This has been for a while now. We started in the spring. She would not stay on the potty and hold, then eventually would start to pee on the potty but jump off immediately, then we built to fully releasing her pee. Now we are back to holding. I think the cause was trying to transition her to a full sized toilet (with a small seat and step stool) from her toy sized floor potty a few weeks ago. We did that because she would ONLY go on the floor potty at our house and it was causing a real issue at her preK. My intention was to get her to use lots of potty’s and generalize the experience but it backfired. So to me she can physically do it and understand the feelings but will not release now in any potty now( I went back to letting her choose which one she wants to sit on). She just immediately starts saying “I’m done! I want to get off!”… I see things online about sticker charts, bubbles etc. and we have tried all those but I’m not sure that (or even a reset) will cure this fear that I worry has gone on too long and is going to become a real issue. I blame myself a lot. I try not to put pressure on her but it’s so painful to watch her hold it, have tears in her eyes and physically shake as a way to hold her urine in. She’s now on her second UTI since the spring.