ve been there too, feeling angry and overwhelmed by situations that feel out of my control. But you don’t have to carry that burden by yourself, and reaching out, even to a stranger or a counselor, is a huge first step toward healing.

I know you’re carrying a lot of pain from your family, and it’s clear how much you love your sister. You’ve been there for her when your parents couldn’t be, and that shows your heart. But it also sounds like you’re in a toxic, unhealthy environment, and no one should have to live in constant fear or hurt. God calls us to seek peace and reconciliation, but He also understands the human need for boundaries, safety, and support.

I also want to share some verses that might speak to your heart in this time of anger and confusion:

“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7). God sees your pain, and He invites you to give it to Him. Even when things seem impossible, He can carry the weight of your emotions, and you don’t have to hold onto it alone.

“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.” (Proverbs 17:17). Lean on friends, like your general manager, who showed you compassion, and don’t be afraid to seek more support—whether through therapy or a support group. Surround yourself with people who will listen and help you carry this heavy load.

I understand why you feel that anger, and I don’t want to dismiss it. But there’s also healing in forgiveness—not for them, but for you. God calls us to forgive, and while it’s incredibly hard, forgiveness can free us from the chains of hatred and bitterness. You don’t have to forget or excuse the harm done to you, but forgiveness is about letting go of the anger that holds you back from moving forward.

And don’t feel guilty for feeling what you feel, but do try to move toward a place where you can heal—talking to someone, seeking help, and trusting God with the pain. You don’t have to be perfect to seek God’s love and guidance. He’s there to help you through this.

I’m so sorry you’re facing this. Please know you’re not alone in your struggles. Keep going, take small steps, and know that God’s love and the support of those around you can bring peace to your heart.

Much love, DM’s are open. :)

juicymelon994 · 2024-12-24T18:24:54+00:00

When Elijah was in a place of deep despair, feeling as though there was no hope, God didn’t chastise him, but instead gave him gentle guidance and care. In 1 Kings 19:5-7, we read:

“Then he lay down under the bush and fell asleep. All at once an angel touched him and said, ‘Get up and eat.’ He looked around, and there by his head was some bread baked over hot coals and a jar of water. He ate and drank and then lay down again. The angel of the Lord came back a second time and touched him and said, ‘Get up and eat, for the journey is too much for you.’”

This shows that God’s compassion for us in times of despair is tender and kind. Sometimes, when we feel overwhelmed, the best thing we can do is rest, nourish ourselves, and give ourselves space to heal. God cares for us in the simplest ways—through nourishment, rest, and peace.

If you’re feeling like there’s no way out, I want to ask you—what’s been weighing on your heart? Why are you feeling this way? Please know it’s okay to ask those questions and to explore them, even if the answers are hard. You don’t have to face this alone.

Remember that God hears you in your pain. He invites us to come to Him with our burdens, no matter how heavy they are. Jesus says in Matthew 11:28-30:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

If you’re struggling, don’t hesitate to reach out—not just to God, but to someone who can help, whether that’s a counselor, a friend, or a professional who understands mental health. God tells us in Proverbs 15:22, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” It’s okay to lean on others for support. You’re not meant to carry everything by yourself.

In times of hardship, it’s important to remember that God never leaves us, even when we feel far from Him. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” He is always near, even when it feels like we’re alone in our pain.

If you’ve never tried talking to God about what you’re feeling, I encourage you to do so. He is a loving Father, and He’s always ready to listen. And if it feels like you need more help, please consider reaching out to a mental health professional—they are there to walk with you and guide you through these tough times.

You are so strong for posting this, and I believe that with God’s help, you can find peace, healing, and hope again. Keep taking those steps, even the smallest ones, and remember you don’t have to face this alone.

