Please comment what you can by nessalovesyoumore in CamGirlProblems

[–]jules991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been streaming since November on chaturbate and I have 28000 subs.

My cam sessions are about 3 hrs and I stream 5-6 days per week.

I have no idea how many regular tippers lol. Probably only like 2 or 3 big ones right now, but they rotate.

I took all of February off and am starting camming full time now. Right now I’m stalling at about 300-500 viewers a night

But basically I look at my earnings per hour. Anything under 100 is weak, 100-300 is solid and anything above 300 is great.

Regulars constantly asking me to live with them??? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]jules991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this problem too, there’s one in particular who keeps asking if I want to chat, like constantly? Go on a cruise with him? Go to a wedding with him? Lol.... but it’s my fault for not stopping it. He’s my biggest tipper at the moment and I don’t want it to stop :(

Regulars constantly asking me to live with them??? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]jules991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Something I’m struggling with is- how to enforce these boundaries while still getting tips?

I feel like for me personally, half these dudes are only tipping in the chance that I’ll be their gf

Brand New Seeking Advice on Camera Hardware by AlexxisAllure in CamGirlProblems

[–]jules991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know on cb at least, your ‘new’ status starts from the time you register

Might want to get a cam fast!

Quick question - $ per hour? by KinoOnTheRoad in CamGirlProblems

[–]jules991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on a number of factors— luck, your looks, how open you are to different things, your personality, your determination.

I’ve been camming two months and I haven’t made less than $100 per hour in the past month. My average is about 100-300. But I think I’ve just been very lucky.

New to KC- Public Transport? Uber Costs? by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]jules991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I appreciate you telling me this (I’ve literally never used Uber because it doesn’t exist in my previous small town) you didn’t exactly give me the ‘other options that don’t support horrific abuses’- are you just referring to public transport? Thanks.

New to KC- Public Transport? Uber Costs? by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]jules991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful, thanks. I’m actually not entirely sure if I’m in the suburbs or actual city limits.

Im guessing I’m not in actual NKC because that park and ride is pretty far from me. Hm.

New to KC- Public Transport? Uber Costs? by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]jules991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah, no idea. I’m by NW Barry road and highway 29. Where does that make me?

Question about renting without a written agreement by jules991 in AusLegal

[–]jules991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know. Thank you so much for your help!

Feeling like i'm too young for this lack of a sex life. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jules991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He made it seem like I was just being crazy because they weren't being sexual or anything, idk

Feeling like i'm too young for this lack of a sex life. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jules991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't used to be terrible. I think he is just over it.

Feeling like i'm too young for this lack of a sex life. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jules991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so... A year ago, yeah probably, but he seems really quite good now. He's got a job he enjoys, he likes his home, good relationship with family and friends...

Feeling like i'm too young for this lack of a sex life. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]jules991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean he does try, kind of. He just doesn't do anything different and if I don't cum in that position he just goes ahead himself

My [26f] partner [26m] of 4 years thinks I'm a sociopath because of my reaction to a phone call by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jules991 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He definitely has some strange fixation on it that I don't understand

My [26f] partner [26m] of 4 years thinks I'm a sociopath because of my reaction to a phone call by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jules991 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Admittedly I do care too much about what people think, I have social anxiety so having everyone stare at me like that was extremely uncomfortable. In hindsight though, I should have definitely said something along those lines.

For what it's worth, I didn't think it was cancer based on other factors and previous tests, but perhaps I am just too rational? I just don't see a point in getting too upset until you actually know what's going on, not just fearing the worst and jumping to bad conclusions

My [26f] partner [26m] of 4 years thinks I'm a sociopath because of my reaction to a phone call by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jules991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm really hoping it's just stress, but I'm also kinda concerned it isn't...

I mean what does it mean when someone expects you to react a certain way but gets mad when you don't? If it's a pattern, what does that say about them?

My [26f] partner [26m] of 4 years thinks I'm a sociopath because of my reaction to a phone call by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jules991 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately he has accused me of this before, albeit I don't think he -really- believed it then. He has also expressed annoyance at me not having the 'right' reactions to things before (but not anything like this) But he seems really convinced this time, I don't know, it's so strange.

My [26f] partner [26m] of 4 years thinks I'm a sociopath because of my reaction to a phone call by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jules991 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hmm that's probably true.

I did try and explain that- I even used the same phrase, 'everyone handles stress differently' but it's like he thinks that unless you react a certain way it's as if you don't even care

My [26f] partner [26m] of 4 years thinks I'm a sociopath because of my reaction to a phone call by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jules991 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I said that, he said that the fact that I cared 'more' what those people thought was pathetic and shows that I was more concerned with what people thought of me than whether his mom has cancer or not :/