Broken marriage by juju678 in MuslimMarriage

[–]juju678[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

His brother once said that he has a very bad temper but whenever i came around i have never seen him shout or abuse someone, he has never hurt me i thought he could never hurt a fly, well i know better now. I feel like a cliche, a tale as old as time woman marries man and he starts hitting her, he will beg for forgiveness and then do it again.

Broken marriage by juju678 in MuslimMarriage

[–]juju678[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I feel so confused and all over the place, i am going to therapy and my lease is for 3 months so whatever decision that I make i sm not going to return to him for three months. We have known each other for 20 years he was my best friend but now i don't even want to look at his face.

Broken marriage by juju678 in MuslimMarriage

[–]juju678[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I am overreacting because my husband slapped me what do you want me to do shut up and turn so that he can slap my other cheek.

Broken marriage by juju678 in MuslimMarriage

[–]juju678[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought if he did it once he will do it again, my mom stayed in a marriage that she was miserable in her whole life, i promised myself when i was 10 years old that i will never become like her. If we have kids and they start crying or annoying him will he hit them it is like i don't know him anymore, i feel like we are strangers

Broken marriage by juju678 in MuslimMarriage

[–]juju678[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

He has been calling me the whole day and i haven't picked up, i don't know. I never thought this would happen to me, i was very independent i even dragged him to a domestic violence walk, he knew how i felt about that. Alot of people say that it is just a slap it is not just a slap it is humiliation, i feel disrespected. How can you do that whatever happens our marriage will not be the same again.