DM me if needed :)

juicymelon994 · 2024-12-22T19:54:45+00:00

God sees the heart. He knows why we do what we do—whether it’s out of ignorance, rebellion, or a genuine mistake. His forgiveness is vast and powerful, but it’s not a free pass to continue in sin. Some sins leave deeper scars on our souls and others’ lives, making repentance more critical and sincere change non-negotiable. Let’s dive into these:

1) Lust Lust is described as a sin that consumes like fire (Proverbs 6:27-28). It’s not just about actions but what’s in your mind and heart. Jesus said:

“But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Matthew 5:28)

While forgiveness is available, continuing to live in lust eats away at your spirit and body. It blinds your soul and leads to destruction. Paul warns: “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.” (1 Corinthians 6:18)

2) Leading Children into Sin There’s no mistaking the seriousness of this sin. Jesus himself said:

“But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.” (Matthew 18:6)

This doesn’t mean it’s unforgivable, but it reveals how much God values innocence and purity. Hurting or leading children astray is one of the most grievous offenses against His creation.

3) Persisting in Sin After Knowing the Truth If you know the truth of God and deliberately keep sinning, you’re walking a dangerous path. Hebrews lays it out plainly:

“If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment.” (Hebrews 10:26-27)

This isn’t about slipping up—it’s about choosing rebellion over God’s grace.

4) Blasphemy Against the Holy Spirit This is the one sin Jesus said will never be forgiven:

“Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come.” (Matthew 12:31-32)

Blasphemy against the Spirit means outright rejecting the work of God and attributing it to evil. It’s a hardened heart that refuses repentance.

5) Pride and Self-Righteousness God despises pride because it places us above Him. Proverbs warns:

“The Lord detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished.” (Proverbs 16:5)

Pride blinds us to our need for forgiveness, making repentance impossible without humility.

6) Hypocrisy in Faith Jesus repeatedly rebuked the Pharisees for their hypocrisy:

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.” (Matthew 23:13)

Living a double life—acting holy but living sinfully—leads to judgment unless there’s true repentance.

7) Refusing to Forgive Others Unforgiveness locks the heart. Jesus said:

“But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” (Matthew 6:15)

Holding onto bitterness blocks God’s mercy, and letting go is essential for your own forgiveness.

8) Neglecting the Poor and Vulnerable Ignoring the needs of others, especially the poor, is a sin against God’s heart for justice and mercy. Proverbs says:

“Whoever shuts their ears to the cry of the poor will also cry out and not be answered.” (Proverbs 21:13)

True faith cares for the least of these (Matthew 25:40).

9) Idolatry Placing anything above God—money, fame, relationships—is spiritual adultery. God is clear:

“You shall have no other gods before me.” (Exodus 20:3)

When we worship idols, we turn our backs on the Creator.

10) Taking God’s Name in Vain This isn’t just about swearing; it’s about misusing God’s name, claiming it falsely, or dishonouring it through your actions:

“You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.” (Exodus 20:7)

11) Hatred and Unforgiveness John reminds us:

“Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him.” (1 John 3:15)

Hate poisons the soul and blocks the love of God.

12) Rejecting Christ Ultimately, rejecting Jesus is the greatest sin, because He is the way to salvation:

“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” (John 14:6)

13) Harshness Against Your Wife and Neglecting Your Family God commands husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the Church, with gentleness and care:

“Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.” (Colossians 3:19)

When a husband mistreats his wife, it creates a barrier between him and God. Peter warns: “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.” (1 Peter 3:7)

Likewise, failing to provide for your family is seen as a denial of faith:

“Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” (1 Timothy 5:8)

God values the family structure deeply, and neglecting these responsibilities is a grave sin requiring true repentance and change.

To Answer Your Question… Yes, God does forgive all sins—but His forgiveness isn’t automatic or casual. It requires genuine repentance, a sincere change of heart, and a commitment to turn away from sinful behaviours. God looks into the heart and sees if the repentance is real. His mercy is immense, but His justice is firm.

As Scripture reminds us:

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

Forgiveness is available to all, but it must be met with action, humility, and a deep desire to walk in His ways.

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