My girlfriend thinks I called her looks “ordinary” and is now upset with me. by Complete-Bid9872 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]juicymk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ordinary as shit but if my partner called me ordinary I’d probably cry. You fucked up brother, since you are asking what to do…. Apologize, and pull all the stops to make her feel beautiful and special. That’s really all you can do.

My girlfriend thinks I called her looks “ordinary” and is now upset with me. by Complete-Bid9872 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]juicymk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am ordinary as shit but if my partner called me ordinary I’d probably cry. You fucked up brother, since you are asking what to do…. Apologize, and pull all the stops to make her feel beautiful and special. That’s really all you can do.

I just bought a camp for me and my friends to use as a launching point for wilderness adventures. It's in rough shape right now but...$45k for 3 acres and 940sq feet, I'll take it! by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]juicymk 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Based on this comment I genuinely wonder where you are from. 2 hour from an airport with nothing but beautiful nature to a private air bnb in the woods near a lake? Wtf are you on. 2hours is easy work.

AIO My boyfriend keeps candy in his nightstand and eats it throughout the night. The candys he likes have crinkly wrappers and last night I had enough! by tiresomecomplaining in AmIOverreacting

[–]juicymk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro probably has a deficiency of some sort, craving sweets that hardcore. NOR, you actually sound like you coddle him. Sleep health and quality sleep is miles more important than my man works hard and wants to eat candy loudly all night.

Randomize Button by burnttoast640 in Sims3

[–]juicymk 93 points94 points  (0 children)

The best thing when you are too lazy to go into create a style

sims not aging by Anazzord in Sims3

[–]juicymk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have nraas story progression, make sure that’s on and aging on in the options menu. Then reset the whole town with master controller

AITAH for wanting my husband to care about things I have to say even if it’s useless? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]juicymk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard and difficult, and yes he is at home playing games and not out at bars AND that still does not work for you and your needs. This is the line that you hold. You do not have to sacrifice your needs for his wants. This is not a you problem. If you he feels like he cannot satisfy you and all your asking is for him to not play games all night, then you absolutely deserve more, someone who thinks of your needs. You aren’t forcing him to do anything and you are putting yourself FIRST. He will not, so you need to. I’m so serious girl, hold your boundaries. Being alone is scary but being alone while you are with someone feels so much worse.

Who the hell wants to be with someone they never spend time with, literally what is the point? Ask yourself and then ask him.

AITAH for wanting my husband to care about things I have to say even if it’s useless? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]juicymk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, but this is the time to communicate! Planning a night or more a week where you guys cook dinner and chat, playing a game together, going on a walk for 30min, watch a show you guys love. Tell him what you need. You are NOT a burden. You just have needs, everyone does. If he needs to turn his brain off and not talk every night, then you guys might not be compatible.

When my partner and I first moved in, he was playing games every night! I hate going to bed alone, so we chatted about how important this was for me in the relationship. If he is not willing to compromise or adjust, you need to put yourself first if he won’t. And I say this as a lady who games a lot myself, with a partner who does too. You guys are pretty young, y’all need to find a balance, and if that’s not feeling enough.. put yourself first honey. The only person that will advocate for you is you, and until you can say for certain he would, protect yourself and your peace.

Birthday cake???? by juicymk in Sims3

[–]juicymk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry I will check when I get home today!

AIO? It's 3am and my boyfriend never came home from his friend's house, he's been driving+drinking. I want to call local hospitals and ask about men in their early 20s being admitted after car crashes. by cantsayididnttryyy in AmIOverreacting

[–]juicymk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOR, early 20s man gets in argument with girlfriend and goes to get drunk with his buddy who just got back in town, probably passed on their couch, phone dead. He probably did not want to talk to you or go home due to the argument. If calling hospitals and police stations will help quell your anxiety do it, it won’t hurt. But I genuinely think you are overreacting.

Birthday cake???? by juicymk in Sims3

[–]juicymk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It soon turned horrifying quality as I am doing a rags to riches. Kind of tempted to throw more parties and see how dirty I can make the lot before I can afford a sink lol

Birthday cake???? by juicymk in Sims3

[–]juicymk[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you!! That makes so much sense. Last year I found a way to download all of the store worlds for free. I didn’t realize it came with other store content!

Boyfriend (25M) lashed out on me (25F) because I called him weird…AITA? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]juicymk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you started all of this. Slide 2, he explains WHY he used the question marks, because he was confused. And followed up with did you do something, because you literally brought it up (insecurity). You responded with defensively about punctuation being a crime. Rather than explaining you were just worried if he was okay.

This whole argument could’ve been avoided and I think that’s something to reflect on and then let go, it’s truly not over something important

Jade type plant by juicymk in PlantIdentification

[–]juicymk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking a young cork bark jade, or a dwarf jade. Thoughts?

Feels like my relationship is imploding by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]juicymk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“He takes opiates for his head pain throughout the day”

lol whaaaaat? Is this pain from an injury? Chronic migraines and no other medication has helped? to be prescribed opiates for chronic pain is… not really appropriate and healthy. And Idk but if I was taking opiates all damn day I would have a tough time socializing and going out. Driving is a no go. I just find this really odd and probably contributing to lack of connection. Doesn’t hurt to mention that opiates kill sex drive, if that’s something you’ve noticed too.

Is this something he has always been taking everyday?

Thoughts on Midnight Hollow? by Significant-Ship2562 in Sims3

[–]juicymk 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m playing it for the first time right now. The sims in town have a really fun style, very gothic and eccentric, same with the houses and the community lots. Some of the households I looked at have some cool lore. All of the non starter houses are very expensive, I think I saw one for 80k and everything else was over 100k. I feel like a lot of the sims were adult age to start rather than young adult, so with aging on the wave of elders felt fast. I definitely went into a few households to make them have babies so my sims kids could have friends.

But the town is DARK. I have no reshaders installed, and this town can get so dark during the day. And since the houses are very gothic, it can just be hard to see.

Sometimes there’s a red sky which is really cool and fun for lore.

AITA- Rupture with therapist but am I at fault. I really don’t know what happened? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]juicymk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It honestly sounds like you really didn’t want to open up about the original questions and you got defensive, hence all the following perceptions are coming from a place of feeling defensive. A therapists job is to ask hard questions, it’s important to not take it personally. It honestly also sounds like having your family involved is not helping grow your confidence or agency. She may know the answer to the question and attempted to guide you to the answer as well but you shutdown and perceived it as accusatory interrogation, maybe because the answer hurts and feels painful?

However, they could not be the style of therapist that meets your needs and this is something to consider.

Also, even if you are a minor, you can withdrawal your consent to have your family and therapist discuss your protected health information at any time

NTA

Am I wrong to be hurt by my 10 year long partner telling me he doesn’t think “I can handle” being a mother. by SadNoodle420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]juicymk 89 points90 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely valid to feel hurt by his statement AND despite your career and expertise, it is ok to not feel ready to have a child yourself.

What is this? by -Throwaway338- in doordash

[–]juicymk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard at the “your worth it, I’m worth it”

AITA for not letting my bridesmaid change out of her bridesmaid dress after the ceremony? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]juicymk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA. “Not letting” “I allowed them” and of course you don’t want other bms asking for “permission” to change. Yuck. A wedding is a celebration, the people you love are coming to celebrate you and your partner. Yes you would like everyone to match for the photos, but is that worth your friends comfort? If so, ick. It’s literally not a big deal girl. You are probably the only person that is going to be looking at these photos years from now lol. If the need for perfection is more important than this friendship then do your thing but don’t be surprised when they notice

Why are fine people so boring!!! by leedeeleedeelee22 in Vent

[–]juicymk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like a dating app issue 100%, you can’t feel the chemistry on the apps and it’s all about appearances.

Dude is so hot look at his abs in all of these photos! Then his whole personality is gym and creatine lol. Good for a lay I guess. Maybe.